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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think this is a common problem, it's quite hard to find a couple that we are both attracted to and that are attracted to us! But there are some out there!!

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

lol - always the case, those close up pics sort of hide quite a bit

mind you someone can have a stonking body and face like a bag of bullets.. it does sound a tad shallow but at the end of the day everyones got to like each other - though have to say, personality does count a lot in this business.

Some people are so hung uo on looks (their own) that they dont appreciate the multitude of sexual discovery

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"lol - always the case, those close up pics sort of hide quite a bit

mind you someone can have a stonking body and face like a bag of bullets.. it does sound a tad shallow but at the end of the day everyones got to like each other - though have to say, personality does count a lot in this business.

Some people are so hung uo on looks (their own) that they dont appreciate the multitude of sexual discovery

"

Have to agree that personality is important too, and that we would all have to get on in a group.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Know that feeling well, saw a profile once, a couple from Rochester, some amazing public pictures of her, but then...

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By *issBehavingxxWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!"

And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"lol - always the case, those close up pics sort of hide quite a bit

mind you someone can have a stonking body and face like a bag of bullets.. it does sound a tad shallow but at the end of the day everyones got to like each other - though have to say, personality does count a lot in this business.

Some people are so hung uo on looks (their own) that they dont appreciate the multitude of sexual discovery

"

Of course personality counts but if there's not that instant attraction you never get that far to find out!

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


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And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol"

hahahahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!

And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol"

that's correct, but my point is when you do get to see it!! I'll PM you one if you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Know that feeling well, saw a profile once, a couple from Rochester, some amazing public pictures of her, but then...

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Lol

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By *atalie..Woman  over a year ago

Bolton

I really like this post, i always wonder when i read profiles who decides that they are a hot couple? what makes them a hot couple? What say makes the op a hot couple?

I just like people im attracted too via conversation and a social meet, just because they are not SUPER MODEL hot does not mean they are unfuckable, for instance im not hot but i loves to fuck nice people not stuck up their own asses that are all look at me look at lol

Dont judge unless ya wanna be judged thats my motto

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


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Of course personality counts but if there's not that instant attraction you never get that far to find out! "

yep, women have so many different tastes in guys, its really luck of the draw though. For me a great shag is always better than a naff/prissy goddess. Im sure they are about though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us

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By *issBehavingxxWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol that's correct, but my point is when you do get to see it!! I'll PM you one if you like "

No need... Just thinking of the irony of the post saying that when there's no pics of the male on the profile, he always "looks like shrek" when a pic is sent.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thats why we always have photo's of us both together and insist on the same ..... all that crap "hubby is shy, dont like his photo taken" is utter rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!"

I'd say we fall into that category, which is why we post pics of me on our profile.

That way people can make up their minds before contacting us,rather than asking us for a pic and then us getting the knock back when we've sent one.

That must be a real downer! R

XX

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!"

............. any irony in that fact that all your pictures in the public gallery contain pics on the female but not the male...

just sayin'????

you could almost be accused of the same thing that you are complaining about... using the woman to lure in the couples.....

just the whiff of irony.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thats why we always have photo's of us both together and insist on the same ..... all that crap "hubby is shy, dont like his photo taken" is utter rubbish."

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a more 'mature' couple, interest in the bandying about of the word 'attraction' in all of this. Had this conversation with our meet on Saturday, and have had similar with others going back ages.

For us, it's NOT about attraction - but it IS about a CONNECTION. Maybe we are the kind of people who find what is going on in someones naughty little mind is every bit as appealing (nearly said attractive then! Lol!) as how they look...?

Just find it interesting, the comparison of words we all use to describe how we decide if another person or couple is someone we'd like to play with...

As for the photos of the guy being a let down, we do show one of me (in our public gallery in the midst of coitus - headless admittedly, but it IS me...) and have no worries about doing so. I've come across very few couples in the whole of my life who I could say that both of them are equally as 'attractive'.

