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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some guys can't read they just look at the pictures x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload "

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload "

Yes. Some arsehole come begging for it, then starts being rude when he got turned down.

Silly really, I am sure I recognise him....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This site is full of fakes and bullshitters, you just got to work out which ones, which isn’t that difficult to be honest

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This ain't your 1st rodeo... But you know you can tweak your settings for incoming messages, right?

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By *ustus696969Couple  over a year ago

Southampton

Not just that some couples message a few times then delete messages and don’t respond

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"This ain't your 1st rodeo... But you know you can tweak your settings for incoming messages, right? "

Yeah we know.

But being honest some decent honest guys can be good to talk to. They come just to talk and want nothing more and we always enjoy chatting to decent folk.

So we leave the channel open.

Then the scavenging arseholes come swooping in and spoil everything.

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By *omRachCouple  over a year ago

Wirral


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!"

Soooooo bloody annoying, if somebody messages us and its clear they haven't read our profile they just get buttoned.

Guys, if you too lazy to read something that we have put time and effort into then pretty sure you're gonna be a lazy fuck too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Block men from messaging, and only contact the ones your interested in chatting to.

Or am I being to simple?

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By *ecky and justCouple  over a year ago

Godalming

Lazy winks, messages or friends requests without having met or chat, they get the block button.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Block men from messaging, and only contact the ones your interested in chatting to.

Or am I being to simple? "

Yes you are.

We are quite happy for men to contact us just for a chat, the ones that are respectful and just want to chat.

If we blocked single guys we would not chat to genuine ones again.

Why can't the wanker ones just learn to behave??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We seem to attract the weekend warriors ( silhouette profiles)

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!"

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple  over a year ago

Maidstone

Don’t bother replying, just ignore them and block if they keep pestering. Don’t feed the trolls.

Ed

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?"

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??"

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ"

Thank you.

You are so right

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ"

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I had a poor education which has left me with a short attention span and the inability to read I only come here to look at the pictures

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds? "

I doubt it's a prerequisite but I would read a thread before contributing as it makes for a better post. Maybe it's just me but I prefer to see the whole picture not just a snapshot.

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By *ikesEmBigMan  over a year ago

Herts


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!"

Reads like a single bloke wrote it

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

I doubt it's a prerequisite but I would read a thread before contributing as it makes for a better post. Maybe it's just me but I prefer to see the whole picture not just a snapshot."

Yeah, I get that but don't see it as that much of a biggy but the condesending undertone are cheap shots, thoughtless and arrogant. I think the wider issue here is the amount of people who don't read profiles full stop and couples aren't great either in my experience.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!"

Those people tend not to visit the forums, what with all the reading involved.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds? "

That's standard etiquette on every forum I've ever been on.

Not doing that is like sitting in a group and not listening to what others have to say, then launching your opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload "

If you don't mind foregoing the fucking now, I'd happily just pop round and join you for a pizza, I'll even bring a brush for your legs

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds? "

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

Reads like a single bloke wrote it "

Cool, we are glad you think that.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload

Yes. Some arsehole come begging for it, then starts being rude when he got turned down.

Silly really, I am sure I recognise him...."

Why is he silly because you recognise him?

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload

Yes. Some arsehole come begging for it, then starts being rude when he got turned down.

Silly really, I am sure I recognise him....

Why is he silly because you recognise him? "

Silly because if he runs his mouth he is no longer hiding behind a screen.

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By *inkycreamCouple  over a year ago

manchester

Mostly fantasist's and rightfully so arseholes.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Mostly fantasist's and rightfully so arseholes. "

Sitting there with their little cocks in hand.

Sad.

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By *andG2018Couple (MM)  over a year ago

Nottingham

As you say there are lots of “Arseholes” on here but not limited to single guys there are loads of so called couples and women who fit into this category grrr

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload "

You sound like a female version of me

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By *JstarsoloWoman  over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


" Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

That's standard etiquette on every forum I've ever been on.

Not doing that is like sitting in a group and not listening to what others have to say, then launching your opinions."

Is there a standard etiquette? I don't see it in the Forum Rules. Just an observation.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload

Yes. Some arsehole come begging for it, then starts being rude when he got turned down.

Silly really, I am sure I recognise him....

Why is he silly because you recognise him?

Silly because if he runs his mouth he is no longer hiding behind a screen."

Why not just block him instead of waiting to see if he runs his mouth so you can get revenge on him.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload

Yes. Some arsehole come begging for it, then starts being rude when he got turned down.

Silly really, I am sure I recognise him....

Why is he silly because you recognise him?

Silly because if he runs his mouth he is no longer hiding behind a screen.

