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"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? " Depends what you mean by hung. Mine is 7 inches hard and a handsome tool by all accounts but in a photo it looks like the usual roadkill! | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? " Its easy to take a decent cock pic. As easy as taking one for a couples profile with both halves of the couple in it. If people want to garner interest then they need to give potential interested parties something to look at. And that goes both ways - its as applicable to couples as it is to singles. A | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? Its easy to take a decent cock pic. As easy as taking one for a couples profile with both halves of the couple in it. If people want to garner interest then they need to give potential interested parties something to look at. And that goes both ways - its as applicable to couples as it is to singles. A" Agreed. And we have many photos of both of us but found there to be many pic hunters and time wasters. We are more than willing to give photos in return. | |||
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"Personally, if being “hung” is the one and only criteria I must possess to be deemed “worthy” of someone’s attention then they’re not the person/kind of people I’m interested interacting with. Seems a lot of you on here just see blokes as a walking talking penis and nothing else. " Well for some that's all it is, if you get regular meets out of it then I'd say that's a win. At the moment I'm tiny, but after my operation ill be able to offer VWE and will be much happier and more successful for it | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? " Probably depends where you're looking. I'm in the south west and I have a few pics that show I'm hung (I don't take a lot of cock pics tbh lol) | |||
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"Depends on what is classed as hung and I would rather be with someone on a regular basis than everyone " 10 inches plus | |||
"Depends on what is classed as hung and I would rather be with someone on a regular basis than everyone 10 inches plus " Shit not quite there 8 myself ?? | |||
"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? Its easy to take a decent cock pic. As easy as taking one for a couples profile with both halves of the couple in it. If people want to garner interest then they need to give potential interested parties something to look at. And that goes both ways - its as applicable to couples as it is to singles. A Agreed. And we have many photos of both of us but found there to be many pic hunters and time wasters. We are more than willing to give photos in return." And that's entirely your choice. But when I'm looking to buy a second hand car I'll skip past the ads with one photo and be drawn in by those with multiple interior and exterior shots and detailed descriptions. When I look for holidays the same is true. Good photos of the hotel, rooms and facilities will be the decision maker. I'm not risking staying somewhere based on limited info. And don't get me started on buying things on eBay. There's a reason some sellers do well and others don't. But enough of similar examples. If you think waiting for people to ask for extra details and photos isn't holding you back and causing you any issues then crack on. But my 14 years on here kind of tells me otherwise.......... A | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? " Because if you’re going into it wanting a regular thing right from the start, then that’s off putting. You can’t force it. Just have to hope the chemistry is right and see how it goes. I run a mile when strangers ask me to be a regular meet when I hardly know them (it’s often suggested before we’ve even met), I find it odd | |||
"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? " Well, maybe because even VWE guy is a personality and doesn’t like to be treated like a piece of meat on the market allowing you to touch, smell and look at it from all angles. Put a little bit more effort in your profile. Pics proving that you are a couple showing what you look like would be a good start. These could be blurred, no faces etc. Secondly start your text with positive vibes explaining what you are looking for. If you think that good genuine guy sits here on site hours and hours waiting for a profile with one pic message him and ask for cock pics - I have to disappoint you. | |||
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"Personally, if being “hung” is the one and only criteria I must possess to be deemed “worthy” of someone’s attention then they’re not the person/kind of people I’m interested interacting with. Seems a lot of you on here just see blokes as a walking talking penis and nothing else. Well for some that's all it is, if you get regular meets out of it then I'd say that's a win. At the moment I'm tiny, but after my operation ill be able to offer VWE and will be much happier and more successful for it " Results aren't guaranteed BTW | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? Well, maybe because even VWE guy is a personality and doesn’t like to be treated like a piece of meat on the market allowing you to touch, smell and look at it from all angles. Put a little bit more effort in your profile. Pics proving that you are a couple showing what you look like would be a good start. These could be blurred, no faces etc. Secondly start your text with positive vibes explaining what you are looking for. If you think that good genuine guy sits here on site hours and hours waiting for a profile with one pic message him and ask for cock pics - I have to disappoint you. " Couldn’t have said it better myself. Comparing looking for a human being, yes a human being, to looking at holidays and cars is exactly the problem. If the OP approaches the people they’d like to meet as people, then they may possibly be on their way to a regular thing once they have met that single guy. | |||
