FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Was your first swinging experience with friends or strangers?
Was your first swinging experience with friends or strangers?
Jump to: Newest in thread
Mine was with my friends future wife.
Not something I expected to happen but a lot of fun was had.
Been playing on and off for over 15 years with them.
What about yours Fab? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Ours was after a night out with a couple we were friends with we went back and after a few to many drinks we ended up doing a soft swap! That’s how we got started! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
For Me it was with friends and began way back as a teenager.
Mrs was with a crush and his friend. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Mine was with a friend.He was an older neighbour and I watched him fuck my future wife.That was in the 1970s!
Mike |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Strangers in an open cinema room in our local club. It was very intense and definitely a great first experience  
C x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Mine was with a stranger I met on the underground. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
A couple at a party.
Now good friends now |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Was a stranger but we have know eachother for years now! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ibsonsgCouple
over a year ago
New Milton |
First with others for both of us |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
a couple - strangers who came to my house. Fairly scary but worked out OK |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers at the old kestrels.
Chatting to couple during the day, came back for abfabs party.
Ended up in open bed play room with my ex going down on the other lady with her ass to the room with another 10 couples watching. All had a view of her ass/pussy.
She made her cum, we then moved to the 2way mirror room where we fucked own partners next to each other again with audience.
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friends - they came round for some drinks and before I knew it bella was sucking his cock with her female friend, was such a horny sight |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers. Friends just wouldn't work. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Mine was my ex and his best friend.would love to do it again.
Enjoy the whole weekend of it |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A cpl of strangers. Loved it though |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago
southern Cumbria |
Strangers from FAB at a small house gathering
Very scary but turned out to be a really good evening |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers from fab. Was awesome  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers at their home, made contact through a 'contact mag' some time ago.
Very nervious until they opened their front door..... great night. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers as kestrels, followed by a friend at kestrels I subsequently attended with. The first time I partook in an mmmf on the circular table. Ridiculously excited. Since then I’ve loved every swinging experience! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers xx |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
[Removed by poster at 20/05/22 18:37:04] |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers at partners |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *undee2Man
over a year ago
Dundee |
Mine was on our wedding night. I knew she had a lover but hadn't met though had spoken to him when he phoned. It was a great night. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
freinds. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A friend who I now consider one of my best. Certainly the best female friend I could ever have wished for  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
A girlfriend of Mrs Lux seduced us one d*unken evening. Everyone had sex with everyone else in front of our open fire and we were hooked. A wonderful memory. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers. Woman at a swinger club who was very upfront about her sexual needs and what her boundaries were. Had me so horny just listening that resistance was futile  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers but was almost with close friend but she’d had little too much so didn’t feel right x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers. Very memorable experience it was too. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Army friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hubby's best friend |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Hubby's best friend "
Always a lot of fun. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers. I was young. Working in McDonalds if that helps place it.. and met a couple and spent an awful lot of time with them |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers that we met through a swingers site. Can’t imagine ever doing this with good friends, although there are a few we’d like too enjoy swapping with...... |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
3sum after a night out with an old school friend 6 days before we got married lol he was staying with us as he lived in Spain |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers on our old profile. Though we'd love to do it with friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers at a swingers club. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *oumlacaMan
over a year ago
waterford |
An older couple we knew they were in their 60s we were in our 30s, he fucked my partner few times first before we swapped. Became good friends and regular swingers. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
An older couple at Utopia a few years ago, host tipped them off we was newbies and they took the lead. Never looked back since |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It was a stranger. My ex met him on a night out and brought him back to our place. We’d talked about it for a few months beforehand. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers at a club and oh my what gorgeous sexy strangers they were such Sweethearts  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *illxxMan
over a year ago
motherwell |
Mine was a stranger at a wedding reception. We went for a dance and she passed me a bit of paper saying meet me outside. We met outside the country hotel and went for a short walk and fuked in the woods |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Depends how you describe swinging ?
