Has anyone else found it really difficult to chat with an actual couple? Seems like it’s 99% of the time just the male or the male pretending to be the female. Kinda losing faith of meeting up with an actual full couple! |
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"I must admit I’ve found this. I’m fine chatting with a guy, just say that from the start. I asked someone to take a pic and prove they were female the other night and they suddenly ghosted me  "
We try and set up a 3/4 way what’s app chat asap so we can all see who’s taking part in the conversations. Seems to work for us. Or we use kik |
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I the male half do most of the chatting in messages, I'm very up front about it and I'm sure we put that in the profile too somewhere.
We find it's easier to cut the bull sh!t when I'm chatting as all the other males that try the sex chat in messages get nowhere with me 
We don't really do sex chat anyway, we discuss what we would like to happen etc and take things from there.
When we're happy with a couple or a single we move to another messaging platform and start a group chat  |
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We are a genuine couple the majority of the messaging done by me the male. Devil will read the messages when a chat has been established and looking to plan a meet devil wi join in the chat.
Devil did used to chat the messaging then became very targeted and found the reverse in that couples profiles were fake and single guys. Hence I deal with initial chats now |
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Either of us will pick up a message but we will usually end the message with which one of has sent it, generally though I'll read a message and pop it back to unread for Mrs sinner to pick up.
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"I the male half do most of the chatting in messages, I'm very up front about it and I'm sure we put that in the profile too somewhere.
We find it's easier to cut the bull sh!t when I'm chatting as all the other males that try the sex chat in messages get nowhere with me
We don't really do sex chat anyway, we discuss what we would like to happen etc and take things from there.
When we're happy with a couple or a single we move to another messaging platform and start a group chat "
very similar to us |
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"I the male half do most of the chatting in messages, I'm very up front about it and I'm sure we put that in the profile too somewhere.
We find it's easier to cut the bull sh!t when I'm chatting as all the other males that try the sex chat in messages get nowhere with me
We don't really do sex chat anyway, we discuss what we would like to happen etc and take things from there.
When we're happy with a couple or a single we move to another messaging platform and start a group chat
very similar to us"
Same method for us works well in the most part |
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Seems to be pretty common that, like us, the male does the fabmin.
Perhaps men have a higher tolerance for the “hi’s, hey’s, wuu2” the cock pics and general fuckwittery contained in 90% of messages.
I draw her attention to the interesting stuff. |
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"I the male half do most of the chatting in messages, I'm very up front about it and I'm sure we put that in the profile too somewhere.
We find it's easier to cut the bull sh!t when I'm chatting as all the other males that try the sex chat in messages get nowhere with me
We don't really do sex chat anyway, we discuss what we would like to happen etc and take things from there.
When we're happy with a couple or a single we move to another messaging platform and start a group chat very similar to us"
We find it works well |
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"I the male half do most of the chatting in messages, I'm very up front about it and I'm sure we put that in the profile too somewhere.
We find it's easier to cut the bull sh!t when I'm chatting as all the other males that try the sex chat in messages get nowhere with me
We don't really do sex chat anyway, we discuss what we would like to happen etc and take things from there.
When we're happy with a couple or a single we move to another messaging platform and start a group chat
very similar to us
Same method for us works well in the most part "
Most of the time 
Curvy gets a bit overwhelmed at times with too many messages to deal with, I have plenty of free time while I'm at work so I sift through them |
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"Has anyone else found it really difficult to chat with an actual couple? Seems like it’s 99% of the time just the male or the male pretending to be the female. Kinda losing faith of meeting up with an actual full couple!"
We have been looking for a couple recently and it's really hard work. |
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"Has anyone else found it really difficult to chat with an actual couple? Seems like it’s 99% of the time just the male or the male pretending to be the female. Kinda losing faith of meeting up with an actual full couple!"
We are new-ish to Fab as a couple, and to be honest I (F - Mrs) do most of the chatting although J (Mr) reads the convos and will occasionally pop into the messages. We are open about this on our profile, and try and remember to tell people when we chat to them who is replying.
We do have a WhatsApp group with another couple for more instant messaging than Fab, and would be happy to have other people join that as well if they wanted for social chat. |
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