Pork

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us"

This is funny!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Attraction means different things to different people, we are not in any means pin up models, for us it's the conversation between all parties concerned, whether its a single guy or a couple, for us attraction starts in the mind!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit

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By *atalie..Woman  over a year ago

Bolton


"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit"

like i said dont judge uless a wanna be judged

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In our experience, the hubby is usually in pretty good nick, in the couples we've met.

Kate's had more good looking blokes than I've had good looking wives.

May be should start an opposite thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys. "

i agree!!

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"In our experience, the hubby is usually in pretty good nick, in the couples we've met.

Kate's had more good looking blokes than I've had good looking wives.

May be should start an opposite thread "

Id vote for a recount if the opposite is found

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By *rank_SimoneCouple  over a year ago

Bideford


"we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us"

You calling us mingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you find looks like "shrek" may be anothers idea of greek god. I have met many attractive on the outside women, but no sexual feelings whatsoever because they are either thick as planks, chav's or snobbish. That shrek may just be the best lay you will never have.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us

You calling us mingers lol"

oi, don't tell everybody you've shagged us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit"

I can see part of her face, and it looks pretty good to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm an ugly looking hubby, and have a body shot on profile to prove it lol, but guess what I dont care!!, dont like me then walk away lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a more 'mature' couple, interest in the bandying about of the word 'attraction' in all of this. Had this conversation with our meet on Saturday, and have had similar with others going back ages.

For us, it's NOT about attraction - but it IS about a CONNECTION. Maybe we are the kind of people who find what is going on in someones naughty little mind is every bit as appealing (nearly said attractive then! Lol!) as how they look...?

Just find it interesting, the comparison of words we all use to describe how we decide if another person or couple is someone we'd like to play with...

As for the photos of the guy being a let down, we do show one of me (in our public gallery in the midst of coitus - headless admittedly, but it IS me...) and have no worries about doing so. I've come across very few couples in the whole of my life who I could say that both of them are equally as 'attractive'.

Pork"

in my experience, there has to be some sort of attraction before there can ever be a connection...however going back to the original post, unfortunately there are far too many 'couples' profiles on here that are nothing of the sort, so if 'he' or 'she' cannot provide a face pic then i would steer well clear...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm an ugly looking hubby, and have a body shot on profile to prove it lol, but guess what I dont care!!, dont like me then walk away lol "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit

I can see part of her face, and it looks pretty good to me."

Good for you

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit"

who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Due to our high profile job our face pics are in our private gallery, but we always sent face pics attached to any first message we send.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? "

Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ...

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ...

"

i know loads do but people sniping at someone for not have face pics displayed is - pointless

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit

who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do

"

I'd rather someone saw my face than my genitals quite frankly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ...

i know loads do but people sniping at someone for not have face pics displayed is - pointless"

Always find it ironic that the profiles which insist on face pics with first message, don't even offer them in return... and we pass them by.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do

"

Me. I have nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ...

i know loads do but people sniping at someone for not have face pics displayed is - pointless"

It's not the lack of face pics, more so any pics of most hubby's

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being serious for a mo, I do have to insist with couples if there is no genuine shots of the guy on either the public or private pics, for one of the fella clearly showing his body (and thus, his build). Perky had a serious back operation some years ago, and we didn't think this would be a problem in swinging until we met one couple earlier this year. The guy was built like a barrel and actually hurt her in the process of giving her a good seeing to (and it wasn't that good to be truthful either) and unfortunately we fell out with them over it.

