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Morning lovely fabbers.
What role that kissing plays in your arousal?
I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)
It is a turn, I am curious to know how much |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me! "
It is a shame isn’t it? I prefer to not meet people who don’t kiss as well. |
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"Can’t have a meeting without the kissing , it’s a huge turn on for me.
. I have a friend that I meet for coffee in between work and we just kiss and get worked up (a lot )"
Wow!!! I would love to be involved with regular meets with someone like that. Amazing!!!! |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me! "
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird. |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird."
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms. |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."
Its a most do part |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."
I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility. |
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A deep, lasting kiss is truly the most intimate and wonderful thing that we can share. A good kiss can lead to other pleasures and a bad one can kill passion stone dead.
What role does it play in arousal?
The most important for me. X |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.
I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility. "
What’s said in the forums compared to my inbox are very different things. I take the “no kissing, no meet” comments with a gigantic pinch of salt as it doesn’t match the reality in my experience |
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By *jb1811Man
over a year ago
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Absolutely need to kiss to get aroused. A good kiss is better than anything to get the motor running so to speak.
Plus always get told I'm a good kisser, so don't want it to go to waste after all. |
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"Morning lovely fabbers.
What role that kissing plays in your arousal?
I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)
It is a turn, I am curious to know how much"
It plays no role in my arousal when I'm with people other than my husband. My triggers centre around other things in that situ. There's such a huge and varied range of ways in which humans get sexual pleasure and for me kissing passionately with relative strangers is not one I enjoy.
I understand that this excludes us from most people who contribute to the forum but that's the way this swinging lark works. You find out who you're compatible with and take it from there. |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.
I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility.
What’s said in the forums compared to my inbox are very different things. I take the “no kissing, no meet” comments with a gigantic pinch of salt as it doesn’t match the reality in my experience "
You're gorgeous, I bet your in box is busy . We get enough interest to keep us happy |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.
I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility.
What’s said in the forums compared to my inbox are very different things. I take the “no kissing, no meet” comments with a gigantic pinch of salt as it doesn’t match the reality in my experience "
Exactly. I don't kiss men, but I have never, ever in the decade we've been swinging had any guy show the slightest reservation in fucking me. |
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Kissing definitely makes things more sensual and as a single guy helps with arousal, always will be part of a more memorable meet
Without it, sometimes meets can feel more mechanical, many coupes have limits, it’s a sausage market out there and you just have to respect the boundaries and go with the flow… |
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"Kissing a woman is an essential start to the arousal process, full of passion before stripping each other off and exploring each other's bodies"
Do you kiss men? Just curious if it's too personal ignore me |
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me! "
Oh god...I wouldn't be able to play with anyone who doesn't like kissing |
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"Morning lovely fabbers.
What role that kissing plays in your arousal?
I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)
It is a turn, I am curious to know how much
It plays no role in my arousal when I'm with people other than my husband. My triggers centre around other things in that situ. There's such a huge and varied range of ways in which humans get sexual pleasure and for me kissing passionately with relative strangers is not one I enjoy.
I understand that this excludes us from most people who contribute to the forum but that's the way this swinging lark works. You find out who you're compatible with and take it from there. "
You called it right in the earlier post. It’s the differences that make fab work.
Personally, I don’t think swinging and fab meets are only about penetrative play. And kissing is essential in meets with full on sex - I do ok in terms of meets where I don’t miss kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."
Exactly how long do you have to have known someone before you’ll kiss them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!
I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.
I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.
Exactly how long do you have to have known someone before you’ll kiss them?"
I need to have romantic feelings for them and want to pursue them as a love interest rather than a random fuck. |
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"Morning lovely fabbers.
What role that kissing plays in your arousal?
I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)
It is a turn, I am curious to know how much
It plays no role in my arousal when I'm with people other than my husband. My triggers centre around other things in that situ. There's such a huge and varied range of ways in which humans get sexual pleasure and for me kissing passionately with relative strangers is not one I enjoy.
I understand that this excludes us from most people who contribute to the forum but that's the way this swinging lark works. You find out who you're compatible with and take it from there.
You called it right in the earlier post. It’s the differences that make fab work.
Personally, I don’t think swinging and fab meets are only about penetrative play. And kissing is essential in meets with full on sex - I do ok in terms of meets where I don’t miss kissing"
In terms of forum contributors there's a fairly narrow band of criteria for fab meets and limited acceptance of anything outside of that. |
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"Morning lovely fabbers.
What role that kissing plays in your arousal?
I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)
It is a turn, I am curious to know how much"
our personal preference is that the act of kissing with someone you're not emotionally involved with (ie girlfriend/boyfriend - married etc) is off limits. It sort of feels more loving, meaningful,intimate than just swinging fun activities. It doesn't have that personal sensation of deepness when not a person you're in love with. |
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