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Hey guys, it's not often you see much about cuckolding from the bulls side, I have been involved in some really hot cuckolding experiences and loved knowing that he was watching me fuck his wife, also the power play dynamic (in those situations but of course not all) along with knowing how secretive me being in their life at that point will be vs. the rest of their 'ordinary' lives.
How does everyone else find it, whether you are the woman, the cuck or the bull? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bull it feels really good to see everyone having a great time, either the hotwife, the cuck and myself, and having a good time means something else to every individual, which as a bull I make sure that this happens , communications and knowing what to do is the key |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
I also get much of the pleasure from knowing the couple are being satisfied and turned on. I enjoy him having to watch but I do also meet 1-2-1.
I love the range of scenarios and of course the power play, it takes a sassy lady. |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
We are approaching the natural end to our Cuck/Hotwife lifestyle after nearly two decades.
We have met Stags, Bulls, Cuckqueen Couples, and even a Bull-ess during our travels in the lifestyle and regret absolutely nothing.
Most of which have been s a result of spontaneous introductions outside of Fab Swingers, often at Fetish Clubnights.
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As others have said, it's about everyone having a good time. In whatever form that takes. The bull provides a service to the couple in my view.
Anyone interested to chat more about specific experiences feel free to get in touch. |
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"As others have said, it's about everyone having a good time. In whatever form that takes. The bull provides a service to the couple in my view.
Anyone interested to chat more about specific experiences feel free to get in touch."
Hub here interested in chatting |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
I was cuckolding a couple, he was a mate from work actually. It turned more into a Head of House really and I was there several days a week and often stayed overnight. That went on for a few years. I was only in my twenties and they were in their thirties with two kids,3 by the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been a bull to a few cuckold couples over the years, it is something I am naturally suited to and really enjoy the progress of things within the couples relationship.
The hottest part is seeing the wife release her inner slut and embracing the pleasures it brings. |
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"I have been a bull to a few cuckold couples over the years, it is something I am naturally suited to and really enjoy the progress of things within the couples relationship.
The hottest part is seeing the wife release her inner slut and embracing the pleasures it brings."
Yes, I love this, I particularly love when she does submits and very willingly does things with you that she hasn't done or denies doing with her cuck, ofcourse that requires a very specific dynamic between all 3 involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been a bull to a few cuckold couples over the years, it is something I am naturally suited to and really enjoy the progress of things within the couples relationship.
The hottest part is seeing the wife release her inner slut and embracing the pleasures it brings.
Yes, I love this, I particularly love when she does submits and very willingly does things with you that she hasn't done or denies doing with her cuck, ofcourse that requires a very specific dynamic between all 3 involved."
Agree which is why something regular is the best way for all parties, that way you can assess and develop things to suit all |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"I have been a bull to a few cuckold couples over the years, it is something I am naturally suited to and really enjoy the progress of things within the couples relationship.
The hottest part is seeing the wife release her inner slut and embracing the pleasures it brings.
Yes, I love this, I particularly love when she does submits and very willingly does things with you that she hasn't done or denies doing with her cuck, ofcourse that requires a very specific dynamic between all 3 involved.
Agree which is why something regular is the best way for all parties, that way you can assess and develop things to suit all"
Yes agree with these comments as a grateful cuckold for experienced men to enjoy my wife over the years. Nice to know more have the right attitude. |
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"I was cuckolding a couple, he was a mate from work actually. It turned more into a Head of House really and I was there several days a week and often stayed overnight. That went on for a few years. I was only in my twenties and they were in their thirties with two kids,3 by the end."
I would be interested in hearing more |
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yes i am a bull for a young married couple who have 3 kids. have been away on weekends with them they live near me a we both have trust and respect and very discreet with each other .must the wife very sexy and loves making her hubby watch us. |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
"I was cuckolding a couple, he was a mate from work actually. It turned more into a Head of House really and I was there several days a week and often stayed overnight. That went on for a few years. I was only in my twenties and they were in their thirties with two kids,3 by the end.