Why not just block him instead of waiting to see if he runs his mouth so you can get revenge on him.

"

Why is a good word.

Why didn't read and respect our profile?

Respect works both ways. You don't give it, you don't get it.

That is when Karma steps in

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

That's standard etiquette on every forum I've ever been on.

Not doing that is like sitting in a group and not listening to what others have to say, then launching your opinions.

Is there a standard etiquette? I don't see it in the Forum Rules. Just an observation."

In my opinion, reading what others have said first is so fundamental that it shouldn't be necessary to write it down.

Plus, as I said, that's how every other forum I've ever used has worked - people read as well as write.

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By *JstarsoloWoman  over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


" Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

That's standard etiquette on every forum I've ever been on.

Not doing that is like sitting in a group and not listening to what others have to say, then launching your opinions.

Is there a standard etiquette? I don't see it in the Forum Rules. Just an observation.

In my opinion, reading what others have said first is so fundamental that it shouldn't be necessary to write it down.

Plus, as I said, that's how every other forum I've ever used has worked - people read as well as write."

Well people use the forums in different ways, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!"

I can relate to this and think it’s just Fab in general as I get Single Women & Couples sending friend requests and silly one line messages too.

It comes with the territory I’m afraid but the only way to deal with is to delete and move on, as it’s hard to control so I choose to go with serenity

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do..."

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

You profile is kind of full of hate. Try more positivity.. negativety and hate will attract the like.

For example is there really any need to state you hate winks? There no need to even look at them if you're not interested. Just ignore them, as well and the messages that are bothering you.

If you won't block single guys then ya got to put up with the wankers

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up."

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"You profile is kind of full of hate. Try more positivity.. negativety and hate will attract the like.

For example is there really any need to state you hate winks? There no need to even look at them if you're not interested. Just ignore them, as well and the messages that are bothering you.

If you won't block single guys then ya got to put up with the wankers

"

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t you just adjust your filters?

We have taken single guys off and works a treat!

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!"

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I have to admit I don't read a whole thread before commenting.

Firstly, if there's loads of comments I don't want to read them all.

Secondly, I want to base my comments on the OP and not what other people have written.

Unfortunately, this means some questions are repeated, but I would be quite ok if mine was ignored and answered above.

I'd see it if/when I've scrolled up and read the whole thing.

If lots of replies are quoted though, I'll skip most of them.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan  over a year ago

All over the place

Came to see pictures of arsehole, left disappointed lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Came to see pictures of arsehole, left disappointed lol"

See plenty of spread ones on my local updates page, barf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have to admit I don't read a whole thread before commenting.

Firstly, if there's loads of comments I don't want to read them all.

Secondly, I want to base my comments on the OP and not what other people have written.

Unfortunately, this means some questions are repeated, but I would be quite ok if mine was ignored and answered above.

I'd see it if/when I've scrolled up and read the whole thing.

If lots of replies are quoted though, I'll skip most of them.

"

This

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Don’t you just adjust your filters?

We have taken single guys off and works a treat! "

We understand.

But like we said earlier, it means we can't chat to the decent ones.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don’t you just adjust your filters?

We have taken single guys off and works a treat!

We understand.

But like we said earlier, it means we can't chat to the decent ones."

I think that having filters on stops that specific category from messaging you, but you can still message them which then enables you to proceed with said person. Don’t quote me on that but just a thought.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread"

See that's the typical single guy's view.

We don't honestly care how many women single guys get to fuck.

Fuck them all for what we care.

But simply read and respect our choices. Is that really a lot to ask??

These threads always show who has manners, and who doesn't have manners on this site!

Crazy isn't it??

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Don’t you just adjust your filters?

We have taken single guys off and works a treat!

We understand.

But like we said earlier, it means we can't chat to the decent ones.

I think that having filters on stops that specific category from messaging you, but you can still message them which then enables you to proceed with said person. Don’t quote me on that but just a thought. "

Fair point. Thing is we never go looking for single guys, decent or otherwise.

Sometimes a decent one will say hi.

It reminds us that there actually are decent guys on here!

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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By *it-of-AlrightMan  over a year ago

South west


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload "

Haha love this

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By *ornucopiaMan  over a year ago

Bexley


"Don’t you just adjust your filters?

We have taken single guys off and works a treat!

We understand.

But like we said earlier, it means we can't chat to the decent ones."

Cue a rush of messages from the self styled 'decent ones'!

Might it not be simpler to block all singles and instead go looking for 'decent ones' to chat to(sic) when the mood takes?

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By *JstarsoloWoman  over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I have to admit to being confused. The Op profile says not remotely interested in single guys and respect that, but from this thread it seems you do want to hear from single guys, but only the best of the bunch. How are guys to know that?

