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over a year ago
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so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave? |
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
I blooming knew I was doing things wrong  |
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over a year ago
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"Well it's not ur average e harmony site is love "
no its not but im a single women meeting men off sex sites, i put my safty first and i always meet in a public place for a drink and a chat befor i play with someone
I like to sus people out, i dont want to find out ive met a nutter when im locked away in a room somewhere with them alone
and personally i dont think its to much to ask that men will do that for women just to make them feel at ease, all because we are on a sex site we are still people not just lumps of meat, respect goes a long way on here |
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over a year ago
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
.  now that sound fun lol but in the real world it's coffee an a chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's not ur average e harmony site is love
no its not but im a single women meeting men off sex sites, i put my safty first and i always meet in a public place for a drink and a chat befor i play with someone
I like to sus people out, i dont want to find out ive met a nutter when im locked away in a room somewhere with them alone
and personally i dont think its to much to ask that men will do that for women just to make them feel at ease, all because we are on a sex site we are still people not just lumps of meat, respect goes a long way on here "
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"Well it's not ur average e harmony site is love
no its not but im a single women meeting men off sex sites, i put my safty first and i always meet in a public place for a drink and a chat befor i play with someone
I like to sus people out, i dont want to find out ive met a nutter when im locked away in a room somewhere with them alone
and personally i dont think its to much to ask that men will do that for women just to make them feel at ease, all because we are on a sex site we are still people not just lumps of meat, respect goes a long way on here "
Im a man, but same for me really. |
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"I fort this site was about meeting for sex not for coffee and a bleeding chat wtf"
i fort the same fing mate was thinking of asking for my money back if i had paid to be on here i only want a shag and didnt expect i would have to pay for coffee and bloody talk to the birds on ere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest with you i wouldnt want to meet a guy who just wanted to turn up and fuck, men who do that i feel have no standards, anyone who offers sex without meeting you first i feel will just shag anything, if they did have standards surely they would want to meet for a drink and a chat first to see if they liked you also?
tho i know im not super model i would like to think men who play with me are doing so because theres some attraction and not just because im a willing hole who agreed to meet
sorry if that sounds rude |
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over a year ago
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
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over a year ago
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"Well it's not ur average e harmony site is love
no its not but im a single women meeting men off sex sites, i put my safty first and i always meet in a public place for a drink and a chat befor i play with someone
I like to sus people out, i dont want to find out ive met a nutter when im locked away in a room somewhere with them alone
and personally i dont think its to much to ask that men will do that for women just to make them feel at ease, all because we are on a sex site we are still people not just lumps of meat, respect goes a long way on here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg I suppose I've Neva met girl
Or guy in a pub/ club an gone back with them
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Well there's your answer then - go to a pub or club for instant, free sex |
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"Well it's not ur average e harmony site is love
no its not but im a single women meeting men off sex sites, i put my safty first and i always meet in a public place for a drink and a chat befor i play with someone
I like to sus people out, i dont want to find out ive met a nutter when im locked away in a room somewhere with them alone
and personally i dont think its to much to ask that men will do that for women just to make them feel at ease, all because we are on a sex site we are still people not just lumps of meat, respect goes a long way on here "
Well said and totally agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg I suppose I've Neva met girl
Or guy in a pub/ club an gone back with them
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ah but have you ever met someone in a pub and gone back with them without standing and having a drink and a chat in said pub first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was brought up to ALWAYS treat people with respect, especially ladies! I would suggest you look elsewhere for a quick anonymous shag! You'll need some cash though I believe they charge!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like these posts, as if it's everyone else thats totally wrong with what they want to do and how to do it... no no no, they should all drop their skids in the first second and hump away
Most inconsiderate of everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alls I am saying is how the hell can u tell if the person ur meeting is a nutter or a pyscho after half an hour of supping coffee unless ur a mind reader "
You get far more of an idea wether you'd like to shag'em after meeting first compared to just turning up with sex being the order of the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's better than turning up and finding out the picture wasn't of them or was 10 years old and now after seeing them you wouldn't want to touch them.