"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? Well, maybe because even VWE guy is a personality and doesn’t like to be treated like a piece of meat on the market allowing you to touch, smell and look at it from all angles. Put a little bit more effort in your profile. Pics proving that you are a couple showing what you look like would be a good start. These could be blurred, no faces etc. Secondly start your text with positive vibes explaining what you are looking for. If you think that good genuine guy sits here on site hours and hours waiting for a profile with one pic message him and ask for cock pics - I have to disappoint you. Couldn’t have said it better myself. Comparing looking for a human being, yes a human being, to looking at holidays and cars is exactly the problem. If the OP approaches the people they’d like to meet as people, then they may possibly be on their way to a regular thing once they have met that single guy. " Easy for you to say when you're hung and would easily be a candidate for VWE meetups whenever you wanted them. Those of us who are tiny would give anything to be big so we could get more meets | |||
"Genuine guy here, but it always seems as though the couples interested in vwe guys are actually guys hiding behind a couple profile x" This!!!!!! | |||
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" Couldn’t have said it better myself. Comparing looking for a human being, yes a human being, to looking at holidays and cars is exactly the problem. If the OP approaches the people they’d like to meet as people, then they may possibly be on their way to a regular thing once they have met that single guy. Easy for you to say when you're hung and would easily be a candidate for VWE meetups whenever you wanted them. Those of us who are tiny would give anything to be big so we could get more meets" Yeah, I am not small below belt department but I’d never meet someone who’s the very first requirement is big cock. I don’t have cock pic on my public photos. Yet, I have meets. Treat this site as another pub where likeminded people go. You won’t go to a pub immediately taking your pants down showing your cock. Same as normal people when you wink or smile them in the pub won’t ask your cock size as the first question. Develop conversation, set some connection and you’ll have your luck. | |||
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"Finding a regular hung guy is soooo hard " Like what you did their I’m guessing they would need to be so hard x | |||
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" Couldn’t have said it better myself. Comparing looking for a human being, yes a human being, to looking at holidays and cars is exactly the problem. If the OP approaches the people they’d like to meet as people, then they may possibly be on their way to a regular thing once they have met that single guy. Easy for you to say when you're hung and would easily be a candidate for VWE meetups whenever you wanted them. Those of us who are tiny would give anything to be big so we could get more meets Yeah, I am not small below belt department but I’d never meet someone who’s the very first requirement is big cock. I don’t have cock pic on my public photos. Yet, I have meets. " There are more than a few couples and women with this specific request. If it means having more fun, why wouldn't you use it? You could meet 10 couples, and if one are meeting you only for your size, it's hardly the end of the world is it? | |||
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" Yeah, I am not small below belt department but I’d never meet someone who’s the very first requirement is big cock. I don’t have cock pic on my public photos. Yet, I have meets. There are more than a few couples and women with this specific request. If it means having more fun, why wouldn't you use it? You could meet 10 couples, and if one are meeting you only for your size, it's hardly the end of the world is it? " Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs | |||
"How rare is a 5.5-inch penis? Truthfully, honest-to-god, the science says that 5.5 inches is the average dick length. So it's not a rare size at all. You can expect roughly half of men to be smaller, and half bigger. In fact, almost 60% of men across the entire planet are between 5 and 6 inches long. The equivalent adult male height is 5'9", again, dead-center average. You can expect that of the roughly 2.7 billion adult males on the planet, half of them will have a penis at least 5.5 inches long. That's all the ways we can think of to say "average". How rare is a 6-inch penis? We're right on the upper edge of what you can consider "average", and already we're starting to get into mildly rare. A man with a 6-inch dick ranks in the upper 23% of penises, so in a room of 4 guys he'd likely be the largest — at least statistically speaking, it's not a guarantee for any given room. Still, 1 in 4 isn't bad. To have a 6-inch penis is to be the equivalent of 5'11" in height. Not what anybody would call tall, but a bit above average and certainly not short. It's an above-average penis. Nothing to scoff at, but also not exceptionally rare. How rare is a 7-inch penis? Bell curves being what they are, the bigger the number the more rare it gets real fast. At 7 inches we jump to the top 1.4% of penises. It's also big enough to start causing problems with penetrating too deep during sex, and that "magic number" for a lot of guys that have fallen into the girl inches trap. "Big enough" is always a bit more than you are now, and 7 inches seems like "reasonable but not preposterous" for a lot of men. But the truth is, only about 1 in 70 men are that big. It's quite large, and quite rare. To put that in terms of body height, that's as rare as being 6'3" tall. We've all met a few people that tall in our lives, but they're uncommon. The stand out because they're pretty dang tall. How rare is an 8-inch penis? We're getting into very rare territory here. At 8 inches, you're ranking in the top 0.01% of cocks. That's 1-in-10,000 