"Watching or taking part while your wife/husband is with someone else?
I tried to just watch but couldn't resist joining in "
Exactly the same, I couldn't help but join in Lee
Think it really depends on the dynamic. Cuckold play rarely if ever joins in. A more general 3 sum it is whatever feels right tho I do enjoy watching and being watched!
So far I've only gone to meets alone and hubby stays home watching the videos I send him back. We've our first mfm meet planned soon, looking forward to that