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Long term chastity problems
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys
Hubby absolutely loves being caged, the longer it's on the more turned on, attentive and happier he becomes.
Unfortunately we can find a cage he can wear for more than 3 days without it causing problems.
He is currently on day 3 wearing a V4 Holy Trainer, the largest one in Pink.
Soft the cage fits him nicely and is comfortable enough to wear at the gym or work.
The problem is when he gets to excited. Erect his penis is over 6inches long and almost as thick with powerful erections.
The cage ends up pushed away from his body with the ring pulling on his balls. It looks extremely uncomfortable and causes him pain.
This session of chastity he has made a belt that holds the cage closer to his body stopping his erection from pushing out. This has work pretty well and we have seen some custom made leather straps on etsy that could work better.
However after 3 days he has become very sore behind his balls where the ring sits.
We have a number of metal cages that are larger than the holy trainer. These allow for some expansion of his penis and stop the cage pushing away. But after 3 days the bars of the cage start to cause sore on his shaft and the ring some soreness behind balls.
Really hoping to get some advice from other couples or singles guy on the cages and set up they use for long term chastity.
Any advice from caged cucks with above average penis size would be greatly appreciated to.
Is there anyway to stop erections, or cages and straps that work best. Any tips on long term chastity pls post here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try using a moisturiser on both his cock and balls. Then take the cage off before his skin starts to get really irritated to give it time to recover making sure to moisturise it every day even when caged. Over time this should allow him to spend longer times caged. I have done Loctober in a Holy Trainer V3 on quite a few occasions. Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Make sure the ring is totally smooth. I have found there is sometimes a very slight edge where the ring had been moulded. I suggest you ultra fine sandpaper and then a nail buffer block to really make it smooth.
In my experience they can get uncomfortable, but that is important. He must know he is caged, it is an important psychological component in his submission to your control.
Kx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we were told this from another cuckold couple and it works get a plastic jug put ice cold water in and dip is balls and cock with the cage on in the cold water will make him lose his erection there and then.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Make sure the ring is totally smooth. I have found there is sometimes a very slight edge where the ring had been moulded. I suggest you ultra fine sandpaper and then a nail buffer block to really make it smooth.
In my experience they can get uncomfortable, but that is important. He must know he is caged, it is an important psychological component in his submission to your control.
Kx"
Yes he also had to sand his down.
The night time painful erections wake him up multiple times a night, the pleasure of being cage allows him to suffer the pain and broken sleep but long term its wouldn't work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Try using a moisturiser on both his cock and balls. Then take the cage off before his skin starts to get really irritated to give it time to recover making sure to moisturise it every day even when caged. Over time this should allow him to spend longer times caged. I have done Loctober in a Holy Trainer V3 on quite a few occasions. Hope this helps."
His birthday is November the 2nd so we plan to do locktober with a birthday release. If we can find a way for him to stay caged that long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"we were told this from another cuckold couple and it works get a plastic jug put ice cold water in and dip is balls and cock with the cage on in the cold water will make him lose his erection there and then.... "
This made me chuckle. I'll make him try it. How practical it will be in the middle of the night I dont know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Make sure the ring is totally smooth. I have found there is sometimes a very slight edge where the ring had been moulded. I suggest you ultra fine sandpaper and then a nail buffer block to really make it smooth.
In my experience they can get uncomfortable, but that is important. He must know he is caged, it is an important psychological component in his submission to your control.
Kx
Yes he also had to sand his down.
The night time painful erections wake him up multiple times a night, the pleasure of being cage allows him to suffer the pain and broken sleep but long term its wouldn't work."
Yes, very true. Perhaps just try different styles of cage? I find the V4 good, but you are obviously having problems. I imagine with time the night time erections will fade.
Kelly x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Finding the right cage is crucial. I like 3D Kink’s range has they have many options for cage size and ring combinations. There’s a good active Reditt group on tips for their products. "
Thank you. Hubby is going to have a look |
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Maybe a smaller cage is what he needs, personally I find a smaller cage better, erections simply do not happen, there just isn't room to allow them, I went in my small cage for over a year without any problems. |
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Make sure he uses plenty of lubricant/moisturiser around the cock ring to stop it chafing on his balls.
A small length cage will restrict the erection itself, but if he can get some erection in his cage that tends to be better for frustration and more erotic.
Depends on your cuckold dynamic, I enjoy being frustrated when my wife plays with bulls but each to their own I guess. |
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I have seen a guy with a small cage that tightens securely behind the glans and it can be chained back to pull the cock between the legs spoiling any chance of an erection. In this mode the hubby has little sensation of his cock but a wonderful unfocused frustration and excitement |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It all depends on him really, I’ve had 4 or 5 previously and each has had their issues. Padlocks that show through clothes, chafing like you mentioned, capped ends which make it harder for bathroom breaks etc etc
I was once in chastity for the best part of 4 months and would ‘change’ every so often to suit whatever was comfortable. I could wear the padlock one at home but go for a more discreet one when out and about.
Maybe buy some other types of designs if you can and see what’s best for a base ring, or mix and match throughout the day like I did? Unfortunately it can be expensive but it’s worth it when you find what works for you
My favourite one in the end was called a cherry keeper, they were 3D printed in the USA |
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"It all depends on him really, I’ve had 4 or 5 previously and each has had their issues. Padlocks that show through clothes, chafing like you mentioned, capped ends which make it harder for bathroom breaks etc etc
I was once in chastity for the best part of 4 months and would ‘change’ every so often to suit whatever was comfortable. I could wear the padlock one at home but go for a more discreet one when out and about.
Maybe buy some other types of designs if you can and see what’s best for a base ring, or mix and match throughout the day like I did? Unfortunately it can be expensive but it’s worth it when you find what works for you
My favourite one in the end was called a cherry keeper, they were 3D printed in the USA"
It must be great to see such a large cock restrained
Like to know more about this cherry keeper |
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A lot of good tips on here. Moisturise daily as a minimum, Vaseline and shower regularly.
As people have said the right cage is important. Took me 4 or 5 before I found the right one. Holy Trainer was good chastity wise, but I had the same problem as you.
My metal cage on my pics with the urethral sound is perfect. No sharp edges externally. Easy to get at, clean, moisturise etc.
Obviously the sound is a big thing and may put you off, but I've found it keeps things in place a lot better. I don't slip out etc. They are made for long term wear, but you might want to work up to it with one!
Hope this helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A good tip for night time woes is to reduce how much drink before bed and also empty bladder. Build up to longer term chastity slowly. Eventually body gets use to chastity. |
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