"Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why "
I'd always thought a no thank you to a message would be nice, but it's normally ignorance. Probably due to the 200 odd idiots that have messaged them before you... |
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over a year ago
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I get well over a hundred messages a day. I have found that even a polite response of no thank you results in more messages from them explaining why I should. It's too much like hard work. I have to ignore and then block if needed to keep my sanity tbh |
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"I get well over a hundred messages a day. I have found that even a polite response of no thank you results in more messages from them explaining why I should. It's too much like hard work. I have to ignore and then block if needed to keep my sanity tbh"
This.
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By (user no longer on site)
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They probably don’t want any comebacks off someone that can’t take a no. A lot of people can’t take a not interested/rejection. (Not saying you can’t) Also it can be almost impossible for some to reply to everyone due to the sheer number of messages…
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I agree when you get 100’s of messages a day. I’ve responded to people who have asked a question or asking for help and not received a thank you, kiss my arse or anything!!!!!
Just bad manners in my opinion |
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"I get well over a hundred messages a day. I have found that even a polite response of no thank you results in more messages from them explaining why I should. It's too much like hard work. I have to ignore and then block if needed to keep my sanity tbh"
This
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes you are right but when people ignore you you start lost your confidence and don't understand why "
It's because we get 100s of messages a day. Replying to 100s takes alot of time. And it also gives most a reason to reply back to us, trying to convince us why we shouldn't be saying no.
Fab rules state no reply means not interested. Delete your sent emails then you won't be obsessing over why x,y,z didn't reply.
Focus on the ones they do reply and wish yo meet, not the ones that don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps you are messaging people without reading what they’re looking for?
Also, as others have said, no thank you often leads to why and then on to abuse. |
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"Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why "
possibly look at your profile text and elaborate. We wouldn’t respond to that
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I don't get peoples mentalities, if someone says no, that's it, end of. Just idiots spoiling it..."
So the idiots are spoling it by preventing you getting actively rejected, and having to settle for bring passively rejected by getting no response at all?
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You text them one word and expect a response? How is someone meant to reply to 'nice' are you referring to their boobs, their hair, the pile of disregarded clothes in the corner of the photo, you need to send people a message they can work with a message worthy of a reply
Can you imagine how many messages some profiles get a day
Someone once said do you call up every takeaway and say thanks but no thanks to the menu popped through your door, no & the same applies to here
A message unless it's a reply is unsolicited and therefore shouldn't expect a response infact by responding youll then be able to override any filters they may set
It really should be made clearer on the sign up process that no response means no thank you
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"Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why "
Please use the Forum search and read every other post on this subject.
Then you'll know  |
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