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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just need to have a moan for a moment.
Went into my inbox and scrolled- it was just an endless line of dick photos in the profiles )with the occasional chest).
Am feeling Dicksaturated.
What I don’t get is why men think this is the first thing I want to see? Have they had such a great response from women that I’m the odd one out here?
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"What men put on their profiles is entirely up to them and nobody else has the right to be critical. If you don't like then scroll by them."
Equally, what men put on their profiles we have a right to criticise if our inboxes are full of their unwanted dicks  |
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"What men put on their profiles is entirely up to them and nobody else has the right to be critical. If you don't like then scroll by them.
Equally, what men put on their profiles we have a right to criticise if our inboxes are full of their unwanted dicks "
I was referring to their profiles, not to private messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What men put on their profiles is entirely up to them and nobody else has the right to be critical. If you don't like then scroll by them.
Equally, what men put on their profiles we have a right to criticise if our inboxes are full of their unwanted dicks "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just need to have a moan for a moment.
Went into my inbox and scrolled- it was just an endless line of dick photos in the profiles )with the occasional chest).
Am feeling Dicksaturated.
What I don’t get is why men think this is the first thing I want to see? Have they had such a great response from women that I’m the odd one out here?
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I think it's a last resort for some. They get no reply so assume women Swingers just want cock.
Or they have given up on ever meeting a real live person so have a wank over the thought of women seeing their dick profile pic when they send a message.
It's a form of flashing. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't care what people have on their profiles if they don't appeal to me I just move on.
My message inbox usually doesn't have many dick pics on it but then I keep tight filters so I don't get many messages, so what does get through my filters rarely bothers me and I can just delete the ones that don't interest me.
If I see a profile I like I have no issue sending a first message or replying if they have messaged me first. |
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"What men put on their profiles is entirely up to them and nobody else has the right to be critical. If you don't like then scroll by them."
True it’s up to both the profile owner and the viewer and dare I say how you feel at the time you are scrolling. So if you are in a gentle browsing state then perhaps you would like something more sedate, however, if you all full on horny then a profile like yours is a golden nugget I mean your pic number one, bang straight in the zone love it xx |
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I don't tell anyone what they should have on their profile. I have a dick, therefore I have dick pics because for every woman whinging about dick pics is another who appreciates them.
Never sent an unsolicited dick pic but if it's on my profile its there because I'm comfortable having it there and I'm not forcing anyone to look at it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all.
Good to get grounded by your feedback.
You’re right- it’s not for me to say what others put on their profile.
It has dawned on me that I need to maybe hit delete on all the unwanted emails. I try to as much as I can but can’t keep up. So it’s in me to remove what I don’t want to see.
Maybe if I did that there would be so many in my inbox.
Zoom out Profile shots def help because at least I can find them again. Trying to find that one email amongst all the zoomed in dicks is much harder.
Thanks!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slight sidetrack / Honest question: Would my profile photo be considered a dick pic? "
This is fine for me. It’s elegant and more importantly if we had been chatting and I scrolled to find you in my inbox easily identifiable as you (versus close ups) |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"I just need to have a moan for a moment.
Went into my inbox and scrolled- it was just an endless line of dick photos in the profiles )with the occasional chest).
Am feeling Dicksaturated.
What I don’t get is why men think this is the first thing I want to see? Have they had such a great response from women that I’m the odd one out here?
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Can't say I've ever sent a pic of my dick to woman on here as an opener lol. Only nice and polite, yet that still gets a big fat zero response |
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I know what you mean, it’s not exactly my thing but I sympathise with these blokes. Especially if you don’t want to plaster your face on here I think that’s their version of “sexy”. Us girls defo have a better ability to take a sexy pic that doesn’t have to be explicit. I think a little mystery is sexy! |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"I know what you mean, I wish there was an option to hide explicit photos."
There is "hide all site photos", (which according to the site is for when you want to be "discrete"  ) which you could deploy when you're feeling like braving your inbox... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean, it’s not exactly my thing but I sympathise with these blokes. Especially if you don’t want to plaster your face on here I think that’s their version of “sexy”. Us girls defo have a better ability to take a sexy pic that doesn’t have to be explicit. I think a little mystery is sexy! "
SO true. Women have boobs, curves, lots of things to show that can be sexy or appealing. Men, not so much, unless you’re lucky enough to have good muscle definition. So we’re kinda stuck with our dicks, huh?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What men put on their profiles is entirely up to them and nobody else has the right to be critical. If you don't like then scroll by them."
