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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think if you family knew of your swinging lifestyle their opinion of you would change ? Would it discussed them ? or would they be ok with it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure why my family would need to know about our choices ... I would not discuss with them my sex life albeit swinging or not ..what we choose to do is out business and ours alone."
They don't need to know, it's hypothetical question.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people's families do know,I've met a lady who said her son was on here and they had a good enough relastionship to be comfy knowing both on here,and I'm sure I seen a post with a lady saying her daughter was on here and they introduced her to it,
But as sometimes the norm in here people just want to give a smart arsed answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some people's families do know,I've met a lady who said her son was on here and they had a good enough relastionship to be comfy knowing both on here,and I'm sure I seen a post with a lady saying her daughter was on here and they introduced her to it,
But as sometimes the norm in here people just want to give a smart arsed answer "
I know there is always one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum and brother know. They are both very close to me and I felt I couldn't keep it a secret from them. They've seen how happy I am having this as my lifestyle choice and they both know I'm bi. It gave my mum the courage to tell me she's bi too - my brother came out when he was 17. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure why my family would need to know about our choices ... I would not discuss with them my sex life albeit swinging or not ..what we choose to do is out business and ours alone."
totally agree! For all eberyones knows,your fam member might be a swinger and has done for ages,you just dont know.
To us,something like this is not discussable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure why my family would need to know about our choices ... I would not discuss with them my sex life albeit swinging or not ..what we choose to do is out business and ours alone.
totally agree! For all eberyones knows,your fam member might be a swinger and has done for ages,you just dont know.
To us,something like this is not discussable"
the point is would your opinion of them change if you found out they were ? If you was from a strict, conservative family I'm sure you'd want to hide it from them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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wouldnt change my opionion of them if we are at it ourselves..IF we wasnt,its upto them what they dop with their lives. BUT how would we know theyre in this scene,its not something you come across in convo is it lol |
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"wouldnt change my opionion of them if we are at it ourselves..IF we wasnt,its upto them what they dop with their lives. BUT how would we know theyre in this scene,its not something you come across in convo is it lol"
I met a women who found out her brother was on here and had seen her profile. So it does happen and secrets come out!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can honestly say I think my mum would be jealous and ask how she can join, and my dad would be mortified. He can't cope with the thought of me having sex in a long term relationship, let alone with people I hardly know! |
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"I can honestly say I think my mum would be jealous and ask how she can join, and my dad would be mortified. He can't cope with the thought of me having sex in a long term relationship, let alone with people I hardly know!"
lol funny, Never understood why Dads get so protective and jealour of there kids relationships
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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago
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some of my family know but they also know what im like concerning sex lol.i dont care who knows (adults only), its my life, i play safe, and i dont bother them with their sex lives.i dont force it into conversation either. and if my dad could do this, im sure he would.he still thinks he's 18 i reckon  but if i ever saw family on here, i can honestly say, i dont know what i would do.probably just ignore and let them get on with it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My mum kind of put two and two together and sadly her maths isnt to bad 
She knows i meet guys off the net tho its not a subject we ever talk about nor have i ever confirmed her suspisions, just every now and again she comes up with some story that she heard on 'the radio'  about women who get attacked by men they have met off line, i knows shes fishing but i just go along with the conversation like its a real story
i wouldnt tell anyone, i have no need to
I would hate my kids to know as i want to be seen as mum not some woman who fucked strangers of the internet, that would bother me a lot |
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