First fuck was with a neighbours wife
First swinging involving others
Was with her and introduced me to couple of her friends and we all played together |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
A neighbour male friend,and then at a Paris club with strangers... |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Mine was ten months ago and went to a club alone. Haven’t looked back since |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
We began by chatting online and playing on webcam. We chatted to one guy for 3 years. Them took the next step and had a meet. It was a wonderful MFM threesome experience x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It’s fantastic when you get that connection |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
strangers through a website, then shortly after my wife had sex with my mate |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With strangers these days mostly with friends .....though plans are in place with my FB for some stranger meets |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Went on holiday with some friends, we are got a bit tipsy, next thing we knew , we were all naked in bed together lol ???????? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
On our first visit to Chameleons in 2010 with strangers. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Total stranger that I was chatting to in the chat rooms |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friends at dinner party she went up stairs came down naked and stripped Claire off started kissing her at the table was a bloody good night had a few more after that then they split and she came to visit us for ffm ???? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Invited to a party by friends but played with strangers there. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago
Gwent... |
"Ours was after a night out with a couple we were friends with we went back and after a few to many drinks we ended up doing a soft swap! That’s how we got started! "
This is similar to us. Shame they moved abroad a year later... |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers off of web site, got messaging and chatting on phone then met up and never looked back. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *orem1000Couple
over a year ago
southampton |
" ... if anyone wants to repeat the experience just PM me and I’ll be more than happy to arrange it. "
Also spur of the moment. I was fwb with two 18 yr old models who knew each other. One of them had come over for coffee when the other rang to see how I was and when she found out who was there she asked if she could come over too. I guess she didn't want us to get jiggy together. So the 3 of us ended up drinking and eventually in shower and on to bed, it was a first for all of us. Ended up marrying one and still friends with the other after decades. It wasn't xmas and unfortunately no hot tubs in sight either but wouldn't mind a repeat after all these years if there is a hot tub around. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Well not had one yet lol |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers... |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Was with friends we were a little d*unk at the time |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
With a close female friend. All happened by accident after a night out clubbing.
Great at the time, awkward next morning.
We're all friends 25yrs later though. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With a friend and my ex on her birthday as she wanted to try 2 |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With my partner so a friend and another so both. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
friends after a night out at the pub |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *tevo63Man
over a year ago
Ivybridge |
With a mate and his female friend, loved it |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Ours was with friends of ours who came over one night for a meal and a few drinks back in the 1980s. Still meet with them regularly to this day |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *oblo696Man
over a year ago
lowestoft |
Total stranger. He was 60s, we were 20s. Sexiest time ever… |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friends, we had a party at ours, lots of my pub and football friends and a few other couples. After the couples left the guys stayed and wifey got d*unk. She did a little dance in front of them and the rest is history. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friends & it's the one and only time anything's happened with a friend |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With strangers I met here |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers. On holiday. Lol |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
Someone I chatted with on MSN messenger after we had exchanged emails through alt.sex.personals on Usenet newsgroups. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers but became very close personal friends thats over 18 years ago |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
Quite a few of these seem to be first sexual encounters, not swinging. Meeting up with a girl or guy and shagging is not swinging.
Our first online was a couple we chatted to and had a social with, then invited to their house.
Before that, always strangers, from contact mags. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friends, party at our house, I was the only female at the end of the night & V wanted me to flirt with his friends.
Things got a bit carried away. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers from fab, there not on here anymore |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers that we spoke to on here and then arranged the meet. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Who knows, im sure my first will ve with friends i make here |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Mine was with my ex boyfriend's boss and his wife, we were all in a friendship group. The guy asked his wife if he could have me as his birthday  . So we arranged a full swap.
NBVN x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Wow that sounds very hot!! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers, |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
Stranger at a club |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Friends, my room mate and my gf. I watched as he fucked her and it was such a turn on that though I had wanked while they did it I was hard again when they finished. I didn't know that was the beginning of me turning into a cuckold but was something that repeated with a couple of gf's since. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers, A woman dragged me outside a bar and asked if I wanted to come back to her hotel, then a man appeared behind her asking if she’d picked one….!
Turns out the husband and wife played like this on nights out, anyway I went back enjoyed a mega evening and they told me about fab. Never looked back…. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers on holiday |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
James's friend, something we carried on for a few years x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yet to experience my first - hence why I'm here!  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My first experience of group sex was with a former gf (later wife, now ex-wife) and a pair of strangers we picked up in the Kremlin nightclub in Belfast roughly 20yrs ago.
Great night all round
After that we joined a different well known swinging website, and started meeting others from there |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Total strangers. No names. No conversation just straight to the sex. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
Alton |
Strangers I met on Craigslist, they picked me up later at night outside a dark train station! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers (French couple) in a swingers club while on holiday in Spain  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friend
Spontaneous threesome after a night out.
Great at the time...awkward next morning |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Ours was girl who originally I was manager of who became my bi girlfriend who we had a wonderful threesome with on a regular basis mmm so good |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Ours was a guy from another website, ended up a reg for a cpl of years, looking for our next regular |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *iggy5Man
over a year ago
Northamptonshire |
Met on another site, but essentially strangers. but great friends now. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
mine was with friends
we still all friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
A lady friend - who introduced me to her husband when I arrived to play |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Mine was with a work colleague who took me home to show her husband how much she liked a younger man’s passion!
That was when I was a young 20 year old lol. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Really enjoyed catching up this old thread.
