The chronological ages are merely one factor to be taken into consideration, if a successful meet is the prime objective: maturity, attitude (to the lifestyle and swinging) experience, education, personalities, traits, etc.,all contribute or detract from the interaction.

I have been with women of my own age whom I couldn't wait to get away from; and others with a fifteen year age differential whom I really connected with, both intellectually and sexually.

Attitude is a crucial factor; some people are seeking new experiences, whilst others, for a variety of reasons have a closed mindset.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve had both a lot older and a lot younger and loved both for different reasons x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m with a lady right now that’s 20 years younger then me .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20 years he 55 I am 35.. been married 10 years! Gentlemen just try don't be afraid . The worse someone could say is no..

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi op

I have two rather lovely younger friends/fb’s - one is 31 and one is 35. I like both of them because of who they are though - their age is irrelevant.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple over a year ago

Rushden

i was 19 he was 43 & when i was 35 he was 23

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By *akes coupleCouple over a year ago

Ambleside

27 years younger and 30 years older. Always play with younger now find them much more pleasing.

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

I was 40 he was 20.

I was 36 he was 54.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was 33 and she was 52

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was 18 I slept with a lady in her late 40s (as a guess) never asked exact age. Met her in a pub one night and back to hers.

I'm 40 now and recently slept with a guy aged 21.

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By *eeds fun guyMan over a year ago

yorkshire

"i was 19 he was 43 & when i was 35 he was 23 "

Nice you have had the best of both worlds

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By *ilva69Man over a year ago

stockport

"What's the biggest age gap you've had with someone else?

And why am I so attracted to "cougars"? Haha

For me it was 36 years I was 19 she was 55. "

Lost my cherry at 19 to a woman in her late 50’s

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By *urious couple22Couple over a year ago

Derby

So when we meet each other I the male half was 18 and female half was 28 so a 10 year age gap we've been together ever since

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By *tinerant scribeMan over a year ago

County Durham

13 years with women, about thirty with men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

24 & 66 for mr.

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By *estless nativeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

19 years older and 24 years younger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

24 years older and a whopping 3 years younger than me are my biggest age gaps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was 20 she was in her mid 50s. Great fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was 27 she was 50. Sex was fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's the biggest age gap you've had with someone else?

And why am I so attracted to "cougars"? Haha

For me it was 36 years I was 19 she was 55.

Lost my cherry at 19 to a woman in her late 50’s"

Wow that's quite the gap!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20 year gap.we've been together 13 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me...43

Him...68

Him...73

Him...78

I have had two 19 year olds together to address the balance

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By *r kink8585Man over a year ago

ireland,

"Me...43

Him...68

Him...73

Him...78

I have had two 19 year olds together to address the balance"

Balance is key as is variety lol

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By *av-RickMan over a year ago

Nearby

I've not had a gap more than 3 years younger, my first meet was 10+ years older, with my biggest gap being about 25 years older - I've always seemed to get on with older ladies.