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I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this "
Yes very much agree |
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"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this "
We're the same, we love the whole club experience. |
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"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this "
me completely. I don't arrange meets x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us we feel like it's incredibly hard work and almost impossible to network on here we don't receive much mail at all or get much in the way of responses even to meets yet find people more often welcoming, warm and friendly in clubs its almost completely the opposite to online for the last few years? |
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"For us we feel like it's incredibly hard work and almost impossible to network on here we don't receive much mail at all or get much in the way of responses even to meets yet find people more often welcoming, warm and friendly in clubs its almost completely the opposite to online for the last few years? "
Hit nail on head. Welcoming and friendly usually at clubs
Definitely I can vouch is better for those who enjoy the club scene.
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"For us we feel like it's incredibly hard work and almost impossible to network on here we don't receive much mail at all or get much in the way of responses even to meets yet find people more often welcoming, warm and friendly in clubs its almost completely the opposite to online for the last few years? "
Just seen where your location is. Lovely part of the country
Axminster Is a lovely little town |
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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this "
We do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a private meet you never know what mood your going to be in on the day. Plus all the hassles of arrangement. Where as at a club you can be as naughty as you like or just have a social no pressure  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this "
This is us exactly. Clubs also help keep our vanilla and swinging lives separate, avoids the problems of no-shows, facilitates moresomes, enables me to have anonymous sex with guys, and is safer. We have also developed (swinging) friendships with some of the people we have met in clubs. |
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"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this
This is us exactly. Clubs also help keep our vanilla and swinging lives separate, avoids the problems of no-shows, facilitates moresomes, enables me to have anonymous sex with guys, and is safer. We have also developed (swinging) friendships with some of the people we have met in clubs."
We agree, clubs are so much easier than private meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet at clubs other than a few select friends that we meet at ours or theirs. Much simpler and more options plus we use the club as our social life too |
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We'd love to go to a club when we are back in the UK for a couple of weeks this summer. However, with a toddler a club visit from Cardiff is just not an option. We are therefore hoping to be able to arrange at least one meet. Any advice would be appreciated. We haven't been back to the UK since pre-covid.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends…love the night out aspect of a club but have anxiety so hate small talk  This usually passes after a while when I’ve given my head a wobble!
Have had the best sex of my life in a hotel meet with two men |
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"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .
Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club
Who else does this
This is us exactly. Clubs also help keep our vanilla and swinging lives separate, avoids the problems of no-shows, facilitates moresomes, enables me to have anonymous sex with guys, and is safer. We have also developed (swinging) friendships with some of the people we have met in clubs."
Absolutely spot on! Sadly several of our fav Clubs closed down nearby, so we are going to have to travel further afield which is a bit more complex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started on here with private ones had good and bad choices this put me off after a bad experience, why club only and I enjoy this social and fun never promise just see how we connect no pressure both ways |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
The nice part of club is that it can be spontaneous.
Fully understand why couples go as the amount that tell me they got let down last minute by both single guys & couples.
It’s nice to do the social side and a bit of variety helps |
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By *ifi-01Woman
over a year ago
north west |
I always feel safer meeting at a club especially if meeting someone for the first time, never feel under pressure in a club and I know I will always have a good social evening if things do not go any further |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely clubs, no yo yo messages that leads to nothing.
Turn up, be sociable and maybe you will click with others if not then you've had a nice night out chatting to like minded people. |
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