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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who here has been recognised by someone they know on FAB….and how did it go?
I have been once  "
I was approached in the gym, it was horrible.
I was also inboxed in McDonald’s by a faceless profile who was apparently also in the queue somewhere. It was creepy as hell and I couldn’t get out of there quick enough.
I was in inboxed by a guy who asked if it was me outside my childrens school, I denied it and blocked him, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who here has been recognised by someone they know on FAB….and how did it go?
I have been once
I was approached in the gym, it was horrible.
I was also inboxed in McDonald’s by a faceless profile who was apparently also in the queue somewhere. It was creepy as hell and I couldn’t get out of there quick enough.
I was in inboxed by a guy who asked if it was me outside my childrens school, I denied it and blocked him,"
Oh dear that isn’t a good one is it, that does sound creepy. Mine was my own doing, I messaged someone not realising I knew them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once in my local Sainsbury's, by a woman whose profile claimed she lived about 30 miles from me.
I have recognised a few people I know, but I believe in being discreet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only once in my local Sainsbury's, by a woman whose profile claimed she lived about 30 miles from me.
I have recognised a few people I know, but I believe in being discreet."
Oh so not to bad. Mine replied saying that they knew me from the gym. It was one of the trainers x |
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I have recognised people on here before but have never been approached by anyone, I believe its because my old self was totally different from how I am now. I'm not shy and wouldn't be too embarressed about being approached, I'd hope discretion is forthcoming though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only once in my local Sainsbury's, by a woman whose profile claimed she lived about 30 miles from me.
I have recognised a few people I know, but I believe in being discreet.
Oh so not to bad. Mine replied saying that they knew me from the gym. It was one of the trainers x"
The one that recognised me said she wouldn't want to meet me as I was too close to home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only once in my local Sainsbury's, by a woman whose profile claimed she lived about 30 miles from me.
I have recognised a few people I know, but I believe in being discreet.
Oh so not to bad. Mine replied saying that they knew me from the gym. It was one of the trainers x
The one that recognised me said she wouldn't want to meet me as I was too close to home."
I suppose it is risky but is so much fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, by a friend. He tried to wind me up on a night out by whispering my profile name into my ear. He started laughing.
Funny thing is, I had a feeling a profile I’d messaged a while back was him - so I said his profile name back to him. His face dropped and he stopped laughing then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only once in my local Sainsbury's, by a woman whose profile claimed she lived about 30 miles from me.
I have recognised a few people I know, but I believe in being discreet.
Oh so not to bad. Mine replied saying that they knew me from the gym. It was one of the trainers x
The one that recognised me said she wouldn't want to meet me as I was too close to home.
I suppose it is risky but is so much fun "
Very risky where I live, as I am in a very small church going village. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only once in my local Sainsbury's, by a woman whose profile claimed she lived about 30 miles from me.
I have recognised a few people I know, but I believe in being discreet.
Oh so not to bad. Mine replied saying that they knew me from the gym. It was one of the trainers x
The one that recognised me said she wouldn't want to meet me as I was too close to home.
I suppose it is risky but is so much fun
Very risky where I live, as I am in a very small church going village."
Very awkward but discretion is a must |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was messaged by a guy I went to school with.... He knew it was me... I wasn't interested then, and I'm not interested now!!"
That’s fair enough then |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"Who here has been recognised by someone they know on FAB….and how did it go?
I have been once
I was approached in the gym, it was horrible.
I was also inboxed in McDonald’s by a faceless profile who was apparently also in the queue somewhere. It was creepy as hell and I couldn’t get out of there quick enough.
I was in inboxed by a guy who asked if it was me outside my childrens school, I denied it and blocked him,"
Eeew!! Faceless profile and outside a school!!!  |
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Have done loads of times. On here and in clubs.
Just expect the same respect I give when i notice someone.