I would be interested in hearing more"
OK, I was in my mid 20's the couple were older mid late 30's two little ones. He was a work colleague. They were a normal family with the pressures and strains that brings. I took advantage I was the single lad who didn't give a shit and had disposable income. She saw the softer side and he was suspicious then we confirmed his suspicions. Gradually I saw more and more of her and I would be there when he got in etc. Then I used to stay overnight. Then it was most of the week. He didn't want to break up the family, I suppose neither did really. He couldn't afford to move out. I always fucked her bare and he wasn't fucking her. She fell pregnant but he let everyone believe it was his. It was never even discussed |
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"I was cuckolding a couple, he was a mate from work actually. It turned more into a Head of House really and I was there several days a week and often stayed overnight. That went on for a few years. I was only in my twenties and they were in their thirties with two kids,3 by the end.
I would be interested in hearing more
As hub I'd like to hear more about this situation, find it of interest
OK, I was in my mid 20's the couple were older mid late 30's two little ones. He was a work colleague. They were a normal family with the pressures and strains that brings. I took advantage I was the single lad who didn't give a shit and had disposable income. She saw the softer side and he was suspicious then we confirmed his suspicions. Gradually I saw more and more of her and I would be there when he got in etc. Then I used to stay overnight. Then it was most of the week. He didn't want to break up the family, I suppose neither did really. He couldn't afford to move out. I always fucked her bare and he wasn't fucking her. She fell pregnant but he let everyone believe it was his. It was never even discussed "
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
I have and continue to meet some fantastic couples.
Teo things that I love about it;
Firstly the fact they trust me enough to invite into such a privzte element of their life,
And secondly the whole secretness and naughtiness of it compared to their day to day life. |
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"I have and continue to meet some fantastic couples.
Teo things that I love about it;
Firstly the fact they trust me enough to invite into such a privzte element of their life,
And secondly the whole secretness and naughtiness of it compared to their day to day life. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been a bull to a few cuckold couples over the years, it is something I am naturally suited to and really enjoy the progress of things within the couples relationship.
The hottest part is seeing the wife release her inner slut and embracing the pleasures it brings.
Yes, I love this, I particularly love when she does submits and very willingly does things with you that she hasn't done or denies doing with her cuck, ofcourse that requires a very specific dynamic between all 3 involved.
Agree which is why something regular is the best way for all parties, that way you can assess and develop things to suit all
Yes agree with these comments as a grateful cuckold for experienced men to enjoy my wife over the years. Nice to know more have the right attitude. "
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"Looking for a genuine respectful bull in good shape under 35.
Would you consider a good shape experienced Bull a little older? "
We feel for the dynamic
To work the bull needs to be local to the couple |
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In swinging terms it's a very strong candidate for the dynamic that I most desire.
I feel like a lucky man because my current partner is supportive of this aspect of my sexuality.
Now all I have to do is find a compatible couple. I hope I find one soon because I really miss this dynamic mmmm. |
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We’ve been a cuckold couple on and off throughout our marriage, some short term and a few longer term. It’s a great dynamic if all parties can get what they want from it. I think a lot of wives like the lifestyle as it gives them the opportunity to enjoy guilt free sex with other guys without the need to sneak around having affairs. |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
We consider ourselves in the cuckold lifestyle. However I wouldn't call the men I look for bulls. As I like to be the dominant one in the bedroom.
Are all bulls considered doms ?
I'm not sure xx
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By *illxxMan
over a year ago
motherwell |
There is a lot more to it than that it’s a power thing usually between the female and the cuck and showing the cuck that she has power over him and can choose to meet men when and if she wants and usually making him watch her with an other guy and enjoying herself without the cuck getting involved or making the cuck clean up after the bull |
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"...Are all bulls considered doms ?
I'm not sure xx"
Problem with labels is they're all just guides. In the real world nothing ever fits so neatly. I've played with couples where they are both sub, I spanked them both then rogered the wife, so Dom I guess; in that encounter. But some couples where the male was sub (in a cock cage), but the woman was Domme. Me? I just enjoyed the encounter and didn't label it  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I always got the impression that a bull is going to fuck the living day likes out of her but I think there’s more to it than that. "
So much more to it than that.
