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"Another day, another no show = another timewaster. I know it is par for the course… but what do they get out of this? Really curious to know why you would spend literally hours ‘chatting’ on the internet, agree to meet up and then go cold, no turn up, no response? Some very sick people out there?" Sorry to hear that mate! I’ve experienced this too. Seems to be more and more prevalent on here for some reason. Funny thing is… I never used get that years ago… Especially before smartphones when we used chatlines.. | |||
"Another day, another no show = another timewaster. I know it is par for the course… but what do they get out of this? Really curious to know why you would spend literally hours ‘chatting’ on the internet, agree to meet up and then go cold, no turn up, no response? Some very sick people out there? Sorry to hear that mate! I’ve experienced this too. Seems to be more and more prevalent on here for some reason. Funny thing is… I never used get that years ago… Especially before smartphones when we used chatlines.." Used chatlines. Met tons genuine one's off there. Many on the same day in the evening. Even the lines have hit the dreaded wall. Many many blaggers/teasers/timewasters. Like you say never had this problem before the smartphone era. | |||
"Another day, another no show = another timewaster. I know it is par for the course… but what do they get out of this? Really curious to know why you would spend literally hours ‘chatting’ on the internet, agree to meet up and then go cold, no turn up, no response? Some very sick people out there? Sorry to hear that mate! I’ve experienced this too. Seems to be more and more prevalent on here for some reason. Funny thing is… I never used get that years ago… Especially before smartphones when we used chatlines.. Used chatlines. Met tons genuine one's off there. Many on the same day in the evening. Even the lines have hit the dreaded wall. Many many blaggers/teasers/timewasters. Like you say never had this problem before the smartphone era. " Totally  | |||
"Because many single guys just like to get off talking about it virtually, blow their load then that’s that. They should stick to talking fantasies rather than meets to avoid wasting everyone’s time. It was countless instances of this which is why we no longer meet anyone off here unless they come to see us at a club. That way we’re not left disappointed when they don’t turn up. " I was (supposed to be) meeting the female half of a couple in an open-relationship. Nothing to do with single men. | |||
"Because many single guys just like to get off talking about it virtually, blow their load then that’s that. They should stick to talking fantasies rather than meets to avoid wasting everyone’s time. It was countless instances of this which is why we no longer meet anyone off here unless they come to see us at a club. That way we’re not left disappointed when they don’t turn up. I was (supposed to be) meeting the female half of a couple in an open-relationship. Nothing to do with single men." So what happened from this couples end? | |||
"Because many single guys just like to get off talking about it virtually, blow their load then that’s that. They should stick to talking fantasies rather than meets to avoid wasting everyone’s time. It was countless instances of this which is why we no longer meet anyone off here unless they come to see us at a club. That way we’re not left disappointed when they don’t turn up. I was (supposed to be) meeting the female half of a couple in an open-relationship. Nothing to do with single men." That's what you think!  | |||
"Because many single guys just like to get off talking about it virtually, blow their load then that’s that. They should stick to talking fantasies rather than meets to avoid wasting everyone’s time. It was countless instances of this which is why we no longer meet anyone off here unless they come to see us at a club. That way we’re not left disappointed when they don’t turn up. I was (supposed to be) meeting the female half of a couple in an open-relationship. Nothing to do with single men. That's what you think! "Go on giss a clue? Mystic meg! | |||
"That's what you think! " | |||
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"Are you sure it was really a couple? " Indeed. “She” chatted convincingly and we didn’t have deeply erotic sex chat, so if it was a bloke getting off on our chat, then he is easily pleased, haha | |||
"Are you sure it was really a couple? " Was probs a horny bloke getting off on messing your around, and the woman didn’t exist. | |||
"Are you sure it was really a couple? Was probs a horny bloke getting off on messing your around, and the woman didn’t exist." Sadly, you are probably right. | |||
"Life getting in the way Cold Feet Catfishing Enjoy other peoples misery Just a cunt Take your pick "Just a cunt made me chuckle  | |||
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"Are you sure it was really a couple? Indeed. “She” chatted convincingly and we didn’t have deeply erotic sex chat, so if it was a bloke getting off on our chat, then he is easily pleased, haha "There's your answer | |||
"Another day, another no show = another timewaster. I know it is par for the course… but what do they get out of this? Really curious to know why you would spend literally hours ‘chatting’ on the internet, agree to meet up and then go cold, no turn up, no response? Some very sick people out there?" Out of interest, was the person /couple green circle verified and not green flag verified? I've seen a real increase in those without fab veris but veri by others, usually offering something too good to be true? | |||
