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By *iding Secrets OP Couple over a year ago

Plymouth

Hi All,

I am arranging a meet for Mrs and Myself,

Mrs is fully aware of all of this but I need some guidance.

The plan is for me (Mr) to make contact with a guy who will meet us on a night out in a bar, he will then proceed to 'chat up' Mrs whilst im off getting drinks off to the loo etc etc..

If all goes well then its off to the hotel room.

What advice would you give me when trying to vet potential guys etc etc.

Cheers

Mr.

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By *asperthedogCouple over a year ago

midlands

let the wife do it, she's the one whos going to be fucking him. Women are not stupid if it feels wrong she'll tell you

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

what women find attrative differs from men massively.

ask your mrs who she finds attractive in the public eye. -- it might narrow things a little, though there is still no guarantee lol

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By *iding Secrets OP Couple over a year ago

Plymouth

she doesnt want to arrange it, she doesnt want to know who the guy is untill he turns up.

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By *r-MissCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Have to agree with the other posts and let your wife choose the guy, or perhaps you could go through profiles together and pick a guy and then do the whole bar chat up thing

Just because you think he is a great guy your wife may beg to differ

(Miss)

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Then make sure you can trust him and don't leave her in a vulnerable situation. Ask her what general type she would go for and make sure all three of you know where the boundaries lie. Hope it's a lot of fun for all involved

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

I'd have to advise the person you are meeting to speak to the lady first otherwise it's a very dodgy proposition.

Unless the guy already knows you both of course.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

"Then make sure you can trust him and don't leave her in a vulnerable situation. Ask her what general type she would go for and make sure all three of you know where the boundaries lie. Hope it's a lot of fun for all involved"

if they find a decent guy whos well verified this shouldnt be a problem at all.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple over a year ago

Takeley

Our experience is that part of the fun is agreeing on who to pick, together. We have met single guys that hawkeye has chosen and has a good idea of what hotlips is looking for. It's all about communication. We feel it is critical that the man gets on with the single gent and doesn't feel left out. That whomever you choose you are open and honest and that the single guy communicates with you both and not the lady of the couple with the exclusion of the partner. It is important that you both understand that this is the fems choice as the single guy ( unless you are inclined) is there for the lady, so ultimately it is her choice. That said, it is our experience that the best way is to make it clear to the single guy that once the fun has been had that you will contact him again, should you want to. NSA. Enjoy and move on together. Same rules apply with a single gal, change genders in our thread.

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