At least with a social meet you can then go home and block'em  |
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over a year ago
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"Alls I am saying is how the hell can u tell if the person ur meeting is a nutter or a pyscho after half an hour of supping coffee unless ur a mind reader "
Wen we av social we av meal n drinks ask few questions etc if they hold good convo then were happy but only play at a club as safety is big issue we have kids we av known people in here a yr and only just played wen all was comfy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
Don't you nymph? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alls I am saying is how the hell can u tell if the person ur meeting is a nutter or a pyscho after half an hour of supping coffee unless ur a mind reader "
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over a year ago
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"Omg I suppose I've Neva met girl
Or guy in a pub/ club an gone back with them
ah but have you ever met someone in a pub and gone back with them without standing and having a drink and a chat in said pub first "
perhaps he uses the old fashioned method,
walks up to them, clubs them over the head and drags them back to his cave by the hair |
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Perhaps tea rather than coffee?
I think there is more chance of deciding if you want sex with someone by meeting them first (for any socially acceptable hot beverage) rather than deciding you dont want sex with them when they are in your house. |
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over a year ago
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"Yea but that's why we are here instead of a dating site for sex "
It maybe sex yes but there as gotta be an attraction too
I know personally I cudnt go with a guy I never chatted n met |
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over a year ago
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"Alls I am saying is how the hell can u tell if the person ur meeting is a nutter or a pyscho after half an hour of supping coffee unless ur a mind reader "
you cant, i met a guy several times before his true self came out and he turned a bit odd
but i have met many times where guys dont look like their pic so meeting in public first gives you the chance to sus someone out a bit
we cant get it right all the time but we can so our best and at least try to stay safe |
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Here's how you do it fella
Get a newspaper, look in the personals
Find a prostitue
Dial her number
Dip your hand in your pocket
Pay here
And fuck her
No coffee
No chit chat
Your on the wrong site here, we d never contact you or anyone with the same attitude
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fort this site was about meeting for sex not for coffee and a bleeding chat wtf"
Yeah, bleedin nerve innit, all these women coming on a 'sex-site' and only wantin coffee... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That sort of attitude towards the site and it's members is what spoiling it for the genuine people. What's wrong with meet for a coffee first. There has to be an attraction and what better way to find if there is or not than arranging a coffee meet to break the ice. Sometimes I've been to females and couples houses for coffees then invited back for more, at least that way we know all parties are happy with the situation |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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"Lemme guess, someone cant get a shag "
Tsk Tsk!
Whatever makes you think that??
Yep, another Single guy that doesn't get the concept of this site!
It's all about fun. You want Instant Sex, go elsewhere, like your local red light district! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, another Single guy that doesn't get the concept of this site!
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Think it's simpler than that - another single guy who doesn't get the concept of Swinging....
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over a year ago
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I think the problem is swinging has changed so much over the years
ive been doing this for a long time and i remember when i started swinging was much more a social event, i was married at the time and we used to go to loads of house parties where people would stand about socialising for a good few hours before play started
now days swinging is just seen as a easy lay and everyoine wants a piece
lots of people use the site for a quick shag, and thats fine if thats how you want to use it, but remember its called fab swingers not fab quick fix site, for most swinging is still about socializing as well |
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over a year ago
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"Argh fantastic _londeandbrown wud u mind lending us 62 pounds then the 2 pound change would be for some chips on the way home thanks "
Oooo u know the price already u go lad if its instant sex u want but trust me this ain't the site for u |
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"Argh fantastic _londeandbrown wud u mind lending us 62 pounds then the 2 pound change would be for some chips on the way home thanks "
So you know how much they charge in Warrington then...?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the problem is swinging has changed so much over the years
ive been doing this for a long time and i remember when i started swinging was much more a social event, i was married at the time and we used to go to loads of house parties where people would stand about socialising for a good few hours before play started
now days swinging is just seen as a easy lay and everyoine wants a piece
lots of people use the site for a quick shag, and thats fine if thats how you want to use it, but remember its called fab swingers not fab quick fix site, for most swinging is still about socializing as well"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And they wonder why they can't get meets!! Signing up to a SWINGING site does not guarantee you a leg over, it's not instashag!!