Always been fine  few I’ve ended up playing with, a few blocked me and didn’t want to play with someone they “knew”. Fine either way
Report and block every blank profile saying they know you- fab idiot standard guide to how to intimidate women! 99.9% of the time they just wanna scare you to reply. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
Actually have a fun game.. I work in events that are occasionally in the middle of nowhere, like to see 'who's near' and see if I can pick them out.. But approaching or stalking/creeping them out.. No!! Respect!! |
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I (fem) was recognised by an ex work colleague, who then tried to use that knowledge as a lever to get me to join him. Walked a careful line not committing, yet not provoking a response. Shortly after my single account was hacked and pics stolen.
Hence wary with images now.
Some ppl are incapable of live and let live  |
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One couple on here messaged us to say that the man knew C from where they used to live so I blocked them straight away.
I recognised a couple on here from where we lived in Skiathos and I think he’s blocked us. |
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By *stoppMan
over a year ago
Durham |
Got recognised once by a fellow motorcyclist at bike show, apparently it was my bike and leathers that give me away from a photo I used to have posted on here.. really nice guy went on a few bike ride outs before he moved to London.. still speak but not via fab.. |
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I messaged a couple after them asking for a face pic, they said my full name and that they knew me from school, totally freaked me out as they then wouldn't let me know who they were, I had to block them in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been recognised twice because of eye pics…
First time led me to a naughty club night
Second one was my sons friend so he went on the block list and I denied all knowledge….
I have recently spoke to a guy who went to the same school as me that fizzled out … |
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I met with a friend that I went to school with after recognising her on here.
Also have seen the husband of a couple I know on here at the football but I wouldn’t ever approach.
We just say “alright mate” and keep walking!
I definitely think discretion and respect are to be expected in situations like that  |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
Imagine if you were famous and just couldn't use sites like this, that wouldn't be great.
I was recognised on an old profile by a woman nearby. She described things about my house etc and where I lived. It was near a school so loads of people walked by so it could have anyone or it could have been someone closer. |
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Yep, had a guy I’ve played with a couple of times come into work and I served. I recognised his face but couldn’t place where from at the exact moment. He just winked and acted normal. As soon as he left I remembered so went and messaged him to say thank you for his discretion |
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I went to my regular dentist for a check up and was told I would have to see a locum dentist as mine was off sick, the locum turned out to be a lovely young girl that I'd seen a few weeks earlier at an Exeter Fetish clubnight.
She looked different out of latex...... |
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A neighbour's friend rushed over to us in a Manchester club all flustered.
Apologising profusely saying it was just a phase she was going through and please, please, never mention setting eyes on her in this club or anywhere else.
Oh course not, it's a secret between us all.
Later on, after a few drinks she did get interested in a party we were attending. |
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A neighbour's friend rushed over to us in a Manchester club all flustered.
Apologising profusely saying it was just a phase she was going through and please, please, never mention setting eyes on her in this club or anywhere else.
Oh course not, it's a secret between us all.
Later on, after a few drinks she did get interested in a party we were attending. |
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I was in a swingers club once and a girl I employed a couple weeks earlier walked in! She was quite gobby and was worried she’d talk about it at work. I was a senior manager so needed the discretion.
I decided to approach her, and explained I needed this not to be talked about. She agreed, and was lovely about it. We ended up having a play that night and was FWB for a little while.
I’ve recognised people out in a normal environment but I’d never approach. You should never mix the swinging world and vanilla world in my opinion |
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I had a work colleague ask to have a word privately. After telling me he knew I was on this site, he then expected to start something there and then in the staff canteen. He was quite shocked when I told him not to be so ridiculous. |
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I have. He messaged me later in the day, he had a job in the house opposite to mine.lol That could of been freaky as he then knew where i lived but we had been chatting for ages and he was a good egg.
I would be pissed off if someone just randomly came up to me to say they seen me on here. |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
"Yes in a swingers club as hubby and I sat a lady approached and it was my boss. She was 60 and her hubby was with her
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How did that play out?
Personally I think I would have fronted it out bold as brash and have invited them to play privately in a cheeky icebreaker kind of way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few months ago I looked at the “ who looked me bit “ and saw one of my bosses from work , I’m
Not out at work and was more bothered that he would tell people, he made a few jokes about me liking men , but has since left the company, thank god |
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At my last place of work.... there must of been about 10 people off it that recognised me. It was a fun place to work. But i had to remove face photos. I was advised to by older colleges and friends. It was fun tho |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We have been.
