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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys & Gals
We’ve been a soft swap couple our whole time on fab, and whilst we’ve not got lots of experience we’ve enjoyed this level of fun.
Recently, we’ve experienced a lot of knock backs due to being soft swap only, which is fine as we all want different things and no one should change what they’re looking for to suit others.
However, our question is how did you find going from a soft swap couple to then a full swap couple? Did you just take the plunge and do it, put a lot of thought into it or what?
This may seem pointless to a lot of people but we’re finding soft swap only couples where there’s a 4 way mutual attraction difficult to come by. If you are one of the elusive soft swap couple please feel free to contact us  |
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We're not your target market so this isn't to suggest that we are  .
The thing is if you find it difficult to find a four way attraction for soft swing it'll be no different for full swap. We went from full to soft but noticed no difference.
As to whether you should just dive in or talk about it a lot I'd say that depends on your personal dynamic. Do you like to have set boundaries? |
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We started off with a soft swing meeting that didn't involve any cross over contact of any sort. Both couples did there own thing.
Second meet with the same couple there was mutual kissing, stroking etc then the third meet it was everything but "penetrative sex".
As I recall Sue sucked the guy off while they did 69 and his wife did the same for me.
I say,as I recall, it was a very long time ago!
After that we thought we might as well go for full swop but had to find another couple as the soft swingers weren't up for it.
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By *ocusMan
over a year ago
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"We started off with a soft swing meeting that didn't involve any cross over contact of any sort. Both couples did there own thing.
Second meet with the same couple there was mutual kissing, stroking etc then the third meet it was everything but "penetrative sex".
As I recall Sue sucked the guy off while they did 69 and his wife did the same for me.
I say,as I recall, it was a very long time ago!
After that we thought we might as well go for full swop but had to find another couple as the soft swingers weren't up for it.
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This ideally what we’re for. Meet a couple we get along with then play soft, working up to…wherever we all feel comfortable. |
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"Guys & Gals
We’ve been a soft swap couple our whole time on fab, and whilst we’ve not got lots of experience we’ve enjoyed this level of fun.
Recently, we’ve experienced a lot of knock backs due to being soft swap only, which is fine as we all want different things and no one should change what they’re looking for to suit others.
However, our question is how did you find going from a soft swap couple to then a full swap couple? Did you just take the plunge and do it, put a lot of thought into it or what?
This may seem pointless to a lot of people but we’re finding soft swap only couples where there’s a 4 way mutual attraction difficult to come by. If you are one of the elusive soft swap couple please feel free to contact us "
Honestly, we don't give a shit about the knockers.
We do what we want, and we are sure you do.
Enjoy the journey. |
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"We started off with a soft swing meeting that didn't involve any cross over contact of any sort. Both couples did there own thing.
Second meet with the same couple there was mutual kissing, stroking etc then the third meet it was everything but "penetrative sex".
As I recall Sue sucked the guy off while they did 69 and his wife did the same for me.
I say,as I recall, it was a very long time ago!
After that we thought we might as well go for full swop but had to find another couple as the soft swingers weren't up for it.
This ideally what we’re for. Meet a couple we get along with then play soft, working up to…wherever we all feel comfortable."
But you are a single guy! |
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