As someone else had said, perhaps you don't understand the concept of swinging? |
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over a year ago
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"I was brought up to ALWAYS treat people with respect, especially ladies! I would suggest you look elsewhere for a quick anonymous shag! You'll need some cash though I believe they charge!!!! "
Well said, that man.
Pmsl at this thread - thanks, OP. |
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"Worst thing is its took him a whole year to realise hes on the wrong site and swinging isnt for him lol."
exactly.. You'd think if he's that desperately in need of sex either his partner or his fb would be able to accom his needs.. Thats got to be the benefit of having both..
oh unless the partner found out about the fb and the fb found out he was falling for her and they both fekked off of course !!
And then how dare women on this site actually be true swingers and want to meet and see face before dropping their knickers.. bloody cheek of them !  I am sure we must have missed the bit when we joined that most single guys see that says although it says its a swingers site they were only joking and its actually a site for free prostitues and the site is your catalogue whichever you pick will be with you legs spread within a flash ! And all it will cost is the £5 to be a sponsor max or could be free..
Probably not right site for you... go back to Alton Towers probably best.. |
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"Alls I am saying is how the hell can u tell if the person ur meeting is a nutter or a pyscho after half an hour of supping coffee unless ur a mind reader "
I'll give you some examples.
Guy 1: met for a drink. Didn't hold the door open for me, walked straight to the bar and ordered a drink for himself. When I called him on that his response was "this ain't a date love". This is someone I'd spoken to for weeks. I left him there. He ran after me, genuinely perplexed by my attitude. I shudder to think how he'd have treated me in my own home.
Guy 2: charming man I'd spoken to. A delightful meet over lunch. As he relaxed he told me about his business partner and him. They exported white goods to Nigeria. They had a house there and they employed a prostitute to look after it when they were away. When they returned they both fucked her. None of that came out in internet chat. Having sex with someone who used African prostitutes was not for me.
When I play I'm "extreme". I'd think a man was nuts if he didn't want to meet me first.
Inviting strangers into my home without vettng them first is NEVER going to happen. If someone doesn't like it I can honestly say I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
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By *hawy06 OP Man
over a year ago
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So basically I should start with hi you fancy some tea it's cheaper after all it's a credit crunch look love I no I luk like Quasimodo and jack the ripper but how was ur flaming tea now can we fuck Oh nearly forgot my manners thank you please can we fuck |
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over a year ago
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"Well it's not ur average e harmony site is love
no its not but im a single women meeting men off sex sites, i put my safty first and i always meet in a public place for a drink and a chat befor i play with someone
I like to sus people out, i dont want to find out ive met a nutter when im locked away in a room somewhere with them alone
and personally i dont think its to much to ask that men will do that for women just to make them feel at ease, all because we are on a sex site we are still people not just lumps of meat, respect goes a long way on here "
i agree, daunting being a single fem going for a meet, like to keep it public too for first time meet  |
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"So basically I should start with hi you fancy some tea it's cheaper after all it's a credit crunch look love I no I luk like Quasimodo and jack the ripper but how was ur flaming tea now can we fuck Oh nearly forgot my manners thank you please can we fuck "
No as with attitude u won't get a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet at clubs. Rarely know who it is. However I often meet people for a chat and a cuppa. I am certainly not looking for a date. But really I think original poster would be best off on other sites. |
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over a year ago
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"Yea but that's why we are here instead of a dating site for sex "
no thats why u r here please do not asume we r all like u it makes an arse of u i believe is the phase i am here to meet girls and enjoy just girls and would never dream of meeting a girl in a hotel room first as chances r a guy would turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love threads like this. Normally I just sit back and watch but now I'm having my say!
