There's a word for the joy you feel at seeing your partner happy: compersion. It's often used by polyamorous people to explain the warm-and-fuzzy feelings they get from seeing their partner happily dating other people. It's not directly tied to sex – it's all about emotion. Cuckolding, on the other hand, is rooted in something closer to sexual humiliation. It relies on the idea that it is appalling for one man to 'take' another man's wife. The word comes, quite pleasingly, from the word 'cuckoo', because a cuckoo lays its eggs in another bird's nest, thus sneakily getting its chick raised by someone else.
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By *un_ajMan
over a year ago
York |
Your analogy is spot on in my opinion.
Most couples are really into, as opposed to the actual cuckoo aspect. The thought of pleasing should the main aspect for everyone in this type of situation.
The man watching the woman be pleased, the woman enjoying herself and pleasing their partner, and the cuckoo for pleasing them both by its performance. |
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