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I am only 10 mintues away....
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By *heAddams OP Couple
over a year ago
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We (or I guess they are mainly directed at Jill) often get messages along the lines of
"I am only 10 minutes away from you"
"I live just round the corner"
And many other variations on the same theme.
What is it that makes men think that the fact they are close makes them more attractive?
When I have asked them to explain, I just get abuse.
I am genuinely interested in trying to understand their mindset?
Hey ho.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live in the coast of North Devon so I get a lot of message from guys that say they are only "10 minutes" or "just down the road", where they in Wales so probably about 4 hours away and 170 miles.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We (or I guess they are mainly directed at Jill) often get messages along the lines of
"I am only 10 minutes away from you"
"I live just round the corner"
And many other variations on the same theme.
What is it that makes men think that the fact they are close makes them more attractive?
When I have asked them to explain, I just get abuse.
I am genuinely interested in trying to understand their mindset?
Hey ho. "
Rest assured, I am not 10-mins... from (you's) lol.   |
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"I live in the coast of North Devon so I get a lot of message from guys that say they are only "10 minutes" or "just down the road", where they in Wales so probably about 4 hours away and 170 miles.
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But it's just a bit of water... What's the issue?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live in the coast of North Devon so I get a lot of message from guys that say they are only "10 minutes" or "just down the road", where they in Wales so probably about 4 hours away and 170 miles.
But it's just a bit of water... What's the issue? "
By the time they have swam the Severn estuary they will not have much energy left for a good selection. Lol xx |
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Some thing's happen very spontaneously so it's basically an offer of the possibility of a spontaneous meet. Not everyone operated in the same way as you OP where you probably like things more organized.
It's sort of like fishing really, cast a lot of nets and catch some fish.
There's a real intolerance in fab from people being approached in ways they don't approve of. We're all strangers to each other until we aren't so it's hard to tailor a different approach to every individual we've never met. The strange thing to me is people using Fab to open up a line of communication into them and then disapproving of what arrives in it. |
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"Some thing's happen very spontaneously so it's basically an offer of the possibility of a spontaneous meet. Not everyone operated in the same way as you OP where you probably like things more organized.
It's sort of like fishing really, cast a lot of nets and catch some fish.
There's a real intolerance in fab from people being approached in ways they don't approve of. We're all strangers to each other until we aren't so it's hard to tailor a different approach to every individual we've never met. The strange thing to me is people using Fab to open up a line of communication into them and then disapproving of what arrives in it."
Granted a lot of what you say is true and for many spontaneity hits the spot but when something is writ large on a profile and blatantly ignored it only serves to indicate a lack of respect for the recipient..
Some don't, probably never have or never will tailor any sort of approach to others and that works both ways across all dynamics of course.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We (or I guess they are mainly directed at Jill) often get messages along the lines of
"I am only 10 minutes away from you"
"I live just round the corner"
And many other variations on the same theme.
What is it that makes men think that the fact they are close makes them more attractive?
When I have asked them to explain, I just get abuse.
I am genuinely interested in trying to understand their mindset?
Hey ho. "
I usually say hold on, let me just move further away then |
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I would only send a message if they were actively looking for a meet, with a TV, I was dressed, out and about and 10 minutes away.
So far, that’s never happened as generally if I’m dressed I’m out at a club or social. Obviously I do look on the way home, but yet to be tempted  |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"We (or I guess they are mainly directed at Jill) often get messages along the lines of
"I am only 10 minutes away from you"
"I live just round the corner"
And many other variations on the same theme.
What is it that makes men think that the fact they are close makes them more attractive?
When I have asked them to explain, I just get abuse.
I am genuinely interested in trying to understand their mindset?
Hey ho. "
I'm 140 miles away do I must be fucking ugly! |
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"Some thing's happen very spontaneously so it's basically an offer of the possibility of a spontaneous meet. Not everyone operated in the same way as you OP where you probably like things more organized.
It's sort of like fishing really, cast a lot of nets and catch some fish.
There's a real intolerance in fab from people being approached in ways they don't approve of. We're all strangers to each other until we aren't so it's hard to tailor a different approach to every individual we've never met. The strange thing to me is people using Fab to open up a line of communication into them and then disapproving of what arrives in it.
Granted a lot of what you say is true and for many spontaneity hits the spot but when something is writ large on a profile and blatantly ignored it only serves to indicate a lack of respect for the recipient..
Some don't, probably never have or never will tailor any sort of approach to others and that works both ways across all dynamics of course.."
Yeah that's true too. As you mention, these people give themselves away very quickly and get the responses they deserve. Maybe some will learn through these responses and all we see is the ones that don't unfortunately.
Guess we should all applaud a well considered approach in future. |
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"Some thing's happen very spontaneously so it's basically an offer of the possibility of a spontaneous meet. Not everyone operated in the same way as you OP where you probably like things more organized.
It's sort of like fishing really, cast a lot of nets and catch some fish.
There's a real intolerance in fab from people being approached in ways they don't approve of. We're all strangers to each other until we aren't so it's hard to tailor a different approach to every individual we've never met. The strange thing to me is people using Fab to open up a line of communication into them and then disapproving of what arrives in it.
Granted a lot of what you say is true and for many spontaneity hits the spot but when something is writ large on a profile and blatantly ignored it only serves to indicate a lack of respect for the recipient..
Some don't, probably never have or never will tailor any sort of approach to others and that works both ways across all dynamics of course..
Yeah that's true too. As you mention, these people give themselves away very quickly and get the responses they deserve. Maybe some will learn through these responses and all we see is the ones that don't unfortunately.
Guess we should all applaud a well considered approach in future."
Agree yes, it sort of makes you cynical after a while but certainly the latter point works.. |
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