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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply |
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Told my wife same years ago had some fun with guys watching outside and cam fun . Some light mmf fun but she’s not confident witch is crazy! As to me she’s stunning with amazing body guys always coming on to her . Yet she still doubts herself!
Hope you guys get to try it out as nothing better |
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My mrs was not confident so I took her to a club and on the first visit we just watched, next time we fucked together and were watched and the next time she gave others oral as I fucked her then she went full on with others. Just ease her into it and listen to her concerns |
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Don't force it bloke.
Maybe suggest soft play to start with, maybe her watching guys wank and helping them.
Don't go all out straight away build her confidence slowly.
Most importantly it's got to be for her not you! |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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Just go at her pace really. Its a lot different between talking about it and fantasing and actually doing it.. I learn that the hard way.. so, going at her pace would be best.. as many other good suggestions already, listen to her and her concerns and take it slow and hopefully she will come round to the idea as her confidence grows. Finger crossed for you both  |
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"Don't force it bloke.
Maybe suggest soft play to start with, maybe her watching guys wank and helping them.
Don't go all out straight away build her confidence slowly.
Most importantly it's got to be for her not you!"
for sure .. little steps .. Sue has gone from Housewife to Hotwife over time and loves the attention she gets and the erotic times enjoyed .. yes it’s all about the ladies pleasure |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
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She might be open to the thought, but the reality may be very different. Too many times I have heard from single men I meet that they felt the woman was forced into it because of the man partner. It may always be a fantasy. |
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply "
Never going to happen. If a woman says "not any time soon" it means when hell freezes over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply "
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab "
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them? |
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"... It states I told her I'd like to see her get fucked by another guy. "
That's a better way of putting it, in your original post you put:
'Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her'
I understood your meaning, but it was open to interpretation.
Chill, deep breath and enjoy the moment. I hope you get to see what you want, but it really has to be her decision. |
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Mine had been fantasising, during sex,about another cock so I set it up without her knowing. Met a guy I had been chatting to under the pretence of getting some software. We met him in the pub had a few drinks then went back to his.After a few more drinks I asked him to put a movie on he put a porn movie on (pre planned) She didn't object so I gave him the nod and he went behind her and started to massage her neck which judging by her moans she was enjoying so I again gave him the nod and he run his hands down the front of her dress and started massaging her tits. I run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy. To my surprise she reached around and took out his cock and started giving him a bj. We undressed and spit roasted her and that's how we started. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them? "
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't |
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply "
To boost her confidence I would say she needs to know you love her and you respect her. When she’s ready she will decide how or when to make it happen, anything else may not boost her confidence as well as you may hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them?
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't "
There’s no way of reading what he said and attributing an order or a demand into it unless that’s specifically what you want to read into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them?
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't
There’s no way of reading what he said and attributing an order or a demand into it unless that’s specifically what you want to read into it."
Perhaps my grasp of communication is different from yours |
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Every so often, especially when the mrs is wearing nice dresses or when I know she feels good I’ll mention that some bloke we just walked past was rubber necking. It’s true most of the time. I think it helped with her confidence |
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab "
He said he told her he wants something, not told her she has to do something. You really yanked that controlling thing out of thin air. Judgemental. Chill. |
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them?
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't
There’s no way of reading what he said and attributing an order or a demand into it unless that’s specifically what you want to read into it.
Perhaps my grasp of communication is different from yours "
Indeed. And clearly incorrect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them?
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't
There’s no way of reading what he said and attributing an order or a demand into it unless that’s specifically what you want to read into it.
Perhaps my grasp of communication is different from yours
Indeed. And clearly incorrect."
Really? Perhaps you aren't able to read between the lines! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He said he told her he wants something, not told her she has to do something. You really yanked that controlling thing out of thin air. Judgemental. Chill."
He wants something but it doesn't sound like his wife is interested so...  |
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This is what my hubby did, told me it had been a fantasy of his for years. We role played in bed for a while and both opened up about our fantasies. I got more used to the idea of people watching etc. Then he came home and said he’d signed us up to Fab.
I willingly arranged my first meet with a very hot man and was shocked to find he couldn’t keep his hands off me. As a plus sized lady i still find it so hard to believe that men are attracted to me. I think trying to understand things from her side is important. As women were are told that if we’re don’t all look like Gisele, then nobody will want us!
I now happily meet but am still self conscious!  |
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"Mine had been fantasising, during sex,about another cock so I set it up without her knowing. Met a guy I had been chatting to under the pretence of getting some software. We met him in the pub had a few drinks then went back to his.After a few more drinks I asked him to put a movie on he put a porn movie on (pre planned) She didn't object so I gave him the nod and he went behind her and started to massage her neck which judging by her moans she was enjoying so I again gave him the nod and he run his hands down the front of her dress and started massaging her tits. I run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy. To my surprise she reached around and took out his cock and started giving him a bj. We undressed and spit roasted her and that's how we started. "
Don't take this as a how to go about it |
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply "
You know her better than us, so you're probably best place to tell us how to take it.
However, as far as I know, that's not a rare response.
Just maybe stick to her timeline and don't ask people to apply until she's ready. |
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"Mine had been fantasising, during sex,about another cock so I set it up without her knowing. Met a guy I had been chatting to under the pretence of getting some software. We met him in the pub had a few drinks then went back to his.After a few more drinks I asked him to put a movie on he put a porn movie on (pre planned) She didn't object so I gave him the nod and he went behind her and started to massage her neck which judging by her moans she was enjoying so I again gave him the nod and he run his hands down the front of her dress and started massaging her tits. I run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy. To my surprise she reached around and took out his cock and started giving him a bj. We undressed and spit roasted her and that's how we started. "
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply "
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them?
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't
There’s no way of reading what he said and attributing an order or a demand into it unless that’s specifically what you want to read into it.
Perhaps my grasp of communication is different from yours
Indeed. And clearly incorrect."
100%.
Good ole fab. Invaded by Karens and Kevins... |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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flip side to this is ive lost count of the times a couple of newbies have arrived at a club the wife then proceeds to shag everyone in sight and next thing you know they are in a blazing row which winds up with him dragging here out of the club never to be seen again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply
What else have you TOLD her to do op? I always worry about controlling relationships on fab
He didn’t say he told her to do anything, he said he told her something he’d like to see/do. That’s kinda how we as humans communicate?
Why are mens threads always full of women sniping at them?
Reread the first few words "told my Mrs" would have sounded much better if it read "I asked my Mrs if she would like" see that's communication, orders and demands aren't
There’s no way of reading what he said and attributing an order or a demand into it unless that’s specifically what you want to read into it.
Perhaps my grasp of communication is different from yours
Indeed. And clearly incorrect.
100%.
Good ole fab. Invaded by Karens and Kevins... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Told my Mrs I want another guy to fuck her, she's actually open the idea! Just not any time soon, she says she don't have the confidence shall I take that as it's never gonna happen or she's actually open to the idea? Guys with big dicks in Cornwall please apply "
Hot!
Hope it works out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Set up a couples profile with her pics then show her all of the messages from guys wanting to fuck her, should boost her confidence."
Wow! Not sure this is legal let alone a good way to boost her confidence!!!
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