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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Never visited a swinging club, although judging by the comments I have seen on here, they sound a lot of fun. However, I can't help but wonder whether the number of other single males would mean that the chances of actually meeting and having fun with them would be evry slim. Do couples and women who go find that there is more than enough choice?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends. I've been to a club night and pretty much played with every single guy there.
it depends though. some couples don't go for single guys. but if you go to a club and talk you may get a good verification and that would help.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally when I go to a club I go with the attitude that I'm there to chat to people, meet new people and maybe use the sauna/hot tub. If I get an opportunity to play with a lady or a couple that's great, but if I don't then hopefully I will still have had a good time.
I've been about ten times in last eight months with that attitude and I don't think there has been any time when I didn't play to some extent. A couple of nights it was just a bit of a kiss and roaming hands in the hot tub, other times played with three different ladies.
What I would say is it depends on what you want. At the club I go to they have a greedy girls night on a Wednesday and if you go that night there is a good chance you will get to play with a lady as one of several guys. But a lot less likely (though not) to get a private session with a lady or couple.
If you go on a mixed night then there are more couples and ladies so more chance to have a private session if you are prepared to go and talk to them and get to know them a bit, but far less chance of walking into a playroom and being able to join in in a group play session.
One last tip: even on a greedy girls night it is well worth going up to and talking to the ladies in the bar rather then just wondering around the play areas hoping to join in as you get a 'herd' of guys wandering around and if the lady recognises you as someone who made the effort to talk to her earlier then she is more likely to choose you to give the nod to join in. Plus like I said at the beginning, if you talk to plenty of people you will have a better night all round anyway. |
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