The OP wasn't talking about their profiles, she was talking about what she saw in her inbox. I have to say that I agree with her too. I want to meet guys with substance, not just a cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean, it’s not exactly my thing but I sympathise with these blokes. Especially if you don’t want to plaster your face on here I think that’s their version of “sexy”. Us girls defo have a better ability to take a sexy pic that doesn’t have to be explicit. I think a little mystery is sexy!
SO true. Women have boobs, curves, lots of things to show that can be sexy or appealing. Men, not so much, unless you’re lucky enough to have good muscle definition. So we’re kinda stuck with our dicks, huh? "
Men can be creative and have great photos without showing their cock. E.g. a nice towel wrapped round your waist, open just enough to show a naked leg and to make us want to see more in the flesh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean, I wish there was an option to hide explicit photos.
There is "hide all site photos", (which according to the site is for when you want to be "discrete" ) which you could deploy when you're feeling like braving your inbox..."
Ooh I wasn’t aware of this at all! Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean, it’s not exactly my thing but I sympathise with these blokes. Especially if you don’t want to plaster your face on here I think that’s their version of “sexy”. Us girls defo have a better ability to take a sexy pic that doesn’t have to be explicit. I think a little mystery is sexy!
SO true. Women have boobs, curves, lots of things to show that can be sexy or appealing. Men, not so much, unless you’re lucky enough to have good muscle definition. So we’re kinda stuck with our dicks, huh?
Men can be creative and have great photos without showing their cock. E.g. a nice towel wrapped round your waist, open just enough to show a naked leg and to make us want to see more in the flesh."
I agree. A sexy jawline. A crisply cut hairline. An open suit/shirt. Just a smile with lush lips. Literally anything that distinguishes you.
Anyways I’ve sorted it. I hit delete on every single email I’ve ever received yesterday and started a whole fresh inbox. I feel better for it!
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If you don't want to see dicks then surely don't join a swinging site then moan about it?? If it was Facebook etc fair enough but to complain about seeing a cock when the site is aimed at a sexual audience is a bit too much |
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"I know what you mean, I wish there was an option to hide explicit photos.
There is "hide all site photos", (which according to the site is for when you want to be "discrete" ) which you could deploy when you're feeling like braving your inbox..."
I know, but that's "all* photos, so no use |
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"If you don't want to see dicks then surely don't join a swinging site then moan about it?? If it was Facebook etc fair enough but to complain about seeing a cock when the site is aimed at a sexual audience is a bit too much "
I like to know what he's offering as only can be with a pretty cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to see dicks then surely don't join a swinging site then moan about it?? If it was Facebook etc fair enough but to complain about seeing a cock when the site is aimed at a sexual audience is a bit too much
I like to know what he's offering as only can be with a pretty cock "
can look at what I've got anytime xxx |
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Always men that get slated ..
Why don’t you just be nice op ?
If that’s what guys want to send it’s upto them .
Some females ask for dick pics ..
Everyone is looking for different things ..
I don’t have and never send dick pics .. but that’s my choice .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always men that get slated ..
Why don’t you just be nice op ?
If that’s what guys want to send it’s upto them .
Some females ask for dick pics ..
Everyone is looking for different things ..
I don’t have and never send dick pics .. but that’s my choice .."
Women should be glad men have unsolicited dick pics as their profile pic. Pics we can't avoid.
Men can choose to have their dick out but women should not be able to choose not to see them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to see dicks then surely don't join a swinging site then moan about it?? If it was Facebook etc fair enough but to complain about seeing a cock when the site is aimed at a sexual audience is a bit too much
I like to know what he's offering as only can be with a pretty cock "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all. I’m not new to this and am fully aware of the site I’m on.
I think I got to the heart of the issue chatting about this. It is that if I go into my inbox looking for a message and all I see is a long column of dick photos I literally can’t find the person I want to reply to because every man looks the same and becomes indistinguishable.
