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"i just like to ask the question what would you do if you found out that your son or daughter are into swinging ?"
Wasn't this asked a couple of days ago?
For me I see it as none of my business what they get up to as long as it's entirely consensual. I would be willing to advise them on safety or other things. I would just try to make sure our paths don't cross on the scene. Luke |
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I would rather they did than "go out on the pull". My daughter knows. I cant remember exactly how she found out, but ive been open and honest with her ( to some degree!) about it all. I would also rather know if she did join. So we can avoid each other and not cross meets lol |
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I have met (Not played with) a few at clubs in fact.
One was a daughter who worked at a club in north London her mum come in for a look and chatted. Not sure if the mother played that night or was just check out where her daughter worked. Daughter loved to play on other nights but was a little shy that night understandable.
And also a different time at a nudist spa in north London i was chatting to a lady in the hot tub and she was there with her daughter chilling. Both went off with men separately to private rooms. I think in that case the mother had been swing for years the daughter was curious.
All adults but I must admit I couldnt do it myself |
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I have a naturist freind that they are also swingers and they were very happy when one of their children a few years after being married decided to join then and they even went to a party together and often join with things happening all over. |
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By *la87Man
over a year ago
acton |
I once had a guy from a couple on here try to get me to sleep with his wife and daughter. Daughter was 16. I truly truly hope he was just a weirdo who was into weird stuff and not what he claimed to be. |
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Not something I need to worry about as my boys are 5 and 3 months.
But hypothetically speaking there'd be lots of what ifs on the subject. Like would they know we know? would they know we do too? If the answer is yes to both then it'd be try to talk so neither is any the same party/club. If the answer no to either or both questions then I don't know how you'd avoid the potential of bumping into one another. |
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Back in the day, my daughter was, and was well pissed off when she found out I`d been to a swingers club before her. This was after divorce. We just agreed to compare diaries before we went to the club. Otherwise it could have been a bit like the Renault advert if we had both been in the dark room at the same time - Papa? Nicole?. Doesn`t bare thinking about. We actually know quite a few people whose sons, daughters, fathers, mothers etc are swingers. |
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"Back in the day, my daughter was, and was well pissed off when she found out I`d been to a swingers club before her. This was after divorce. We just agreed to compare diaries before we went to the club. Otherwise it could have been a bit like the Renault advert if we had both been in the dark room at the same time - Papa? Nicole?. Doesn`t bare thinking about. We actually know quite a few people whose sons, daughters, fathers, mothers etc are swingers."
That should read - we actually know quite a few swingers etc etc etc |
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"Back in the day, my daughter was, and was well pissed off when she found out I`d been to a swingers club before her. This was after divorce. We just agreed to compare diaries before we went to the club. Otherwise it could have been a bit like the Renault advert if we had both been in the dark room at the same time - Papa? Nicole?. Doesn`t bare thinking about. We actually know quite a few people whose sons, daughters, fathers, mothers etc are swingers.
That should read - we actually know quite a few swingers etc etc etc"
Very healthy attitude |
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Both of our parents know about our swinging life. Not sure they know exactly the things we do but they both support us as long as its good for tye marriage and everyone is happy and safe.
In the future if our toddler grows up and wants to swing it'll be her decision and we'll support her too. |
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As long as they're safe, happy and in a stable state of mind completely not a problem. It's a great scene why wouldn't we want them to enjoy it?
However would definitely need to de-conflict clubs/party night. As much as we support their interests we don't want to be in the same club at the same time as them (and I'm sure that would be the same for them too). And since we found the scene first we would call first dibs and veto on clubs and parties. |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
A girl who I worked with (early 20's) was at a ladies only social club event. Basically a hen night without a hen. She was with a group of friends and they were all from military families. One friend said to another, "isn't that your mum" and they all looked to see her friends mum on her knees in front of a stripper in the process of consuming copious amounts of squirty cream.
I think you get the picture and I'm not sure that's something you can never unsee as a daughter |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
I can understand the "their lives, their choice" comments. But I would like to avoid the4m at a club or party.
Our kids do know, Innuendo was outed at work, so because there were a few business tie-ups, they knew the same people, we had to tell them. Both were OK with it and our daughter even lent her mum a full length coat to travel in one night.
When I asked if they were OK with it after I told them, our daughter said "No I am bloody not!"
And when asked the reason, she just said that it was not right that her mum was getting more sex than she was...   |
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"I can understand the "their lives, their choice" comments. But I would like to avoid the4m at a club or party.
Our kids do know, Innuendo was outed at work, so because there were a few business tie-ups, they knew the same people, we had to tell them. Both were OK with it and our daughter even lent her mum a full length coat to travel in one night.
When I asked if they were OK with it after I told them, our daughter said "No I am bloody not!"
And when asked the reason, she just said that it was not right that her mum was getting more sex than she was... "
Good for mum |
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