To be completely honest we were a bit annoyed as we ignore or do a subtle responsive nod to anyone we recognise in a vanilla setting regardless of where we see them and want the same. This 'used to be' it seems an unwritten etiquette rule in the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were chatting to a couple on here only a week ago or so. Decided to exchange face pics, sent ours first. He messaged to say he knew us
Turns out he used to hang around with us in a group of friends when we were at school.
Has left us unsure of what to do, as they are a genuine couple and looking for same as us pretty much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone messaged me to say they saw me in a local shop. He described what I was wearing etc. I thanked him for not approaching me as I was with family.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we meet & play, for us its like completely separate. A sort of bubble time not overlap with real time. So seeing someone from Fab out of context feels extremely uncomfortable. |
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Twice.
First one was a lady I used to work with, who I sent my face pic to. She eventually revealed herself and when we bump into each other twice a year we never mention it, although we do sometimes message on here.
Second time. My good Fab friend recommended a financial advisor she used. I’d forgotten the story she told me, how she met him. She met him here. On Fab.
He was due to come to my house to give me mortgage advice. I was sat perving fab just before the agreed time. On “near me” showing a quarter of a mile away was a unusual male profile I’d never seen locally before. The profile pic was a close up of the guys eyes. It was him. Sat in his car also perving Fab outside my house. When he knocked on the door the first thing I noticed was the same eyes.
I didn’t mention I’d rumbled him but when he’d finished I did say “that’s Fab thanks for coming”. Lol. |
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"I get recognised quite a bit but that's what comes from have face pics on my profile. It doesn't bother me one bit as we are not ashamed of our lifestyle choice"
And nor should you be! I find it a big turn off when you read the old "must be discrete blah blah blah" or the good old "I cant send pics here but can on ...inserts phone number or other messaging apps" Why someone thinks thats safer than just adding a pic on a message here or in a private album?? |
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"I get recognised quite a bit but that's what comes from have face pics on my profile. It doesn't bother me one bit as we are not ashamed of our lifestyle choice
And nor should you be! I find it a big turn off when you read the old "must be discrete blah blah blah" or the good old "I cant send pics here but can on ...inserts phone number or other messaging apps" Why someone thinks thats safer than just adding a pic on a message here or in a private album??"
It is quite a small town we stay in and most people know we are swingers. |
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"I get recognised quite a bit but that's what comes from have face pics on my profile. It doesn't bother me one bit as we are not ashamed of our lifestyle choice
And nor should you be! I find it a big turn off when you read the old "must be discrete blah blah blah" or the good old "I cant send pics here but can on ...inserts phone number or other messaging apps" Why someone thinks thats safer than just adding a pic on a message here or in a private album??
It is quite a small town we stay in and most people know we are swingers. "
I dont purposely tell everyone but nor do i make a big point of hiding it either. Most ny mates know and due to someone blurting out " hows the swining going, met any nice men recently" while my mother was sat in the room, well she knows too now lol |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"I get recognised quite a bit but that's what comes from have face pics on my profile. It doesn't bother me one bit as we are not ashamed of our lifestyle choice
And nor should you be! I find it a big turn off when you read the old "must be discrete blah blah blah" or the good old "I cant send pics here but can on ...inserts phone number or other messaging apps" Why someone thinks thats safer than just adding a pic on a message here or in a private album??
It is quite a small town we stay in and most people know we are swingers.
I dont purposely tell everyone but nor do i make a big point of hiding it either. Most ny mates know and due to someone blurting out " hows the swining going, met any nice men recently" while my mother was sat in the room, well she knows too now lol "
Definitely envy your freedom. |
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Yes a couple of times once just over week ago was at friends for queens jubilee no interest at all in queen but free booze is different.
Message said am behind you spooked me out at 1st eventually figured it out just replied your place or mine ?? |
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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Yes a couple of times once just over week ago was at friends for queens jubilee no interest at all in queen but free booze is different.
Message said am behind you spooked me out at 1st eventually figured it out just replied your place or mine ??"
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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Yes a couple of times once just over week ago was at friends for queens jubilee no interest at all in queen but free booze is different.