I’ve sorted it now by deleting all messages going back years and will make sure I delete immediately.
It’s a dick overwhelm admin problem! Lol
Thanks for all your help x |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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We find the easiest thing to do is to go through your local updates (and forum posts) and block all the dicks, it takes a while the first time, but eventually it's quick and easy to maintain dick free updates - your welcome |
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"Equally, what men put on their profiles we have a right to criticise if our inboxes are full of their unwanted dicks
I was referring to their profiles, not to private messages."
OP says went into her inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see a cock pic, and a naked body pic. I like to see what I'm getting! Otherwise I might as well just get picked up in a pub or club and hope he's hung! |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t need to ask twice "
Well I never get naked pictures from women , And no answers from hi how are you doing which is polite conversation , so can’t comment really but can imagine it’s not nice as a opening hello cock
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t need to ask twice Well I never get naked pictures from women , And no answers from hi how are you doing which is polite conversation , so can’t comment really but can imagine it’s not nice as a opening hello cock "
If anyone messages me, I would like more than "Hi, how are you doing?" |
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"Wouldn’t need to ask twice Well I never get naked pictures from women , And no answers from hi how are you doing which is polite conversation , so can’t comment really but can imagine it’s not nice as a opening hello cock
If anyone messages me, I would like more than "Hi, how are you doing?""
I sometimes get novel excerpts written to me describing what we would both do together if I replied back lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anyone messages me, I would like more than "Hi, how are you doing?"
I sometimes get novel excerpts written to me describing what we would both do together if I replied back lol "
Happy medium, eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I don't like the bum hole pics. Women or male. "
The one thing that doesn’t do anything for me is pics of usually very busty women trying or succeeding to lick their own nipples. I don’t know why , but it’s a real turn off for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anyone messages me, I would like more than "Hi, how are you doing?"
I sometimes get novel excerpts written to me describing what we would both do together if I replied back lol
Happy medium, eh? "
A happy medium would be good. Find out if I'm interested in you before you ask to send dick pics. |
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I find single male profiles too full of dick, and couples profiles not full if enough of the guy at all, and too female orientated.
Couples, im here for both sexes, i wanna see as much of the man bod as i do the woman's.
Char x |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"I find single male profiles too full of dick, and couples profiles not full if enough of the guy at all, and too female orientated.
Couples, im here for both sexes, i wanna see as much of the man bod as i do the woman's.
Char x"
Respect is saying hello, Not show me your t-ts, If you then respond we get Conversation after that and find out what you like or fancy or not is cool too , being nice is a start not to objectify women or be judge mental , It might get me nowhere but that’s how I chat |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I just need to have a moan for a moment.
Went into my inbox and scrolled- it was just an endless line of dick photos in the profiles )with the occasional chest).
Am feeling Dicksaturated.
What I don’t get is why men think this is the first thing I want to see? Have they had such a great response from women that I’m the odd one out here?
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Perhaps because for some women (like me) it is the first thing they want to see. Unfortunately for men every woman is different and they don't know what you're going to like or dislike until they try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just need to have a moan for a moment.
Went into my inbox and scrolled- it was just an endless line of dick photos in the profiles )with the occasional chest).
Am feeling Dicksaturated.
What I don’t get is why men think this is the first thing I want to see? Have they had such a great response from women that I’m the odd one out here?
Perhaps because for some women (like me) it is the first thing they want to see. Unfortunately for men every woman is different and they don't know what you're going to like or dislike until they try. "
It’s not hard to ask if you want to see it before sending it though is it?
If you ask, you’re never going to get it wrong. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I just need to have a moan for a moment.
Went into my inbox and scrolled- it was just an endless line of dick photos in the profiles )with the occasional chest).
Am feeling Dicksaturated.
What I don’t get is why men think this is the first thing I want to see? Have they had such a great response from women that I’m the odd one out here?
Perhaps because for some women (like me) it is the first thing they want to see. Unfortunately for men every woman is different and they don't know what you're going to like or dislike until they try.
It’s not hard to ask if you want to see it before sending it though is it?
If you ask, you’re never going to get it wrong."
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