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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago
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Our jubilee get together bought up some weird and wonderful conversation between friends. After the usual vanilla stuff we were posing scenarios and asking what each would do. To throw a spanner in the works I asked this question. I knew it would spice things up and reveal how different people view things. So I thought I’d ask the ladies and gents on here!
A night out leads you back home with someone you’ve met that evening. You’re in bed having a good time when a man is about to orgasm… does he assume where he should cum or is it something that’s agreed on before that point? |
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over a year ago
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clearly not all think the same so i would guess that if a woman did not want cum in a certain place then she would say but even then i dont think its best to assume with anything |
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"Our jubilee get together bought up some weird and wonderful conversation between friends. After the usual vanilla stuff we were posing scenarios and asking what each would do. To throw a spanner in the works I asked this question. I knew it would spice things up and reveal how different people view things. So I thought I’d ask the ladies and gents on here!
A night out leads you back home with someone you’ve met that evening. You’re in bed having a good time when a man is about to orgasm… does he assume where he should cum or is it something that’s agreed on before that point?"
In my experience assumptions are generally wrong
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They normally just cum inside, no prior conversation... followed by a text 2 days later to ask if I'm on the pill haha. If they've wanted to cum elsewhere they've always asked but have found it rare they do.
And yeah I mainly do bareback, unless they want to do otherwise which has only been once, even with one night stands, it feels better, get tested regularly, no fucks given. |
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It's an interesting dilemma ans great question that you raise.
As others have rightly said, the vast majority of the vanilla world don't bother with condoms or even try to discuss protection in the heat of the moment.
It's only the swing scene where some insist on covered play for anything, others only for penetration, some for bare play with an outside finish.....
And then there's the creampie lovers.
But it's a great point to raise if only to gauge the response. |
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As others have rightly said, the vast majority of the vanilla world don't bother with condoms or even try to discuss protection in the heat of the moment.
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I don't agree. For one night stands I think most people use condoms.
I would expect someone to come inside me if we hadn't discussed anything previously |
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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's an interesting dilemma ans great question that you raise.
As others have rightly said, the vast majority of the vanilla world don't bother with condoms or even try to discuss protection in the heat of the moment.
It's only the swing scene where some insist on covered play for anything, others only for penetration, some for bare play with an outside finish.....
And then there's the creampie lovers.
But it's a great point to raise if only to gauge the response."
It really is interesting to see so many different responses. I think you’ve included most options in your post, yet the part that resonated with me is the ‘heat of the moment’ that comes into play. An unexpected meeting with someone on a random night out is prepared for differently.
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By *onny Bones OP Man
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"They normally just cum inside, no prior conversation... followed by a text 2 days later to ask if I'm on the pill haha. If they've wanted to cum elsewhere they've always asked but have found it rare they do.
And yeah I mainly do bareback, unless they want to do otherwise which has only been once, even with one night stands, it feels better, get tested regularly, no fucks given."
Your preference. Thanks for sharing |
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