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By *lexV16Man  over a year ago

Welling


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!"

Sorry, what is the point of this post?

Decent guys will read you profile and will not message you. The rest who message you clearly doesn’t read. So you are not losing anything blocking single guys from messaging you. Easy! And no need to be arrogant and using f word for all single guys.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

Sorry, what is the point of this post?

Decent guys will read you profile and will not message you. The rest who message you clearly doesn’t read. So you are not losing anything blocking single guys from messaging you. Easy! And no need to be arrogant and using f word for all single guys. "

You are fully entitled to voice your opinions, just as we are.

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread

See that's the typical single guy's view.

We don't honestly care how many women single guys get to fuck.

Fuck them all for what we care.

But simply read and respect our choices. Is that really a lot to ask??

These threads always show who has manners, and who doesn't have manners on this site!

Crazy isn't it??"

I'm not referring to 'we' I'm referring to 'YOU' the male of the couple. There you go again writing things like 'typical single male' response, the easy no thought process cop out way out of an argument. As for manners you really should reread what you've written in this thread to see you have the least of all manners here. Telling people to "read the fucking profile" calling men arseholes, scavengers, beggers and a threating innuendo at the guy you think you know. Have a word with yourself will ya.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm sure people don't read profiles, mine definitely states 'straight' but had a chap message offering a blow... Blocked straight away.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread

See that's the typical single guy's view.

We don't honestly care how many women single guys get to fuck.

Fuck them all for what we care.

But simply read and respect our choices. Is that really a lot to ask??

These threads always show who has manners, and who doesn't have manners on this site!

Crazy isn't it??

I'm not referring to 'we' I'm referring to 'YOU' the male of the couple. There you go again writing things like 'typical single male' response, the easy no thought process cop out way out of an argument. As for manners you really should reread what you've written in this thread to see you have the least of all manners here. Telling people to "read the fucking profile" calling men arseholes, scavengers, beggers and a threating innuendo at the guy you think you know. Have a word with yourself will ya."

Come on now, let's be honest.

Do you really think you're opinion has an effect on what we say.

Get yourself a life, there's a good chap now.

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By *lexV16Man  over a year ago

Welling


"

Come on now, let's be honest.

Do you really think you're opinion has an effect on what we say.

Get yourself a life, there's a good chap now."

So you asked a question on the forum and now you saying you don’t give a f..ck on opinions here. I’ll ask again, why did you create this post on forum, OP?

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"

Come on now, let's be honest.

Do you really think you're opinion has an effect on what we say.

Get yourself a life, there's a good chap now.

So you asked a question on the forum and now you saying you don’t give a f..ck on opinions here. I’ll ask again, why did you create this post on forum, OP?"

Feel free to give your opinion, however it is of no interest to us.

Read again our original post. Not asking opinions, simply stating a fact.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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You are right about one thing though 16, we are not interested in opinions.

We get real people who agree with us, then idiots who don't.

But the facts are that it happens, so why do we need an opinion on it?

Give your opinion by all means but honestly, get over yourself.

Your opinion may be of most importance to you, but not us!

Enjoy your evening.

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By *lexV16Man  over a year ago

Welling

Okay, as you asked here is my opinion. Your profile screams only arseholes need apply.

If you are really interested in decent/exceptional (choose your word) guys - remove the line that you are never interested in single guys and put some words of what kind of single guys you are interested in. It will not change the number of arseholes messaging you (as they don’t read) but number of decent guys messaging you will increase for sure.

Enjoy

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Okay, as you asked here is my opinion. Your profile screams only arseholes need apply.

If you are really interested in decent/exceptional (choose your word) guys - remove the line that you are never interested in single guys and put some words of what kind of single guys you are interested in. It will not change the number of arseholes messaging you (as they don’t read) but number of decent guys messaging you will increase for sure.

Enjoy"

We didn't ask your opinion, however when given quite calmly we are happy to answer.

We honestly aren't looking for single guys at all. Not at all.

BUT, we have had a very few contact us who have actually been decent to chat to.

It is a reminder to us that there are good and bad everywhere.

But as for meeting, we will never meet a single guy.

Hope that clears it up!

Enjoy your Saturday!!

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread

See that's the typical single guy's view.

We don't honestly care how many women single guys get to fuck.

Fuck them all for what we care.

But simply read and respect our choices. Is that really a lot to ask??

These threads always show who has manners, and who doesn't have manners on this site!

Crazy isn't it??

I'm not referring to 'we' I'm referring to 'YOU' the male of the couple. There you go again writing things like 'typical single male' response, the easy no thought process cop out way out of an argument. As for manners you really should reread what you've written in this thread to see you have the least of all manners here. Telling people to "read the fucking profile" calling men arseholes, scavengers, beggers and a threating innuendo at the guy you think you know. Have a word with yourself will ya.