rare, or the equivalent of being 6'7" tall. That's really friggin' tall — and also really friggin' long. But don't let your exceptional size go to your head — it's still just a penis, after all. But it is rarified air. Only about a quarter million men on the planet have penises this big or bigger. So you're simultaneously rare and one of many. How rare is a 9-inch penis? The truth is that our data starts to get a little fuzzy here. There's not a lot of scientific data on exceptionally large penises by virtue of their rarity. Few scientific studies have measured penises 9 inches or bigger, so they're very much outliers. Remember, science has measured tens of thousands of dicks to get the numbers we have today, and even amongst those they've found scant few. But given the data we have and the patterns it matches, we can extrapolate out the rarity of a given size. And for 9 inches, that's roughly 0.00003%. Or 1-in-3.3 million. Or the equivalent of being 6'11" tall. There are a few thousand men at best on the entire planet with cocks this long. It's absolutely exceptionally rare to measure at 9 inches or bigger… How rare is a 10-inch penis? Scientific projections point to roughly one in one billion men having penises 10 inches or longer. Again, the numbers are fuzzy here; it only takes a handful of men to shift these numbers dramatically. But the truth is that 10-inch dicks are exceedingly rare, no matter what the stories your pals tell say. Ten inches is absurdly rare — it's like being 7'3" tall. It's so rare, that it's the sort of outlier that's bound to raise eyebrows. Tales of 10-inch dicks abound, but the reality is that they're likely fabrications, exaggerations, or bad estimations to begin with. We humans are terrible at estimating penis sizes, and have faulty memories and a desire to show off. How rare is a 12-inch penis? Let's be real: 12-inch penises don't exist. They're a fiction of porn and a figment of active imaginations and liars. Any claim over 10 inches should be taken with a heaping pile of salt. Hell, you would be right to be skeptical of claims over 8 inches. 12 inches? That's preposterous." I should be just over 5ft 11. damn it lol | |||
" Yeah, I am not small below belt department but I’d never meet someone who’s the very first requirement is big cock. I don’t have cock pic on my public photos. Yet, I have meets. There are more than a few couples and women with this specific request. If it means having more fun, why wouldn't you use it? You could meet 10 couples, and if one are meeting you only for your size, it's hardly the end of the world is it? Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs" Exactly, I have no interest in meeting anyone who wouldn't be interested in me or feels like they are making do. Good chemistry is always worth waiting for in my opinion. | |||
"How rare is a 5.5-inch penis? Truthfully, honest-to-god, the science says that 5.5 inches is the average dick length. So it's not a rare size at all. You can expect roughly half of men to be smaller, and half bigger. In fact, almost 60% of men across the entire planet are between 5 and 6 inches long. The equivalent adult male height is 5'9", again, dead-center average. You can expect that of the roughly 2.7 billion adult males on the planet, half of them will have a penis at least 5.5 inches long. That's all the ways we can think of to say "average". How rare is a 6-inch penis? We're right on the upper edge of what you can consider "average", and already we're starting to get into mildly rare. A man with a 6-inch dick ranks in the upper 23% of penises, so in a room of 4 guys he'd likely be the largest — at least statistically speaking, it's not a guarantee for any given room. Still, 1 in 4 isn't bad. To have a 6-inch penis is to be the equivalent of 5'11" in height. Not what anybody would call tall, but a bit above average and certainly not short. It's an above-average penis. Nothing to scoff at, but also not exceptionally rare. How rare is a 7-inch penis? Bell curves being what they are, the bigger the number the more rare it gets real fast. At 7 inches we jump to the top 1.4% of penises. It's also big enough to start causing problems with penetrating too deep during sex, and that "magic number" for a lot of guys that have fallen into the girl inches trap. "Big enough" is always a bit more than you are now, and 7 inches seems like "reasonable but not preposterous" for a lot of men. But the truth is, only about 1 in 70 men are that big. It's quite large, and quite rare. To put that in terms of body height, that's as rare as being 6'3" tall. We've all met a few people that tall in our lives, but they're uncommon. The stand out because they're pretty dang tall. How rare is an 8-inch penis? We're getting into very rare territory here. At 8 inches, you're ranking in the top 0.01% of cocks. That's 1-in-10,000 rare, or the equivalent of being 6'7" tall. That's really friggin' tall — and also really friggin' long. But don't let your exceptional size go to your head — it's still just a penis, after all. But it is rarified air. Only about a quarter million men on the planet have penises this big or bigger. So you're simultaneously rare and one of many. How rare is a 9-inch penis? The truth is that our data starts to get a little fuzzy here. There's not a lot of scientific data on exceptionally large penises by virtue of their rarity. Few scientific studies have measured penises 9 inches or bigger, so they're very much outliers. Remember, science has measured tens of thousands of dicks to get the numbers we have today, and even amongst those they've found scant few. But given the data we have and the patterns it matches, we can extrapolate out the rarity of a given size. And for 9 inches, that's roughly 0.00003%. Or 1-in-3.3 million. Or the equivalent of being 6'11" tall. There are a few thousand men at best on the entire planet with cocks this long. It's absolutely exceptionally rare to measure at 9 inches or bigger… How rare is a 10-inch penis? Scientific projections point to roughly