To the OP: Us single women have to look out for our own safety. I for one don't have a meet without a social meet first because I am not going to someone's house for a fuck without knowing a little bit about the guy. I also have got to have some sort of connection with the guy otherwise my legs remain tightly closed. This is a site for swingers, its not a sex site and there's a distinctive difference.
Phew I feel better for that and its not even a Thursday!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG !!!!!
I didnt realise this was a sex site i though id joined a new christian society forum --- i so ashamed cus you see im a total virgin and novice never ever had sex....honest ...realy its true ...im not lying....you do believe me dont you ?????? |
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With that attitude you wont even get the cuppa...Its that attitude that makes it difficult for single women or otherwise not feel safe about meets.. If you cant show respect on a forum how the heck would you treat a woman in private?..Would pass you by without hesitation...the comment you made to Porky was out of line..you should find somewhere else to get your kicks as you really dont understand the concept of LS... |
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"With that attitude you wont even get the cuppa...Its that attitude that makes it difficult for single women or otherwise not feel safe about meets.. If you cant show respect on a forum how the heck would you treat a woman in private?..Would pass you by without hesitation...the comment you made to Porky was out of line..you should find somewhere else to get your kicks as you really dont understand the concept of LS..."
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"So basically I should start with hi you fancy some tea it's cheaper after all it's a credit crunch look love I no I luk like Quasimodo and jack the ripper but how was ur flaming tea now can we fuck Oh nearly forgot my manners thank you please can we fuck "
lol been here a year and havent got a clue how swinging works or how to conduct yourself on a swinging site maybe try a trip to your nearest red light district. |
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 I can sort of understand where the OP is coming from, when you strip it right back swinging is about sex, the social side comes with it yes, but some people, not all by any means, are more interested in the social side. We don't meet outside of the club scene as its just too much hassle, but also understand that there are a lot of safety concerns with meeting in a country pub car park etc, which is one of the many reasons why we stick to clubs.
The club scene at the moment does contain a lot of people who are really only there for the social side, which from our perspective is diluting our swinging experience. And so understand to a degree where the OP is coming from. |
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"Yea but that's why we are here instead of a dating site for sex "
Christ on a fuck'n bike! Does anyone else get sick to the back teeth of some of the fuckwits here telling us why 'WE' are on the feck'n site.
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
WHAT!!! of course not!!! the OP expects the women to turn up wherever he is COMPLETELY naked and perform what ever act empties his sack with the least effort in return |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
They dont !!!!!! Bugger !!!!! |
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"so i suppose in your world women on here would just hand out their address to total stranger on sex sites, open to the door half naked, fuck you and then you leave?"
wot time you comming round then?
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One day of extreme sexual frustration I met 5 men. 5!!!
Meet one - fake pics,
Meet two - out of date pics, 5 stone earlier
Meet three - nice guy but no spark between us and still hung up over his recently left ex.
Meet four - fake pics
Meet five - as described, by this point I was ready to cosh the waiter and drag him off to the ladies!!! So I played and he was disappointing.
Remind me again why I meet in a public place over a cup of coffee with other people handy in case they turn out to be weirdos? |
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"One day of extreme sexual frustration I met 5 men. 5!!!
Meet one - fake pics,
Meet two - out of date pics, 5 stone earlier
Meet three - nice guy but no spark between us and still hung up over his recently left ex.
Meet four - fake pics
Meet five - as described, by this point I was ready to cosh the waiter and drag him off to the ladies!!! So I played and he was disappointing.
Remind me again why I meet in a public place over a cup of coffee with other people handy in case they turn out to be weirdos? "
There's something more remarkable about your little list - they all turned up....
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"Yep, another Single guy that doesn't get the concept of this site!
Think it's simpler than that - another single guy who doesn't get the concept of Swinging....
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Simpler still...doesn't get the concept of basic manners and human interaction. Would hate to be the poor cow he duped into a relationship |
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