Since then I have asked every one who has shown an interest in meeting, and some we have had to decline for that reason. I think that in all but one case, there were no pics of the guy on their profile and it was often like getting blood out of the proverbial stone to get them provide one....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Our face Pics are not in our public gallery, but we do have them in private and send them on request, think the OP was referring to face pics being sent privately and not the ones on display, I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Our face Pics are not in our public gallery, but we do have them in private and send them on request, think the OP was referring to face pics being sent privately and not the ones on display, I could be wrong "

No you're right that is what I meant and said x

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got half a face pic on my profile - maybe I'm half good looking?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x"

Again it's subjective. Obviously he's going to be easy on your eye right?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x"

Your pictures are some of the best i have seen, cant see your hubby though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our face Pics are not in our public gallery, but we do have them in private and send them on request, think the OP was referring to face pics being sent privately and not the ones on display, I could be wrong

No you're right that is what I meant and said x"

Out of interest OP, by the term 'Shrek' do you mean not good looking or the size of a house - or a combination of both??? I am, of course, assuming you don't mean green too.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do

Me. I have nothing to hide. "

XXXX

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I think that in all but one case, there were no pics of the guy on their profile and it was often like getting blood out of the proverbial stone to get them provide one....

"

I totally understand why people would not have public pics on their profiles, but why don't they have some private to send out? Surely it's better to have everyone happy with the meet than turn upn and be told 'sorry, you're not our type'?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think that in all but one case, there were no pics of the guy on their profile and it was often like getting blood out of the proverbial stone to get them provide one....

I totally understand why people would not have public pics on their profiles, but why don't they have some private to send out? Surely it's better to have everyone happy with the meet than turn upn and be told 'sorry, you're not our type'?"

Eaxctly - I'd more time and a lot more respect for people if they were upfront and honest about themselves. Okay, it may turn out that they are not for us, and vice versa, but purely from our own point of view, we would sooner know earlier that someone doesn't like the look of us and just move on, rather than try to hide the fact and come over as desperate to get a meet at any cost, which may well turn bad as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is us ....... sooner you see what we look like BEFORE we stick our cocks/fannies and arses for the whole world to see

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is us ....... sooner you see what we look like BEFORE we stick our cocks/fannies and arses for the whole world to see "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!"

you look stunning! How do we know ur fella dont look like shrek ha

we have same problem,a lot of really good looking young/mid and older woman,but their fella's let them down ha

were not gods gift but we havnt fallen from the ugly tree either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

could always wear a blindfold

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My ex husband really did look like Shrek and that's what I used to call him. Kinda backfired though when he started calling me princess Fiona!

I get messages from guys who class themselves as good looking and I often think yak, who told you that but their veris invariably describe them as hot, sexy, etc. I describe myself as attractive but I'm sure there are plenty of people who would think differently. It would be very boring if we all liked the same type of people. One girls Shrek is another girls Jason Statham!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I need to get myself a hot girlfriend so I can fall into this category

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I need to get myself a hot girlfriend so I can fall into this category "

we could always do it the other way round

you can be the hot one with loads of pics and i'll be shrek

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!"

Seems remarkably audacious for a couple with no face pics or pics of the male.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I get messages from guys who class themselves as good looking and I often think yak, who told you that but their veris invariably describe them as hot, sexy, etc. I describe myself as attractive but I'm sure there are plenty of people who would think differently. It would be very boring if we all liked the same type of people.

One girls Shrek is another girls Jason Statham!"

So true.

It can be difficult to find couples where we like them both. Whether that is attraction or personality or whatever. Just one of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we're interested in someone, we make sure they get to see clear body and face pics of both us very early on, without us waiting to be asked. Our experience is that if we have to ask for their pics it means either we're not going to get them, or we're not going to be interested when we do. So we never ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hey Everyone,

Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!

Seems remarkably audacious for a couple with no face pics or pics of the male."

Seems audacious to comment when you've not read properly what was written!!! At no point did I say about not have face pics or pics of Male on profile!!! Quote " you ask if there are any pics of both and then you get sent" !!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If we're interested in someone, we make sure they get to see clear body and face pics of both us very early on, without us waiting to be asked. Our experience is that if we have to ask for their pics it means either we're not going to get them, or we're not going to be interested when we do. So we never ask "

Just make sure you have a bag handy for the meet if you don't get a picture.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

What you might think is ugly...will be someone elses hot!

