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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have had a small number of meets now, and have decided we would like our experiences to be a little more natural.
The lady would sit by herself in a bar and wait to be chatted up by someone she found attractive. If everything went well and the guy is a gent then she could end up at his house for the night. This is something we are seriously considering, so guys must be able to accommodate. Also must be respectful and not pushy otherwise it won't happen.
She is attracted to athletic guys and dark skinned guys.
Does anyone else adopt this approach for finding others and does it work well? |
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Slightly off topic, but maybe more likely to end well. We are thinking of going to a Club as two singles and seeing how well we do - my money is on Beth cleaning up! At least in these circumstances we know we are playing with people with similar interests- pick ups in bars could be very different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but maybe more likely to end well. We are thinking of going to a Club as two singles and seeing how well we do - my money is on Beth cleaning up! At least in these circumstances we know we are playing with people with similar interests- pick ups in bars could be very different."
remind me to be at that club when you do lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have had a small number of meets now, and have decided we would like our experiences to be a little more natural.
The lady would sit by herself in a bar and wait to be chatted up by someone she found attractive. If everything went well and the guy is a gent then she could end up at his house for the night. This is something we are seriously considering, so guys must be able to accommodate. Also must be respectful and not pushy otherwise it won't happen.
She is attracted to athletic guys and dark skinned guys.
Does anyone else adopt this approach for finding others and does it work well?"
Would you want to arrange this ( Finding the guy first and discussing it) or you want to leave it for chance and luck ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We would probably do this on a vanilla night out. We think it would work by being up front with the guy during the initial banter.
Of course, it would be ideal to arrange it with someone from fab, but the quality of messages that we receive (or lack of) doesn't fill us with much hope of adopting that route |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We would probably do this on a vanilla night out. We think it would work by being up front with the guy during the initial banter.
Of course, it would be ideal to arrange it with someone from fab, but the quality of messages that we receive (or lack of) doesn't fill us with much hope of adopting that route "
Message me please, maybe we can discuss it further if you wish |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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My first meet was something similar.
I chatted up a very sexy woman in a hotel bar. We were joined by the husband and then headed to their room for some fun.
Unknown to the wife, the husband and I had arranged it before hand. Fortunately, wife didn't turn me down. |
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"My first meet was something similar.
I chatted up a very sexy woman in a hotel bar. We were joined by the husband and then headed to their room for some fun.
Unknown to the wife, the husband and I had arranged it before hand. Fortunately, wife didn't turn me down."
 did she ever know it was a set up? |
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This is a fantasy of ours to just turn up in a decent business hotel and see who is about and outrageously flirt with someone we find appropriate, whether that be a single guy or lady and be ready to get a room. |
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I’ve a hotwife friend. She once had an argument with her fella while round town. She stormed off and got herself a drink in a bar. She did get chatted up. Nothing happened that night but she kept his number and they met another time with her fellas approval. |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"I think so. I think hubby told her later.
We tried to meet again but real life got in the way.
She was ok with it? I think Iust be old fashioned or something  "
She was ok with it. We had such a good time that afternoon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have had a small number of meets now, and have decided we would like our experiences to be a little more natural.
The lady would sit by herself in a bar and wait to be chatted up by someone she found attractive. If everything went well and the guy is a gent then she could end up at his house for the night. This is something we are seriously considering, so guys must be able to accommodate. Also must be respectful and not pushy otherwise it won't happen.
She is attracted to athletic guys and dark skinned guys.
Does anyone else adopt this approach for finding others and does it work well?"
This is definitely hot and something I would be interested in |
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"It's how we've had some of our most successful swinging experiences, We've had years of Jane getting chatted up this way, and its led to some great times."
What if the guy was married , would you go ahead ? |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"Wouldnt never done it and doesnt work on here either so waste of time in a bar"
How do you know if you've never tried?
The male/female ration in a bar has to be better than on here for a start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love chatting and meeting women out and about, not just in bars.. anywhere. I prefer it a lot more than meeting them online.. seems to work much better than me  |
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Yes I like the sound of that scenario. A few years ago there use to be singles discos / evenings at some of our local bars. You had to get a ticket. Never went but thought about it recently and they seem to have vanished. Maybe Covid killed them off. Anyone know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a similar fantasy to this, hotel bar where Mrs has a few drinks and teases/flirts with a guy (would be organised beforehand ) while hubby watches on from across the room. We would then head on up to our room to be joined by the hubby shortly after for us to all enjoy some mmf fun  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"We have a similar fantasy to this, hotel bar where Mrs has a few drinks and teases/flirts with a guy (would be organised beforehand ) while hubby watches on from across the room. We would then head on up to our room to be joined by the hubby shortly after for us to all enjoy some mmf fun "
I did this with a couple before and it was a fantastic night. Hopefully you get to experience it soon. |
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"I’ve hear from a friend that better hotel bars are a good place to do this during the business week  "
Yes! If you see a gent on their own eating or at the bar in a hotel during the week, chances are they are looking for nsa fun. Trust me  |
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"We have a similar fantasy to this, hotel bar where Mrs has a few drinks and teases/flirts with a guy (would be organised beforehand ) while hubby watches on from across the room. We would then head on up to our room to be joined by the hubby shortly after for us to all enjoy some mmf fun "
Bang up for this with you guys. |
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Have you ever considered just going out on the pull? Me and My have corrupted vanilla couples and singles on nights out before. And when we go out alone we both like to get our flirt on? Can't get more natural than that and no prior arrangement needed. |
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