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"Hold on so many couples and single woman on here are quick to jump straight to oh it must if been a horny man, op has said it was a woman not a guy, ive been on the receiving end of a female time waster as well, so i know its not just guys who do it exclusivly " May have been a man pretending to be a woman. | |||
"Are you sure it was really a couple? Indeed. “She” chatted convincingly and we didn’t have deeply erotic sex chat, so if it was a bloke getting off on our chat, then he is easily pleased, haha "Did you speak to the female over either the video call or voice call? If not then she probably didnt exist buddy. KJ | |||
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"Another day, another no show = another timewaster. I know it is par for the course… but what do they get out of this? Really curious to know why you would spend literally hours ‘chatting’ on the internet, agree to meet up and then go cold, no turn up, no response? Some very sick people out there?" I had my first one yesterday and posted in the other forum. They had messaged me the night before to say 'see you tmorw'. I gave them my mobile and said please text or ring if you can't make it. Nothing! Sat in the pub beer garden for 50 mins. messaged them no response. The only consolation was having a nice cold beer on a sunny day. I've reported them (see 'report' on their profile page as a 'no show') I see that they read my messages, deleted them (no apology) then blocked me this morning | |||
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"Life getting in the way Cold Feet Catfishing Enjoy other peoples misery Just a cunt Take your pick "'just a cunt'  | |||
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"I've had the same with my last couple meets ..put me off meeting..even from those that have verified meets on their profile. Any time I've had to change/canc meets I try to let the other person know within a reasonable time ." Good to know. | |||
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"I had a meet arranged with a bi couple a few weeks ago. All seemed very genuine and I was looking forward to it. Spoke to them both on phone which helped settle my nerves as hate time wasters. I then headed over to their way to park up on this road and guess what I message nothing not even a read tick on messages. I logged on to see if they were online only to find I’m blocked. Made me feel sick specially as at times like that you feel like all eyes are on you. I felt truly gutted specially as at the time we had those petrol problems, not only that but as a guy having the chance to meet a couple that had similar interests was a dream. Obviously that it was only a dream. Scared to have meets now as I feel like this will happen again but fingers crossed my faith will be restored x" ---Such a bummer for people this. Those no-showers don't know what to do when they want-out of something, so a number of them simply block. It's just the easiest thing to do for some people. Try not to take it personally, they don't know you at all, they simply changed their minds for some reason(s) and you'll likely never know why it was. It may have little to do with you at all, they could have just fallen out with each other or something. So many things can happen to get in the way of a meet. Despite all I wrote above (about giving people room to back-out), nothing can really legislate for some form of last-minute change of heart I'm afraid. --pt | |||
"I had a meet arranged with a bi couple a few weeks ago. All seemed very genuine and I was looking forward to it. Spoke to them both on phone which helped settle my nerves as hate time wasters. I then headed over to their way to park up on this road and guess what I message nothing not even a read tick on messages. I logged on to see if they were online only to find I’m blocked. Made me feel sick specially as at times like that you feel like all eyes are on you. I felt truly gutted specially as at the time we had those petrol problems, not only that but as a guy having the chance to meet a couple that had similar interests was a dream. Obviously that it was only a dream. Scared to have meets now as I feel like this will happen again but fingers crossed my faith will be restored x ---Such a bummer for people this. Those no-showers don't know what to do when they want-out of something, so a number of them simply block. It's just the easiest thing to do for some people. Try not to take it personally, they don't know you at all, they simply changed their minds for some reason(s) and you'll likely never know why it was. It may have little to do with you at all, they could have just fallen out with each other or something. So many things can happen to get in the way of a meet. Despite all I wrote above (about giving people room to back-out), nothing can really legislate for some form of last-minute change of heart I'm afraid. --pt" I agree and I do see where your coming from. Stay safe | |||
"Because many single guys just like to get off talking about it virtually, blow their load then that’s that. They should stick to talking fantasies rather than meets to avoid wasting everyone’s time. It was countless instances of this which is why we no longer meet anyone off here unless they come to see us at a club. That way we’re not left disappointed when they don’t turn up. " I think you guys are right, might have to start going the clubs, to many time wasters, lifes too short! | |||