It should start with open conversations about what both the wife and cuck like, don't like, might want to try in time, how a first first meet might go.
So much more to it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A Bull has a tool......a Dom has a toolbox "
Spot on. And its not either/or, there are shades in between. But the key is understanding what everybody gets from the situation. |
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It’s win win for everyone
I have been a default with a couple of cuck couples and as already mentioned it’s win win fun for everyone and the more you know the more you explore the cuck side of things
Absolutely something that turns me in BIG TIME |
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We're looking for the right bull to try this with properly. I find a lot of men say they want to be a bull but they tend to really just want a fuck and don't mind the husband watching, which isn't really what I understand a cuckold situation to really be like. I would prefer to find someone that is on the same wavelength when it comes to the type of play we have in mind. |
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"I always got the impression that a bull is going to fuck the living day likes out of her but I think there’s more to it than that.
Us too x"
There is a lot more too it in my experience, no couples are the same so it's about finding what will satisfy all 3 people involved, some like that but some simply want to be seduced followed by soft play etc. |
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"...but they tend to really just want a fuck and don't mind the husband watching, which isn't really what I understand a cuckold situation to really be like."
I agree that isn't what it's like, but I think there are different ways to play it. For some couples it's about humiliating the husband, for other couples the husband gets turned on by watching his wife in pleasure, nothing more erotic than watching your lady get turned on and orgasm.
So, 2 totally different scenarios. One I consider the original, the other often referred to as stag/vixen nowadays.
But ultimately it's about offering a service to the couple. So communication is important. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We're looking for the right bull to try this with properly. I find a lot of men say they want to be a bull but they tend to really just want a fuck and don't mind the husband watching, which isn't really what I understand a cuckold situation to really be like. I would prefer to find someone that is on the same wavelength when it comes to the type of play we have in mind. "
I'd love to chat and discuss the type of play you both would like to explore. If my profile appeals, please do pm ne.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found this to be true, as having had the experiences with cuck couples the wives do find it liberating without the guilt trip of fucking another man after taking the vows of marriage, and most cucks get to enjoy the sight and sounds of his wife enjoying herself!
Most of the couples I have done this with have said it enhances their sexual lives and for me brings me the pleasure of taking another man’s wife in front of him. |
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We have met a few bulls and can honestly say it's amazing having cuck watch . I've met bulls alone to which is a lot of fun coming home and giving cuck a kiss knowing he can taste another man of me
Xx |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We have met a few bulls and can honestly say it's amazing having cuck watch . I've met bulls alone to which is a lot of fun coming home and giving cuck a kiss knowing he can taste another man of me
Xx"
Now how have I missed your profile. Fancy a pm? |
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"We're looking for the right bull to try this with properly. I find a lot of men say they want to be a bull but they tend to really just want a fuck and don't mind the husband watching, which isn't really what I understand a cuckold situation to really be like. I would prefer to find someone that is on the same wavelength when it comes to the type of play we have in mind. "
Yes, there a lot of guys that don’t try an understand the couples needs, sometimes cuckolding might involve the bull taking the hotwife out on dates with the cuck staying at home, perhaps the hotwife going on holiday with the bull or even the bull taking the hotwife to a swingers club where he watches he take extra cock. Lots of scenarios, everyone’s cuckolding requirements are different. |
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"_ee and mike bang on this is what we love about cuckold fun but so hard to get the right bull"
Totally agree.. it is all about enjoyment of all 3 involved, and everyone enjoys different things, if a bull is looking for a quick fuck that's fine as long as it's what the couple want... But from my experiences it is rarely what the couple are looking for. |
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We have been looking for a bull for many years. People say they are into cuckolding but they really don't understand it. Most black guys are after the hotwife scenarios. Would love to find a regular bull |
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The cuckold and hotwife scene is really unique.
Because of this, it's even more important for fully clear communication between all parties, so the right balance can be struck.
