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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are your thoughts if people have one or two verifications from a long time ago?
I've just seen a profile with a verification summary saying verified by 1 person 6 years ago.
Not sure what to think of it... |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
Some swingers take their time.
We give single guys advice when telling thrm to be patient so it's onk fair to disj it out to everyone. Just talk and enjoy the community. If it happens, great.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At least they have a Veri. Some people don't get veried once they have one as they don't want them.Or maybe they haven't met anyone since. You won't know unless you ask. "
How easy was it to get veris 6 years ago though? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some swingers take their time.
We give single guys advice when telling thrm to be patient so it's onk fair to disj it out to everyone. Just talk and enjoy the community. If it happens, great.
C"
If what happens? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you rather they delete the veris and then, what, get your vote of confidence? I struggle to see how anyone having a veri is any sort of issue/negative, regardless of when it was.
You could always just make your own mind up about someone and completely ignore their verification summary. |
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My last verification and meet was over a year ago. Don’t really come onto fab that often these days although have been on and off most of day today. Suppose it’s a matter of choice when seeing a six year old verification however it depends upon how you feel about the individual such as in the vibe you get. It’s wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you rather they delete the veris and then, what, get your vote of confidence? I struggle to see how anyone having a veri is any sort of issue/negative, regardless of when it was.
You could always just make your own mind up about someone and completely ignore their verification summary. "
More so how easy was it to get a veri 6 years ago and why none for such a long time.
I didn't say it was an issue. Just said I didn't know what to think about it and asked others opinions.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"At least they have a Veri. Some people don't get veried once they have one as they don't want them.Or maybe they haven't met anyone since. You won't know unless you ask.
How easy was it to get veris 6 years ago though?"
Probably pretty much the same as today depending on what gender you are.A Veri only confirms the person is who they say on their profile. I don't pay a lot of heed to them and prefer to chat and make up my own mind anyhow. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My last verification and meet was over a year ago. Don’t really come onto fab that often these days although have been on and off most of day today. Suppose it’s a matter of choice when seeing a six year old verification however it depends upon how you feel about the individual such as in the vibe you get. It’s wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me. "
I don't think a year or even 2 years would bother me because if covid etc. 6 years seems a long time ago to me though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At least they have a Veri. Some people don't get veried once they have one as they don't want them.Or maybe they haven't met anyone since. You won't know unless you ask.
How easy was it to get veris 6 years ago though?
Probably pretty much the same as today depending on what gender you are.A Veri only confirms the person is who they say on their profile. I don't pay a lot of heed to them and prefer to chat and make up my own mind anyhow. "
Didn't they use to accept phone veris? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"At least they have a Veri. Some people don't get veried once they have one as they don't want them.Or maybe they haven't met anyone since. You won't know unless you ask.
How easy was it to get veris 6 years ago though?
Probably pretty much the same as today depending on what gender you are.A Veri only confirms the person is who they say on their profile. I don't pay a lot of heed to them and prefer to chat and make up my own mind anyhow.
Didn't they use to accept phone veris? "
Is it a phone Veri they have. And it was before I was on here that they did.
If you're that worried about someone having one Veri just move on.Like I said I don't pay much heed to veris I tend to make my own mind up about someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"At least they have a Veri. Some people don't get veried once they have one as they don't want them.Or maybe they haven't met anyone since. You won't know unless you ask.
How easy was it to get veris 6 years ago though?
Probably pretty much the same as today depending on what gender you are.A Veri only confirms the person is who they say on their profile. I don't pay a lot of heed to them and prefer to chat and make up my own mind anyhow.
Didn't they use to accept phone veris?
Is it a phone Veri they have. And it was before I was on here that they did.
If you're that worried about someone having one Veri just move on.Like I said I don't pay much heed to veris I tend to make my own mind up about someone. "
Like I say I was curious as to others views as I wasn't sure what to make of it. Something I've not noticed before and was surprised |
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There's nothing to think of it other than they've not had a meet or been verified for a long time
It's tough for some people to get meets on here
Maybe they were in a relationship so stopoed looking on FAB, maybe they had health issues that stopped them wanting to meet
Maybe they don't put an importance on them so have been meeting but haven't asked for given a veri for a while
Id be more interested in recent photos than veris |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts if people have one or two verifications from a long time ago?
I've just seen a profile with a verification summary saying verified by 1 person 6 years ago.
Not sure what to think of it..."
They met that person 6 years ago and that person verified them. 
On a serious note though, far better that than putting you trust in a new profile with no verifications or even one or two. Too many time wasters and dreamers on here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing to think of it other than they've not had a meet or been verified for a long time
It's tough for some people to get meets on here
Maybe they were in a relationship so stopoed looking on FAB, maybe they had health issues that stopped them wanting to meet
Maybe they don't put an importance on them so have been meeting but haven't asked for given a veri for a while
Id be more interested in recent photos than veris "
Photos are from 2016. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts if people have one or two verifications from a long time ago?
I've just seen a profile with a verification summary saying verified by 1 person 6 years ago.
Not sure what to think of it...
They met that person 6 years ago and that person verified them.
On a serious note though, far better that than putting you trust in a new profile with no verifications or even one or two. Too many time wasters and dreamers on here!"
Weirdly I've met guys with no veris and not thought anything of it. |
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"There's nothing to think of it other than they've not had a meet or been verified for a long time
It's tough for some people to get meets on here
Maybe they were in a relationship so stopoed looking on FAB, maybe they had health issues that stopped them wanting to meet
Maybe they don't put an importance on them so have been meeting but haven't asked for given a veri for a while
Id be more interested in recent photos than veris
Photos are from 2016."
Id definitely want to see up to date photos
Like you we've met people with no veris so no up to date pics would definitely be a dealbreaker over the old veri |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last one was January this year.. i had meeting after that but if people dont want to do a review then i guess can force them to.. it is difficult to know if to meet someone if they haven't got anything.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing to think of it other than they've not had a meet or been verified for a long time
It's tough for some people to get meets on here
Maybe they were in a relationship so stopoed looking on FAB, maybe they had health issues that stopped them wanting to meet
Maybe they don't put an importance on them so have been meeting but haven't asked for given a veri for a while
Id be more interested in recent photos than veris
Photos are from 2016.
Id definitely want to see up to date photos
Like you we've met people with no veris so no up to date pics would definitely be a dealbreaker over the old veri "
I didn't realise they were that old until you mentioned it and I went back and checked lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My last one was January this year.. i had meeting after that but if people dont want to do a review then i guess can force them to.. it is difficult to know if to meet someone if they haven't got anything.. "
6 months is different to 6 years lol |
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"What are your thoughts if people have one or two verifications from a long time ago?
I've just seen a profile with a verification summary saying verified by 1 person 6 years ago.
Not sure what to think of it..."
I've got 1 veri from 4 years ago...
The rational explanation for the gap is that I was in a monogamous relationship for most of that interval, so my profile was inactive. It could be that the person in question was similarly inactive for a few years for whatever reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My last one was January this year.. i had meeting after that but if people dont want to do a review then i guess can force them to.. it is difficult to know if to meet someone if they haven't got anything..
6 months is different to 6 years lol"
Oh true.. but iv also heard people say they get put of if a person has to many on there profile to |
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