We do often find it difficult to find couples that both of are attracted to and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If we're interested in someone, we make sure they get to see clear body and face pics of both us very early on, without us waiting to be asked. Our experience is that if we have to ask for their pics it means either we're not going to get them, or we're not going to be interested when we do. So we never ask

Just make sure you have a bag handy for the meet if you don't get a picture. "

No pics, no meet. My point was that we expect people to volunteer their pics rather than have to be asked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think that people tend to be more specific when looking for men than they do with women.

The criteria is often based far more on the physical than anything else.

Also, a mans look is often very 'naked' and isn't dressed up by make up, hairstyles and outfits, so it is easier to see them at face value.

That said, walk round any City Centre and you will see more people that you find unattractive than those you find attractive.

Why should here be any different ?

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple  over a year ago

Takeley

We all have differing tastes in what we find attractive/unattractive, physically. That's what makes us all different, that's why a site like this is like a shopping channel! We have no problem with not being to everyones taste physically, you can't please all the people all the time, that's just life. For us, the profile content, written, is a good indicator about whether we think we would like to swap photos. At that point we would message with face pics. We have been politely declined as well as had interest, and we respect that people have the choice of whether we are pleasing on the eye. It is about connection as well as attraction, but maybe that's just us!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep, that pretty much sums us up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public?

not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do

Me. I have nothing to hide. "

We do, we'd prefer it if members of our family didn't know what we do with our spare time

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By *edonism44Man  over a year ago

oldham

I cannot believe for the life in me that ALL of you have passed this hot couple by....... I simply don't understand what you peolpe want anymore .......

You have the best of both worlds with these two.... Both very sexy !!!!!

Browse names for ;

Angelina&brad4sex

Do I need to do everything for you lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If the lady is with the guy doesn't that mean she finds him attractive??

Is that an insult to say wow your hot but your male partner/bf/hubby is pig ugly

We all have different attractions to different ppl,would op not find it insulting if someone said your partner Is ugly no way would I touch that??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the lady is with the guy doesn't that mean she finds him attractive??

Is that an insult to say wow your hot but your male partner/bf/hubby is pig ugly

We all have different attractions to different ppl,would op not find it insulting if someone said your partner Is ugly no way would I touch that?? "

Totally agree

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By *aveandkate35Couple  over a year ago

telford


"If the lady is with the guy doesn't that mean she finds him attractive??

Is that an insult to say wow your hot but your male partner/bf/hubby is pig ugly

We all have different attractions to different ppl,would op not find it insulting if someone said your partner Is ugly no way would I touch that?? "

I was going to say a similar thing - reading between the lines, usually indicates he's probably a really nice guy and a great lover...... Well thats what I'm counting on people thinking.

D

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple  over a year ago

North West

We understand the OP's moan to a degree, But we have never been able to understand why the guy can not have a body picture taken and uploaded at the very least.

I am pretty sure 99.9% of people would not know David Cameron in a naked picture with the face blurred out !! so never understand the high profile job statement.

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By *edonism44Man  over a year ago

oldham


"We understand the OP's moan to a degree, But we have never been able to understand why the guy can not have a body picture taken and uploaded at the very least.

I am pretty sure 99.9% of people would not know David Cameron in a naked picture with the face blurred out !! so never understand the high profile job statement.

"

Mmmmmm Cameron mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm 53 now and I have a few lines to prove it lol, but guys just look at the body mostly, my hubby is 58 now and I think he's sexy esp since he lost 3 stone, but that don't matter to me, he is very good with his chat because he's a dj and can charm the knickers off a nun lol, in fact he reg has young women in there 20s chasing him, but he doesn't think he's good looking, I do he prefers a woman who has a nice face and personality to looks really because he is the same, me? I just love cock lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen

its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple  over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen

its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em "

Its that beautiful thing that some women desire ..money ! See it all the time at Cap old sugar daddy with girl old enough to be his daughter.

