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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would strongly advise you to review your selection process! 
That's what I was going to suggest....
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Well we started looking at the begining of the week and just sorted a meet then got let down, we cant help being fuggly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been let down twice for tonight and we are just waiting for a text from another couple to see if we can meet them.
The two that let us down have been verified and are site supporters so thought it would be ok.
Sometimes things do come up so can accept that , but when they don't respond or tell you they can't make it that is just rude. Especially when hotels have been booked.
Have learned which hotels don't charge for late cancellations and only use them now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"9 times wow just proves how many fake`s and time waster`s there is on this site !!"
Yes and no. With that number of knockbacks I'd reckon there are issues with their selection process.
There's often 2 sides to a story!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"9 times wow just proves how many fake`s and time waster`s there is on this site !!
Yes and no. With that number of knockbacks I'd reckon there are issues with their selection process.
There's often 2 sides to a story!! "
i agree, if i got let down 9 times in a week id be taking a closer look at myself and wondering why so many people was cancelling on me and seeing what i could do to attract a better selection of people |
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Perhaps you need to be a little bit more selective in who your asking to meet you because the ones your choosing aint right for you so only you know the reaons why and only you can fix it but good luck xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was let down last night because "he fell asleep and missed my texts cos power gone" but I rustled up another guy = result = take no shit x"
wise indeed. same goes for those texter types that never meet.
save your time for those who do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as I can't stand timewasters, sometimes things do come up that you actually can't help with. Try and go for people with verifications, site supporters etc usually get more luck that way. You can usually tell if they are genuinely going to meet when chatting in the build up to the meet, that's what I find anyway. 9 times though? If they all genuinely couldn't meet for a reasonable reason ... That's a lot of bad luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As much as I can't stand timewasters, sometimes things do come up that you actually can't help with. Try and go for people with verifications, site supporters etc usually get more luck that way. You can usually tell if they are genuinely going to meet when chatting in the build up to the meet, that's what I find anyway. 9 times though? If they all genuinely couldn't meet for a reasonable reason ... That's a lot of bad luck."
Well we put it down to experience x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having never been a swinger at this time of year before, i am rapidly finding that family issues come up at a moments notice, sometimes it can be a difficult choice, what do we do?, cancel our meet and hope to god that we are not classed as time wasters and go off for a dinner that you really don't want or do you have the meet and say to the family " Hey we will see you over the festive period" surely that's enough for everyone involved......  (Perky) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jeez that's ridiculous - we quickly learned a lesson from agreeing a meet early on with a couple that timewasters are rife - so we only meet at clubs and go from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just the men who let you down, supposed to have a meet this afternoon, been chatting for a few weeks, swapped photo's, got on really well so arranged for a coffee as I'm very near. We been chatting for a few weeks and there was definitely a click so had high hopes.
Went to send a message this morning to confirm all was ok and now blocked. No reason, no explanation. Her loss and obviously had 2nd thoughts but why not just say sorry can't or don't want to and move on.
Alarm bells did ring a little on Friday when we mentioned swapping numbers, she never did give me hers so was 1/2 expecting it but still pisses me off
Cowards way out if you ask me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Setting up 9 meets fir a weekend is a feat and if all 9 cancelled it sounds like you didn't put enough time into arranging them and might have been better putting more time into just a couple of meets. |
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