That said, it's perhaps the most exciting flavour of the swing scene. |
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I started this in on my 21st birthday- rather by accident. My mate's wife invited me into her bed (she knew perfectly well I had fancied her from the day he introduced us!). I was open mouthed but she said "Xxxxx is OK with it, you can ask him if you like". It went of for years and everyone was happy. Sadly, he had a terrible road accident and later I got married and it all came to an end. Then, many years later, I got into it with another couple and what fun! Now I am 70 with a few successful long term "arrangements" behind me and looking for another! I find every couple is different and the trick is to ensure you understand what it is each part of the couple want and to try to make sure they both get their kicks. I must admit part of the fun for me is the breaking of social taboo's - just so naughty! I prefer "wifelover" to "Bull" not least because I like to be on very good terms with both "halves" and to be able to chat with the husband on a very open level in a very friendly manner - but that's just my preference.
Also, very important to know that I am the dispensable one and when the time comes - to withdraw (s it were) with good grace while everyone is still full of happy memories....
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"We have been looking for a bull for many years. People say they are into cuckolding but they really don't understand it. Most black guys are after the hotwife scenarios. Would love to find a regular bull "
Oh how I wish you lived a little closer...sigh!!! |
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Some of my best experiences have been as a bull for couples, with hubby watching or sending the wife home to her waiting hubby. Always happy to go with what works for the couple, as long it’s straight fun. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
Here is a controversial opinion….
Anyone who thinks and proclaims they are a bull…. Isn’t really a bull!
It may be for others to have that opinion… but if you are bestowing that on yourself…. Nope! |
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I enjoy handing the power over to a bull.
Pre-sex I have all the power but as soon as we have fucked then society perceives him as a stud and me as a slut. Going out after sex the power dynamic has now entirely shifted to his side. |
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over a year ago
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It’s awesome being invited into a couples relationship and more importantly being trusted . Though I do admit the word bull does make me cringe for some reason . Prefer to think of myself as a couples sex aid lol  
That kind of meet and set up is always super horny |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
I have watched Rach with 2 different guys - both fucked her very differently to the other.
The 1st guy is a friend of ours and I don't think he wanted to step on any toes and was quite Conservative at times but the 2nd guy was much more confident and assertive and he liked to take the lead with her. He helped her confidence grow and they did a lot of things together - sometimes with me there, other occasions alone.
She much preferred the 2nd scenario and would probably go for the latter again in the future as opposed to the former. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"It’s awesome being invited into a couples relationship and more importantly being trusted . Though I do admit the word bull does make me cringe for some reason . Prefer to think of myself as a couples sex aid lol
That kind of meet and set up is always super horny "
This… I believe I am there as an addition to people and not a replacement for something that is not there….
Bull just screams over inflated ego to me! |
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By *eembuckMan
over a year ago
Portsmouth |
It’s special being invited as Bull to a couple. I have had the honour on a numbers of occasions a loved the feeling being watched, but also seeing how the whole situation excited everyone.
It’s a special thing for 3 people to share and get their own excitement from.
As the Bull it made me feel great, especially seeing the impact on the couples pleasure too. |
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"It’s awesome being invited into a couples relationship and more importantly being trusted . Though I do admit the word bull does make me cringe for some reason . Prefer to think of myself as a couples sex aid lol
That kind of meet and set up is always super horny
I agree
This… I believe I am there as an addition to people and not a replacement for something that is not there….
Bull just screams over inflated ego to me!
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"Hey guys, it's not often you see much about cuckolding from the bulls side, I have been involved in some really hot cuckolding experiences and loved knowing that he was watching me fuck his wife, also the power play dynamic (in those situations but of course not all) along with knowing how secretive me being in their life at that point will be vs. the rest of their 'ordinary' lives.
It's all about them and what they want. He might have a tiny cock and be a shit fuck but she loves him and after the date with the bull goes home to him. Being a good bull is not being arrogant to think it's all about you because at the end of the day, you're just helping out
How does everyone else find it, whether you are the woman, the cuck or the bull?"
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