one in one billion men having penises 10 inches or longer. Again, the numbers are fuzzy here; it only takes a handful of men to shift these numbers dramatically. But the truth is that 10-inch dicks are exceedingly rare, no matter what the stories your pals tell say. Ten inches is absurdly rare — it's like being 7'3" tall. It's so rare, that it's the sort of outlier that's bound to raise eyebrows. Tales of 10-inch dicks abound, but the reality is that they're likely fabrications, exaggerations, or bad estimations to begin with. We humans are terrible at estimating penis sizes, and have faulty memories and a desire to show off. How rare is a 12-inch penis? Let's be real: 12-inch penises don't exist. They're a fiction of porn and a figment of active imaginations and liars. Any claim over 10 inches should be taken with a heaping pile of salt. Hell, you would be right to be skeptical of claims over 8 inches. 12 inches? That's preposterous. I should be just over 5ft 11. damn it lol" Ha ha | |||
" Yeah, I am not small below belt department but I’d never meet someone who’s the very first requirement is big cock. I don’t have cock pic on my public photos. Yet, I have meets. There are more than a few couples and women with this specific request. If it means having more fun, why wouldn't you use it? You could meet 10 couples, and if one are meeting you only for your size, it's hardly the end of the world is it? Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs Exactly, I have no interest in meeting anyone who wouldn't be interested in me or feels like they are making do. Good chemistry is always worth waiting for in my opinion." If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that | |||
"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? " Maybe you're not what they're looking for OP? X | |||
" Yeah, I am not small below belt department but I’d never meet someone who’s the very first requirement is big cock. I don’t have cock pic on my public photos. Yet, I have meets. There are more than a few couples and women with this specific request. If it means having more fun, why wouldn't you use it? You could meet 10 couples, and if one are meeting you only for your size, it's hardly the end of the world is it? Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs Exactly, I have no interest in meeting anyone who wouldn't be interested in me or feels like they are making do. Good chemistry is always worth waiting for in my opinion. If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that " Looks perfectly suckable to me but I suppose we all have our own perception of things | |||
" Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs Exactly, I have no interest in meeting anyone who wouldn't be interested in me or feels like they are making do. Good chemistry is always worth waiting for in my opinion. If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that " I am just 5’6. Didn’t know that is the problem till I registered in Tinder and here. Maybe you feel the same because of your experience here. But you can’t be everyone’s taste. I just don’t focus on profiles with heigh preferences. You should be not on profile with cock size preference. | |||
"Why is it so hard to find a guy that is hung and willing to talk to get to know us before wanting to meet? Also why do guys find it so hard to take a clear pic of their cock that demonstrates they are hung and it’s a nice looking cock? Maybe you're not what they're looking for OP? X" That’s harsh. How come single guy can have his own requirements | |||
" Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs Exactly, I have no interest in meeting anyone who wouldn't be interested in me or feels like they are making do. Good chemistry is always worth waiting for in my opinion. If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that I am just 5’6. Didn’t know that is the problem till I registered in Tinder and here. Maybe you feel the same because of your experience here. But you can’t be everyone’s taste. I just don’t focus on profiles with heigh preferences. You should be not on profile with cock size preference. " Same height as me and yes Tinder is a total waste of time for me lol. I find that being happy/comfortable with who I am is what attracts the right people for me. | |||
" Maybe because I am not aiming to fuck everything with the pulse. Quality over quantity. Sex is much much better when there is mutual attraction between people. Not just attraction to a piece of meat between your legs Exactly, I have no interest in meeting anyone who wouldn't be interested in me or feels like they are making do. Good chemistry is always worth waiting for in my opinion. If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that I am just 5’6. Didn’t know that is the problem till I registered in Tinder and here. Maybe you feel the same because of your experience here. But you can’t be everyone’s taste. I just don’t focus on profiles with heigh preferences. You should be not on profile with cock size preference. " No, I meant I'm small down there Haha! | |||
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" If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that I am just 5’6. Didn’t know that is the problem till I registered in Tinder and here. Maybe you feel the same because of your experience here. But you can’t be everyone’s taste. I just don’t focus on profiles with heigh preferences. You should be not on profile with cock size preference. No, I meant I'm small down there Haha!" I got it mate. It was just analogy | |||
" If you were actually small like me, you wouldn't be saying that I am just 5’6. Didn’t know that is the problem till I registered in Tinder and here. Maybe you feel the same because of your experience here. But you can’t be everyone’s taste. I just don’t focus on profiles with heigh preferences. You should be not on profile with cock size preference. No, I meant I'm small down there Haha! I got it mate. It was just analogy " I see | |||
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