Does anyone know what this is?!
If, after agreeing a meet, you decide not to go through with it for any reason, it is courteous to let them know. In my experience, increasingly I just get ghosted.
Is it just me? I feel totally worthless and disillusioned. |
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"Does anyone know what this is?!
If, after agreeing a meet, you decide not to go through with it for any reason, it is courteous to let them know. In my experience, increasingly I just get ghosted.
Is it just me? I feel totally worthless and disillusioned. "
apparently it's common, same as sense - most of the time neither applies.... |
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over a year ago
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Quite simply because half the people on here are married,their partner doesn’t know they’re on here, they get off on wanking about the idea but shit themselves if the chance of a meet arises. Nothing to do with you. |
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Not to mention the can I see a pic thing where you show them then they just block without even having the courtesy to say sorry not for me.
It’s not like we all become stalkers when they say sorry not for me lol - hardly makes for a friendly community in my view
Time is short these days so I’m now being very choosy about who I message back - harsh though that sounds |
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It happens to a lot of people.it must cause frustration and make you feel disillusioned but it in no way makes you worthless. They're random strangers from the net.
How are you deciding who to meet? |
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Simply put " some talk the talk but cant walk the walk" keyboard warriers who build you up and then shit their pants when you say yes to a meet. This site was not lile that years ago when it first started. I had loads of meets as a single man on here wirh cpls and singles. Guess times have changed for guys carrying through promises of meeting on here. You are not the only one. We had several cpls shit out on meeting up when we said yes to a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why we only meet at clubs now. But even that can go wrong. Have invited a guy into a room before. He can’t perform. Makes my partner feel unattractive but then he tells you it’s because he’s married and feels guilty and forgot to mention that bit |
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"This is why we only meet at clubs now. But even that can go wrong. Have invited a guy into a room before. He can’t perform. Makes my partner feel unattractive but then he tells you it’s because he’s married and feels guilty and forgot to mention that bit"
I live in the back of beyond. No clubs for miles around and I wouldn’t go to one on my own anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just you. I stopped meeting outside of clubs because I was so sick of being let down. Now i can't be bothered with clubs either cos im fed up of being stood up |
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No ones too nice for this scene.
You’ve obviously just not come across the decent ones yet  but you will.
Definitely agree about the clubs and organised socials. Great way of meeting genuine people and always worth the effort.
Or a good place to start is men verified by club meets. More often than not the clubs lot are great and genuine |
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Surely you would let the person know ASAP x
That's happened to me I've had to cancel but always communicated properly.
I've also had somebody just stop talking after a meet was arranged and yes it's just rude!! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It's not just you op,
Seems to be more and more common lately,so many threads on it .
It's just bloody rude ,if you change your mind fair dos,just tell that person and not waste their time and make them feel shit . |
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"It's not just you op,
Seems to be more and more common lately,so many threads on it .
It's just bloody rude ,if you change your mind fair dos,just tell that person and not waste their time and make them feel shit ."
Absolutely right x |
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"Surely you would let the person know ASAP x
That's happened to me I've had to cancel but always communicated properly.
I've also had somebody just stop talking after a meet was arranged and yes it's just rude!! "
If you just know, it’s better than being ghosted, so you can get on with other stuff |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
"Quite simply because half the people on here are married,their partner doesn’t know they’re on here, they get off on wanking about the idea but shit themselves if the chance of a meet arises. Nothing to do with you."
Snap happened to me twice this week x |
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"Someone did this to us and then about a week later they posted a status complaining that someone had done it to them!
Well that definitely isn’t me!! And I have testimonials to prove it"
? I didn't mean to imply it was you.
It was a) pre-covid, b) in the midlands and most importantly c) a guy!  |
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"Someone did this to us and then about a week later they posted a status complaining that someone had done it to them!
Well that definitely isn’t me!! And I have testimonials to prove it
? I didn't mean to imply it was you.
It was a) pre-covid, b) in the midlands and most importantly c) a guy! "
Unbelievable!! |
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"Quite simply because half the people on here are married,their partner doesn’t know they’re on here, they get off on wanking about the idea but shit themselves if the chance of a meet arises. Nothing to do with you.
Snap happened to me twice this week x"
Oh FFS!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you do sex chat/ send more pics while chatting before the meet?
Yes. I don’t do instant meets. I am very choosy"
They got what they wanted and had a wank.  |
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