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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
People don't seem to be for real on here, or is my profile info a shit one? Maybe not the best of profiles or proof I am for real either, but damn annoying when you see loads of people getting meets!
Or am I moaning about nothing and same for everyone? |
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May I offer a few suggestions?
Some of us do read the profile - many who meet a fair bit don't like message tennis so an information profile added to a good variety of pics (which you have) will result in a quick decision.
However, a negative profile or one with no information in will not lead to meets.
Yes, it's hard when you keep getting your messages deleted without a reply to stay positive, but most people want to spend their brief swinging time with cheery fun people. You might actually be the life and soul but right now your profile doesn't reflect that.
You will get ignored (they're not interested), blocked (they're not interested), and deleted (they're not interested) but when you do get replies then they are the ones to put effort into.
Single guys outnumber every other type of person on here vastly. The other negative (for some) is your age. But others will love that about you!
Keep plugging away, make sure you read profiles before you message so you fit their preferences. And if you neatly do but not quite then say so - it shows you have been paying attention!
Consider a social or a club to get veris - they do help.
Keep your pecker up honey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to be an obsession on here to judge whether folks are 'genuine' or not. There will always be folks who swing, those who fancy swinging but never get round to it - and those who do, however, often (perhaps it's their choice...) We appreciate this is simply 'life' and that there's not much we can do about it. The key thing is not to have a go at others perhaps and just accept that's the situation   |
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Your profile is terrible ,it's there to sell yourself , you say str8 however you are looking for TVs and TSs , you have no info about yourself your age range is from pubescent to centurions your more confused than scooby doo. Sit down list your wants and then your good points then maybe the people you think are full of shit will actually take notice if you |
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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
Okay I'll have a change of profile. Kinda guessed it was that though I'd imagine it is mostly about the pictures considering it is a sex meet website. I'll have a go at explaining more about myself now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pictures are for looking at. Some people collect them.... - perhaps coming across as a decent, meetable person is more important. Just food for thought... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"People don't seem to be for real on here, or is my profile info a shit one? Maybe not the best of profiles or proof I am for real either, but damn annoying when you see loads of people getting meets!
Or am I moaning about nothing and same for everyone? "
think of it like is....
if you write more in the post above, than you do in your shop window (your profile) what do you think that says??
hand on heart would you answer your own profile...... |
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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
"THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.
You dont like it , you get out of it.
PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds"
Really? And that applies to me how? I left my bird of 20 months: not a full on desperado. I done the University slag thing myself, but I don't go bragging about it to anyone because everyone at University was up to it. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Okay I'll have a change of profile. Kinda guessed it was that though I'd imagine it is mostly about the pictures considering it is a sex meet website. I'll have a go at explaining more about myself now.
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if that is version 2..... after what i saw of version 1.... no one is going to be able to help you..... wow!! 
and i wonder why people would bother...  |
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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
"Your getting noticed now..... But not for all good reasons. The only point Id make is your profile says no men...... But you want to meet TVs arnt they men :O"
Nah more along the fetish side. Liking men is a sexuality, TV's is just a fetish with a bit/alot of gay hints. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah more along the fetish side. Liking men is a sexuality, TV's is just a fetish with a bit/alot of gay hints.
Lol...sorry, but surely Denial Quote of the Week Award ahoy! |
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Its not just me that picked apon this point....
You also seem to have anger issues with your responces on here and this whole thread
Youve asked to be put under the microscope,at your age most of us were sowing our oats..... But is it good to say they were slags (not a nice word to class women) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people begger belief with an attitude like that noone is gonna find it attractive if you think your gods gift and sex should come to you then your wrong.
I think another site is better for you this is NOT a sex site its a swinging site THERE IS A DIFFERENCE!! |
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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
"Okay I'll have a change of profile. Kinda guessed it was that though I'd imagine it is mostly about the pictures considering it is a sex meet website. I'll have a go at explaining more about myself now.
if that is version 2..... after what i saw of version 1.... no one is going to be able to help you..... wow!!
and i wonder why people would bother... "
Done now mate! |
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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
Agreed about the swinging aspect, and how am I coming across with anger issues and such? I've seen a lot of people complain about the site, both men and women, before though as someone just pointed out about the swinging thing: it maybe because they are single!
I don't get some of these replies, and for anyone thinking I'm in denial then that is hilarious. I'm actually very, very open in real life about what I like otherwise I wouldn't have face pictures on here. Call it denial but you should check out the Kinsey scale, having a fetish like that doesn't make somebody completely gay and in denial. I've been with guys as guys and didn't like it one bit.
And where have I called anyone a slag? :S!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah more along the fetish side. Liking men is a sexuality, TV's is just a fetish with a bit/alot of gay hints."
It's funny ya know, when I used to live in Narnia, I used to think that too ! |
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By *ss2011 OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds/Bradford |
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Done now mate!
lot better... now remove that status update with something positive, and you might just about be in business..."
Done that too, sound. Think I'm going to avoid this thread now because it seems like an attempt to wind me up with the confused quotes.
I see my stupidity now though with having such little info, just been a bit brainless and complaining for little reason I guess. But hey ho, we've all done dumb things before.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Its not just me that picked apon this point....
You also seem to have anger issues with your responces on here and this whole thread
Youve asked to be put under the microscope,at your age most of us were sowing our oats..... But is it good to say they were slags (not a nice word to class women)"
To be fair I think that was a typing error in reply to another post, think it should have read shag.
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"THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.
You dont like it , you get out of it.
PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds
Really? And that applies to me how? I left my bird of 20 months: not a full on desperado. I done the University slag thing myself, but I don't go bragging about it to anyone because everyone at University was up to it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People don't seem to be for real on here, or is my profile info a shit one? Maybe not the best of profiles or proof I am for real either, but damn annoying when you see loads of people getting meets!
Or am I moaning about nothing and same for everyone? "
Didn't see the first incarnation of your profile - but still reads like someone with a lot of 'expectancy' and more of a 'come shag me' advert than a 'please take a look'.
Nothing personal but it seems to always be the younger element on site that is questioning why others are more successful in their interactions - social, play or whatever - which kind of leads me to believe that maturity and 'life skills', including the all important attributes of patience, respect and communication - play a far greater part in enjoying life in this or other sites than an urgent desire to hook up with others with little prior interaction.
Could be wrong - could be right - but I'd always be open to feedback/criticism from those with more experience if I was asking for it. |
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By *essesCouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
"THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.
You dont like it , you get out of it.
PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds
Really? And that applies to me how? I left my bird of 20 months: not a full on desperado. I done the University slag thing myself, but I don't go bragging about it to anyone because everyone at University was up to it. "
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Only the OP would know that..... It reads right to me as slag..... If he meant shag wunt he have put shagging thing??  "
As I put in my earlier post I took it as a typing error as in done the university shag thing.....
But as you say only the OP will know what he meant so not going to argue with you over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 oh come on gang - yu know the score so stop gangig up on him; he asked for adice; which yes we see same requests over and over; but it was just advice; which i for one was happy to provide..
We have all seen far worse profiles on here havent we  mine for one its prob the crappiest of all; but im not bothered lol hehehhe
Be happy and have fun; if not ..... |
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