Come on now, let's be honest.

Do you really think you're opinion has an effect on what we say.

Get yourself a life, there's a good chap now."

Like I said from the outset. Pathetic.

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By *ohnandJulie OP   Couple  over a year ago

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"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread

See that's the typical single guy's view.

We don't honestly care how many women single guys get to fuck.

Fuck them all for what we care.

But simply read and respect our choices. Is that really a lot to ask??

These threads always show who has manners, and who doesn't have manners on this site!

Crazy isn't it??

I'm not referring to 'we' I'm referring to 'YOU' the male of the couple. There you go again writing things like 'typical single male' response, the easy no thought process cop out way out of an argument. As for manners you really should reread what you've written in this thread to see you have the least of all manners here. Telling people to "read the fucking profile" calling men arseholes, scavengers, beggers and a threating innuendo at the guy you think you know. Have a word with yourself will ya.

Come on now, let's be honest.

Do you really think you're opinion has an effect on what we say.

Get yourself a life, there's a good chap now.

Like I said from the outset. Pathetic. "

We totally agree.

You are.

Now run along and talk to someone who actually gives a fuck about your opinion.

We don't.

Night night.

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By *onnyadtMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Out in force tonight on here.

"Do we meet single guys?"

Come on guys, read the fucking profile!!

You really seem to dislike boardering on hate single guys having read your profile. I'd calm down a bit and just take it in your stride, delete the message and think nothing more of, alot less stress. Why are you letting single guys message you in the first place if you don't like them?

You are right, we hate the arrogant wanker ones.

But there are nice ones who actually only want a harmless chat.

Have you not read our earlier posts??

Like the singles guys who dont read profiles he clearly hadn't read all your responses in this thread you had explained twice why you haven't got single guys blocked before he posted.

KJ

Ah! Can't win. I read their profile based my question around that but now I should have read the whole thread PMSL . It clearly isn't okay to ask a previously asked question for some and get it attributed to being a single guy. Since when has it been a pre-requsite to read a whole thread before contributing? Do you know how pathetic that sounds?

The only one who sounds pathetic is you.

Why would you pass comment on a thread without reading all the contents?

After all, it is the only intelligent thing to do...

You do realise that you've started a thread whinging about single guys then bemoaming the fact you're getting messages from the ones you don't want to recieve them from but you won't block single guys. If you don't block then you've only yourselves to blame, it's called the 'opportunity cost' (new phrase for ya) of having your filters open, are you unable to see that? Either put your filters up and seek the singles you desire or put up and shut up.

Thanks. We value your opinion so highly!!

Your sarcasm doesn't cut it and neither do you get off so lightly.

You insisted on reading the whole thread which actually makes your argument worse. You say you don't block singles guys because you enjoy talking to the nice ones but not a single word on your profile suggests this, all there is is aggression for single guys, upto you what you put on there, your profile. So a guy approaches you because they're allowed to by you on a swingers site and low and behold they're interested in shagging the Mrs but in your eyes they're 'scavengers and beggars' (your words) who've overstepped your unspoken boundary and took the piss.

You're coming across as the guy in a couple who's hating the fact single guys are getting to fuck random women which you don't like one bit, but don't don't worry it's not gonna happen on your watch we can see that and you're gonna bash em when you can to make yourself feel better with a bit of forumite support hence this thread

See that's the typical single guy's view.

We don't honestly care how many women single guys get to fuck.

Fuck them all for what we care.

But simply read and respect our choices. Is that really a lot to ask??

These threads always show who has manners, and who doesn't have manners on this site!

Crazy isn't it??

I'm not referring to 'we' I'm referring to 'YOU' the male of the couple. There you go again writing things like 'typical single male' response, the easy no thought process cop out way out of an argument. As for manners you really should reread what you've written in this thread to see you have the least of all manners here. Telling people to "read the fucking profile" calling men arseholes, scavengers, beggers and a threating innuendo at the guy you think you know. Have a word with yourself will ya.

Come on now, let's be honest.

Do you really think you're opinion has an effect on what we say.

Get yourself a life, there's a good chap now.

Like I said from the outset. Pathetic.

We totally agree.

You are.

Now run along and talk to someone who actually gives a fuck about your opinion.

We don't.

Night night. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's always the same at the weekend. Apparently I'm up my own arse cause I don't wanna meet someone who 'needs fucked now'

Nah mate I'm lying in bed with legs hairier than Chewbacca & bloated on a carb overload "

This made me laugh. Most people don’t realise the reality behind the pics

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