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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips.  |
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips. "
Exactly this!! |
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips.
Exactly this!!"
The same exactly this xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips.
Exactly this!!
The same exactly this xx
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips. "
Meli, you used the C word!!! 
I agree with all of the above though  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips.
Meli, you used the C word!!!
I agree with all of the above though "
I know, shocking isn't it?  Cleary being corrupted. |
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"I much prefer it to oral. "
Same here.
But what is it with "finger blasting" like there is no tomorrow! Does anyone like this? I guess some must, but not hear. Its usually followed by an excuse to stop and run! |
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"I much prefer it to oral.
Same here.
But what is it with "finger blasting" like there is no tomorrow! Does anyone like this? I guess some must, but not hear. Its usually followed by an excuse to stop and run!"
Not a fan here! Most of the men I’ve met seem to think it’s what women want though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm proud to say that I have never "Fingerblasted" any girl, in fact the last girl I fingered ended up squirting just from that. One girl said it was like being played with by an Octopus, fingers and other things everywhere at once. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I like to rub her pussy outside her knickers and kiss her then go down and eat it .. the fingering just seems "high school" days to me lol maybe I'm weird |
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips. "
Yup nothing worse that feeling on your clit area that reminds you of a Chinese burn !
It’s not like playing street fighter where you rub the buttons furiously cause you haven’t got the skill or knowledge to know the correct combo for a hadoken 
A good fingering paired up with a great kiss can create some extremely wet and messy results  |
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Like a few have said already done well it’s just another bow in the experience.
I enjoy sucking a nipple whilst using my fingers to explore, tease, play and build. If it brings the female to an orgasm that’s an added bonus.
Which is great foreplay to me kissing down the body and licking her out, the feeling/taste of a pussy already wet from fingering is perfect!
But finger bashing works for some and not for others, likewise concentrating on clit is horrific for some and like turning the taps on for others. Age old communication is key |
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"Not sure why I've never been a fan of fingering . I'd rather eat a pussy . Ladies what do you prefer?"
When it's done well it's a wonderful part of foreplay.
Rubbing like a boy scout trying to light a fire, not so much.
Guys, remember porn isn't real.. |
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"Not sure why I've never been a fan of fingering . I'd rather eat a pussy . Ladies what do you prefer?"
It depends on the fingerer, if fingering and oral is done well it will definitely put me in the mood to enjoy a big stiff one!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to give both and keep switching around. Nothing I like better than pulling her legs back and sliding in with 2 or 3 fingers while enjoying a deep kiss
Always hope and listen to make sure the woman is enjoying it as much s me though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love being fingered, as long as it’s done with some finesse . Being fingered while having oral can also be hot "
Oral and fingering and rubbing the Clit I do enjoy tbh |
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It’s not like playing street fighter where you rub the buttons furiously cause you haven’t got the skill or knowledge to know the correct combo for a hadoken
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glol.
Every game is different, sometimes you can master it, sometimes you need to keep throwing money at it and practice |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
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Don't confuse me ffs. I'm still on the schoolboy scale of bases.
You know, first base kissing, second base tits over clothing, third tits under clothing etc.
If drop a base now after all these years, it's going to really throw me...
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Not sure why I've never been a fan of fingering . I'd rather eat a pussy . Ladies what do you prefer?"
It depends entirely on your technique.
If you're doing it carefully and skilfully as if trying to summon a demon then all is good.
If you resemble someone at a Bernard Matthews factory trying to stuff a turkey then probably not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure why I've never been a fan of fingering . I'd rather eat a pussy . Ladies what do you prefer?
It depends entirely on your technique.
If you're doing it carefully and skilfully as if trying to summon a demon then all is good.
If you resemble someone at a Bernard Matthews factory trying to stuff a turkey then probably not.
A"
 Brilliant!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure why I've never been a fan of fingering . I'd rather eat a pussy . Ladies what do you prefer?"
I find being fingered while having my pussy eaten to be my preference! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure why I've never been a fan of fingering . I'd rather eat a pussy . Ladies what do you prefer?"
Why choose when both at the same time feels so good |
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"Depends on the individual. If done right can be great. But, the best by far is having your pussy licked and devoured!! "
Good fingering takes a lot of precise skill. Small movements over were she responds to most. You have to listen attentively. Trouble is when her legs start flying you lose the sweet spot and have to remember where it is. Ideally it's a two hand job attending the clit and the gspot. The best results is these movements in total unison twisting a hard nipple also in unison.
You can play a woman like a musical instrument but the deep moans and higher squeels. Any requests? |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"I prefer it to oral... Unless it happens during oral, then I might actually cum
God, I wouldn't want to have to choose one over the other!! 
Both so good..."
Oral without fingers is good, it just isn't likely I will cum, without the fingers too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the individual. If done right can be great. But, the best by far is having your pussy licked and devoured!!
Good fingering takes a lot of precise skill. Small movements over were she responds to most. You have to listen attentively. Trouble is when her legs start flying you lose the sweet spot and have to remember where it is. Ideally it's a two hand job attending the clit and the gspot. The best results is these movements in total unison twisting a hard nipple also in unison.
