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Definition of a FWB
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"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it." I agree with this. I like to treat my fwb to things. Take her out for drinks, see that shes happy and have bloody good sex. | |||
"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it." if only there was more women like you in this world ?? | |||
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"Interesting feedback. I know it’s a swingers site but recently I met a woman who wanted to have a FWB situation but it meant no sleeping around with others which was quite refreshing to hear. Curious as to how many people would actually be happy meeting one person?" I wasnt. But think im happy to now. | |||
"Interesting feedback. I know it’s a swingers site but recently I met a woman who wanted to have a FWB situation but it meant no sleeping around with others which was quite refreshing to hear. Curious as to how many people would actually be happy meeting one person?" lucky you ?? that's what I originally joined for. Been a member awhile now and only log in every now and again. Unfortunately I've not had the same luck as you. Glad to hear someone has achieved this though ?? | |||
"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it. I agree with this. I like to treat my fwb to things. Take her out for drinks, see that shes happy and have bloody good sex." That's far too much like having an actual relationship to me...a coffee or a drink with a catch up and then some fun...that's more like a fwb in my eyes | |||
"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it. I agree with this. I like to treat my fwb to things. Take her out for drinks, see that shes happy and have bloody good sex. That's far too much like having an actual relationship to me...a coffee or a drink with a catch up and then some fun...that's more like a fwb in my eyes" You might be right. Lol Do you not like a relationship then. | |||
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"Friend on benefits, isn't it?" I'm sure there are a few of those on here  | |||
"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it. I agree with this. I like to treat my fwb to things. Take her out for drinks, see that shes happy and have bloody good sex. That's far too much like having an actual relationship to me...a coffee or a drink with a catch up and then some fun...that's more like a fwb in my eyes You might be right. Lol Do you not like a relationship then." I'm open to it but relationships seem to require time...and well I don't have enough of that in general for myself let alone to give to another person | |||
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"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it. I agree with this. I like to treat my fwb to things. Take her out for drinks, see that shes happy and have bloody good sex. That's far too much like having an actual relationship to me...a coffee or a drink with a catch up and then some fun...that's more like a fwb in my eyes You might be right. Lol Do you not like a relationship then. I'm open to it but relationships seem to require time...and well I don't have enough of that in general for myself let alone to give to another person " A relationship requires time and effort. But then again some relationships start based on the sexual factor | |||
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"Friend on benefits, isn't it? I'm sure there are a few of those on here "I bet  | |||
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"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it." I need to find a woman i can do jobs for  | |||
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"Mine does jobs for me. Gives me shoulder to cry on. A good friend I have sex with when I need it. I agree with this. I like to treat my fwb to things. Take her out for drinks, see that shes happy and have bloody good sex. That's far too much like having an actual relationship to me...a coffee or a drink with a catch up and then some fun...that's more like a fwb in my eyes You might be right. Lol Do you not like a relationship then. I'm open to it but relationships seem to require time...and well I don't have enough of that in general for myself let alone to give to another person A relationship requires time and effort. But then again some relationships start based on the sexual factor" Well I've always said the best relationships start when you least expect it | |||
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"Firstly, apologies for the long post on this topic, and secondly it's important to note that this is purely my opinion, and respect that others will have different views. Ultimately, we are all here for our own reasons, so with that said, here's my contribution to the thread..... I have had a few FB here since joining the site, and whether that was meeting once a week, once a month, it was simply for sex with NSA, little to no conversation between meets, and allowing both parties to meet whom they pleased. For me, whilst I have enjoyed those meets, it hasn't presented the full package that the swinging lifestyle has to offer. A FWB on the other hand is a different situation, and can have many layers to it, depending on what both parties are looking for, and agree upon. Recently I have found a FWB, not something I was looking for, but it's been an interesting kind of different so far. As someone who has been on my own for many years now, enjoys my own company, has friends away from fab, and massively independent, this dynamic has brought about some new opportunities, that I didn't think I would enjoy, although have been open to. We have enjoyed some food together, watching a film, going out for a drink etc, all of which I can do on my own, or with friends outside the site, but, with the added benefits of leading to amazing sex, having a cwtch, chatting and sharing our thoughts and ideas about this lifestyle with a trusted confidante, and the opportunities to attend social events and clubs together if we wish. My FWB and I, are currently quite happy to only meet each other (as singletons), whilst continuing to maintain our individual existing friendships/relations we both already have with "couples" within the site. Neither of us are looking to step away from that. Some would see this as a relationship. It isn't. It is what you want it to be, and will only work if you communicate at all times about what you clearly want /don't want within the dynamic. It is having that trusted friend, someone to share all the above with, explore and push boundaries, but safe enough, and open for either to walk away at any time with no hard feelings, just respect for one another "Many thanks for sharing your thoughts. You’re right about communication. If you can’t be open and honest, then what hope is there? | |||