Message said am behind you spooked me out at 1st eventually figured it out just replied your place or mine ??"
And the outcome? |
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By *halMan
over a year ago
North West |
Yes/No was in the cinema and while the adverts were playing,the lady of the couple in front I could see was sending a message from her FAB profile……I was intrigued who they was….but I would never approach them for all the reasons above! |
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"I get recognised quite a bit but that's what comes from have face pics on my profile. It doesn't bother me one bit as we are not ashamed of our lifestyle choice
And nor should you be! I find it a big turn off when you read the old "must be discrete blah blah blah" or the good old "I cant send pics here but can on ...inserts phone number or other messaging apps" Why someone thinks thats safer than just adding a pic on a message here or in a private album??
It is quite a small town we stay in and most people know we are swingers.
I dont purposely tell everyone but nor do i make a big point of hiding it either. Most ny mates know and due to someone blurting out " hows the swining going, met any nice men recently" while my mother was sat in the room, well she knows too now lol
Definitely envy your freedom."
It's not so much freedom but a lifestyle choice we are not ashamed of and don't mind anyone knowing about it including family. I don't mind anyone mentioning that they recognise me from here as long as it is done openly and privately. What does get my goat is someone messaging saying they know me hiding behind a keyboard.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs realised she was messaging an old work mate and she who she was to avoid any surprises down the line.
They were cool with it but did find it awkward because they knew us. "
God I’d love to recognise you both, very stunning x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The downside of having face pics I suppose. I was spotted again today, in Aldi of all places! I am quite recognisable I suppose  "
Ha ha you are very recognisable!!! I might start hanging around your Aldi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have recognised a few on here
From around our area
We respect what they do and would always keep discreet about anything we see
And obviously would like the same to happen if they recognised us
What ever happens on fab stays on fab |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Yes we have been recognised a few times. The Guys have always been discreet and just sent a message letting me know they recognised me. Which is appreciated. We have bumped into a couple of people we know. Including a family member's neighbour. We ended up playing together too. It was kinky and fun lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is a couple on here that I recognise, but they list there address as Newbury rather than Basingstoke (where I know they live). I've cross referenced photos on with photos on social media, and whilst extremely similar there are subtle differences which makes me wonder. They are really friends of friends so don't know them that well. She has a fabulous figure, and as much as I'd love to i do worry. so blocked them. If they are reading this and are who I think they are and interested then let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there is a couple on here that I recognise, but they list there address as Newbury rather than Basingstoke (where I know they live). I've cross referenced photos on with photos on social media, and whilst extremely similar there are subtle differences which makes me wonder. They are really friends of friends so don't know them that well. She has a fabulous figure, and as much as I'd love to i do worry. so blocked them. If they are reading this and are who I think they are and interested then let me know "
Slightly creepy |
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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"I think there is a couple on here that I recognise, but they list there address as Newbury rather than Basingstoke (where I know they live). I've cross referenced photos on with photos on social media, and whilst extremely similar there are subtle differences which makes me wonder. They are really friends of friends so don't know them that well. She has a fabulous figure, and as much as I'd love to i do worry. so blocked them. If they are reading this and are who I think they are and interested then let me know
Slightly creepy"
Exactly why would you go to that extent to find out? |
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"I think there is a couple on here that I recognise, but they list there address as Newbury rather than Basingstoke (where I know they live). I've cross referenced photos on with photos on social media, and whilst extremely similar there are subtle differences which makes me wonder. They are really friends of friends so don't know them that well. She has a fabulous figure, and as much as I'd love to i do worry. so blocked them. If they are reading this and are who I think they are and interested then let me know "
Stalker alert! |
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By *halMan
over a year ago
North West |
"I think there is a couple on here that I recognise, but they list there address as Newbury rather than Basingstoke (where I know they live). I've cross referenced photos on with photos on social media, and whilst extremely similar there are subtle differences which makes me wonder. They are really friends of friends so don't know them that well. She has a fabulous figure, and as much as I'd love to i do worry. so blocked them. If they are reading this and are who I think they are and interested then let me know "
WTF |
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