Believe it or not you see the old sugar daddy playing with similar young girls,because of who he's with.

Shallow but money talks that life !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sometimes I'm glad being single and straight... I dont need to like the hubbys pics hehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"sometimes I'm glad being single and straight... I dont need to like the hubbys pics hehe "

Oh.... I am crushed....

Pork

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By *restatynCplCouple  over a year ago

Rhyl

We love the beauties here that DEMAND a face pic with a message, but have absolutely no pics up themselves. No public, no private, nothing.

First thought we have is 'sad single wanker' and they get blocked.

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple  over a year ago

london

If a cpl want to play with us and approach us first we always ask for recent face and body pics of both and in return do the same. Otherwise you may aswel just shag in a darkroom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x

Your pictures are some of the best i have seen, cant see your hubby though."

Hubby is on some, he's the one with big tattoo on his arm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We've had messages from couples where the female looks great, when we ask for a pic of the male and get unpleasantly surprised, how do you reply?

Maybe that makes us vain, but we're quite particular in what we're looking for and have it on our profile. Saves people wasting theirs and our time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ha ha, welcome to swinging, we have this problem the other way round.

Right im off to hide before my slap arrives now lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't we all take one for the team sometimes

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

im sorry to agree but most blokes dont look all that i dont look that great maybe its because the ladies can get all dragged upn in lacey and pretty sqeeze your bits about clobber which gives them more oomph

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was just about to post the same! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes "

Well if your handing out a pity fuck........hello

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes "

Why compromise?, we do it for both of us to have fun. Not a big turn for any couple if they see one of us looking upset and bored

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes

Why compromise?, we do it for both of us to have fun. Not a big turn for any couple if they see one of us looking upset and bored"

Hence the smiley face

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes

Well if your handing out a pity fuck........hello "

Does it still count if it happens again and again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The thing that we find hard when looking for couples is a large gap in age between the man and woman.

Hard to sort of find a common ground for attractiveness for all involved.

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By *evilwolfCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire


"The thing that we find hard when looking for couples is a large gap in age between the man and woman.

Hard to sort of find a common ground for attractiveness for all involved."

Oh I don't know though... got an old head on young shoulders here

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen

its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em "

yeah walking round town and you see a chav with a right stunner! wtf

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By *pen 2 offersMan  over a year ago

Irchester


"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes "

Well hello there......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen

its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em

yeah walking round town and you see a chav with a right stunner! wtf "

some stunners like chavs

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By *appyberkshirecoupleCouple  over a year ago

Reading


"What you might think is ugly...will be someone elses hot!

We do often find it difficult to find couples that both of are attracted to and vice versa."

Its totally difficult... not surprising tho.... and good fun trying to figure it out!

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ?

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By *appyberkshirecoupleCouple  over a year ago

Reading


"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? "

They were hot hot hot, and now they're not not not!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You will always get mismatched couples, couples that are both stunning, couples that are both ugly and couples with one of each. Its just a matter of contacting people till you find some you like that or go to clubs where you instantly get to see both half's.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? "

Alot of single straight guys have made these comments,funny no one has said about a lady letting herself go lol

The thing about Alot of guys is they will say what the hell is she doing with him because they are jealous that they can't pull a lady like that lol

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple  over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"

We do, we'd prefer it if members of our family didn't know what we do with our spare time "

why are they on fab too

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple  over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

we have photos of both of us on our profile

that could explain why scouse gets more requests to meet alone,

may be we would be better taking mine off.

that might stop the can we meet but dont bring your father messages

shields

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? "

The women probably have low self esteem, or kids or hubby has got money and is generous with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ?

The women probably have low self esteem, or kids or hubby has got money and is generous with it."

That is a terrible quote,how bout the women is very happy,in love with the guy,fancies him,and sick of people judging her by saying what u doing with him,

My god heard it all in this thread,such judgemental people on it

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