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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone had the scenario where you have been involved with a couple then you learnt something that one part of the couple told you and to lie to there partner ,what would you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not really understanding wot u mean ..r u saying that one partner has told a lie to the other and uve just found this out ? "
Agree that OP question is hard to figure out. Some elaboration needed. |
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"Anyone had the scenario where you have been involved with a couple then you learnt something that one part of the couple told you and to lie to there partner ,what would you do"
Depends what the matter actually is - but it's not my place to judge or to sort out their personal circumstances. |
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I used to meet a couple quite regular and they became good friends, i used to go to their house and they would invite a single guy they knew sometimes, for a 4sum, after knowing them for a number of months and meeting the guy at their several times they woman from the couple, for some reason i still dont know, decided to tell me she met the single guy alone behind her hubby back
I stopped meeting them after that, tho it was nothing to do with me i like them both as a couple and i felt i couldnt carry on meeting him knowing his mrs was doing that and i was saying nothing
so to me i had two choices tell him and risk her saying i was lying and him believing her and me ending up the bad bastartd in it all or just walk away, i did the later |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Naughtynymphos that's exactly the position I'm in I tried to be discrete and explain it to both partners but it was me who felt as though I was in the wrong.I really liked them both but it's put me in a bad position so it's better I don't go back anymore it's something I don't agree with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Naughtynymphos that's exactly the position I'm in I tried to be discrete and explain it to both partners but it was me who felt as though I was in the wrong.I really liked them both but it's put me in a bad position so it's better I don't go back anymore it's something I don't agree with."
in my opinion yes
this is just how i felt but i felt that if i carried on meeting them knowing what his wife and so called friend was doing and said nothing i was as much a part of it as them
so i just walked away from the situation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It's not what swinging is about its about being open not cheating behind hubby's back I felt the same a bloody awful feeling and should never have been put in that position |
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