You can play a woman like a musical instrument but the deep moans and higher squeels. Any requests? "
You have 3 hands? |
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"Depends on the individual. If done right can be great. But, the best by far is having your pussy licked and devoured!!
Good fingering takes a lot of precise skill. Small movements over were she responds to most. You have to listen attentively. Trouble is when her legs start flying you lose the sweet spot and have to remember where it is. Ideally it's a two hand job attending the clit and the gspot. The best results is these movements in total unison twisting a hard nipple also in unison.
You can play a woman like a musical instrument but the deep moans and higher squeels. Any requests?
You have 3 hands?"
3legs you mean? Ha
Nope middle finger on the G thumb on the C, left thumb and index twisting a hard nipple requires great dexterity and concentration doing it all in unison my wrist gets cramp after half an hour mind so I tell her to hold up my elbow for me haha |
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips. "
this perfectly put |
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"Hubby make me cum over and over again from fingering but he spent time learning just how to slowly get me going. Xx "
Thay have to take the time to see and feel what you like ,that's what separates the men from the boys haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some like it others don't.
Generally of you communicate with the female she will guide you.
Have noticed some men rushing it and raming too many fingers in.
Nice and slow "
100% this. That area for me can’t be rushed. Build up, gentle whilst increasing pressure then going in, better than most mens ‘licking pussy for hours’  |
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No, I have a no fingers inside rule. They jab away, thinking their make me squirt. Which I won't. Plus if they are smokers, I'll end up with thrush, 9 out of 10 times. Costing me £12 to treat. The bactria on their hands reacts with the ph balance of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some like it others don't.
Generally of you communicate with the female she will guide you.
Have noticed some men rushing it and raming too many fingers in.
Nice and slow "
Words of wisdom.........I think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer being fingered 100 times more than receiving oral, one leaves me usually feeling very wet and awesome, whilst the other sends me to sleep with boredom"
Have you ever had to be woken up whilst your partner was dinning at the Y? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering is like playing an Acoustic guitar
1 needs to know when to be delicate with the low notes 
And when to up the tempo for the final 'concerto' "
Crescendo? |
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"I love it, it seems to be a dying art though
Defo a dying art! I absolutely adore it, specially when being told a nice dirty story or fantasy
.. makes me all gushy  "
How about this little piggy went to market? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it, it seems to be a dying art though
Defo a dying art! I absolutely adore it, specially when being told a nice dirty story or fantasy
.. makes me all gushy "
Is it an art? Ot just a sense of the mood and occasion? |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Fingering is like playing an Acoustic guitar
1 needs to know when to be delicate with the low notes
And when to up the tempo for the final 'concerto'
Crescendo?"
Thats the word haha damn autocorrect got me again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering is like playing an Acoustic guitar
1 needs to know when to be delicate with the low notes
And when to up the tempo for the final 'concerto'
Crescendo?
Thats the word haha damn autocorrect got me again "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh if done well, both are very hot for me (F)…I’m lucky J is good with his fingers, hands, mouth, tongue…
He knows exactly how to touch me, and what gets me going, and will listen to any guidance I give (not that he needs much help) - I cum really quickly when he uses his fingers on me, love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it! I went with a guitarist recently thinking he would be good with his hands but turns out he's only good at the guitar! Lol. "
He didn’t strike a chord? |
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"Some of the most orgasms given to ladies were...licking nice clit..push finger deep..slowly gradually first tgen increase tge rhythm..uncontrollable shaking wet orgasms..love it"
exactly what I love
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't confuse me ffs. I'm still on the schoolboy scale of bases.
You know, first base kissing, second base tits over clothing, third tits under clothing etc.
If drop a base now after all these years, it's going to really throw me...
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Oh man, you just wait until you get to 23rd Base! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guaranteed orgasm every time for me! I also love watching other women being touched or playing. We've watched all kinds of porn to see what i like and it's way up there for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A bit of variety is key
Clit play with tongue and fingers
2 fingers up..slightly at a angle to hit that g spot is essential
Work up the rhythm sometimes
Sometimes slow and lick the clit at the same time
Wife loves it |
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Fingerbang bang bang Fingerbang bang bang bang bang
I'm gunna fingerbang, bang you into my life.
Girl, you like to fingerbang and it's alright.
Cuz' I'm the king of fingerbang, yea, that's right.
I'll just fingerbang, bang you every night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wonder if some men are a little unsure how to do it and whether they're doing right.. Some women don't help guide the guy and so it could deter him from fumbling around getting no response.. Haha |
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"Tricky one because I like both really. Fingered while clit licked. Sorry you have to multi task with me lol
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I thought this was a no brainer when eating out but clearly not according to the OP, double the pleasure I say |
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"Yes if there's a slow build up. Like a finger gently tracing the outline of my lips through my knickers, teasing me until I'm wet and can't wait to feel them inside of me. Or if when we're kissing a finger slowly travels down south and begins to explore my cunt, pausing and testing to see my reactions. Very very hot.
Less hot is the friction burn of someone rubbing a mile away from where my clit is or finger bashing me without the warm up.
Although the latter could be hot if I was being pinned down and they knew exactly how to make me squirm and moan under their finger tips.
Exactly this!!
The same exactly this xx
yes definitely this "
Totally agree |
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