My first experience was with strangers, met via a different swinging website (circa 1999/2000 - very much Web 1.0 ). Young local couple, heavily pregnant wife. Had an enjoyable afternoon threesome. After that I met a single woman who turned out to be something of a gateway to a wider world of Brummie swingers! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *3rryj1Man
over a year ago
Brentwood |
Mine was with a married lady in my Spanish night school class - three years ago - still going strong |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers, though would definitely love to play with a few friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *zlakMan
over a year ago
Norwich |
With friends on a night out and he mentioned his wife fancied my gf at the time. We went back to theirs and ended up all having sex together |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers. We did once mention it to a friend and let's say it didn't go to well lol but surprisingly we are still friends with them |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Kind of friends.
Met on messenger way back in the day, chat, pic swaps and webcam play.
Met up for a weekend, awesome time was had by all.
First girl / girl experience, we were horny for weeks after  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With strangers |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers. Master and his "friend" |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Mine was with a friend |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
With strangers at Cap d'Agde. Also my first experience with another woman, confirming I was definitely bi and not just bi-curious. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers, threesome and my God…what a awakening. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers at a club |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Friends for joanne. Strangers for me john. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
"Strangers, threesome and my God…what a awakening."
In what way? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
"Strangers at a club"
Personally that's probably the best way. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers, but looking back not so strange but very naughty !!! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Strangers, threesome and my God…what a awakening.
In what way?"
I’d been married and monogamous for a long time prior. Despite my best efforts, our sex life wasn’t great…so to go from that, to a scenario with passion, excitement and feeling that strong mutual desire, and then with a couple too… mind blowing |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers think would have been more nervous with friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
"Strangers, threesome and my God…what a awakening.
In what way?
I’d been married and monogamous for a long time prior. Despite my best efforts, our sex life wasn’t great…so to go from that, to a scenario with passion, excitement and feeling that strong mutual desire, and then with a couple too… mind blowing "
Hat's off to you...and enjoy. X |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Mine was group sex with friends, there was a mixed group of friends and we basically used to swap regularly so everyone had shagged everyone. My and a mate around that time used to pick up girls too and share them so we were quite used to that kind of thing.
It’s at that time that I found out I enjoyed 3somes I had a number of liaisons like that though the years.
I think it started to happen more when I was on POF I had a few FBs and we learned about the Manchester club scene and various dogging places.
It was at a club where I learned about fab, I have enjoyed it ever since |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
X wife invited a neighbour over for a Friday drinks, I’d always mentioned she’s hot.. I had an early start the morning after so took off for an early night… just as I was nodding off the bedroom door fly open with the both of them stripping off ! What a welcome to swinging |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Complete stranger from this site. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Flat mates we were watching a movie and then clothes were off and we were fucking |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Our first was with someone who recognised us from here (which was weird, must of been who's bear type thing, but didn't arrange on here)
The last 2 have both been meets off here |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers, but I love the idea of swinging with people I know! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers, as described in this post in another thread:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1362727#message_33015556 |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
2 female friends invited themselves to mine after a night out. Gave me a show before I was allowed to join in. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers, we'd love to meet a regular couple though x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Strangers from Fab. However we ended up good friends and even had weekends away together. Unfortunately they split up and we felt awkward meeting either of them. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Strangers |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *urenutsMan
over a year ago
waltham cross/Harrow HA1 |
A couple from Fab |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By * feat LCouple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
First we had with my mate couple years later that mates wife |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
With strangers for me but Mrs was with friends after invite to dinner after that night she knew she was bi!! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Not exactly a swing but a friends house party turned a bit sexy after several drinks Spin the bottle, partial nudity and sexual dares
It was in the car the next morning that we started talking about how it made us feel. We visited our first club the week after |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
I met a beautiful lady from here who showed me the ropes many years ago.... we are still friends to this day |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Mine was following night out in Halifax..after leaving a club stopped at burger van..got randomly chatting to a guy older than me, out of the blue he just said fancy coming back to mine and shagging the wife..
I did |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *inge61Couple
over a year ago
n/wales |
friend first fmf and stranger first mfm |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Do people here consider one on one stranger meets to be swinging? I don’t know what the line is. Isn’t that just a lot of people doing it who don’t consider themselves swingers?
Ours individually were not in the scene but FFMs years ago. As a couple we’ve explored everything up to orgies. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Mine was for my birthday and it was a friend,it turned out they had both planned it out.
One of the best birthday present I've had.
I think I worn them both out,and I was still horny even after the night and day.
Was nice to have breakfast with him.
Then a few months later just caught up with him on my own.
Lovely guy who knew how to spoil a women.
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
Our first mff was with a friend of Tani’s, they were already playing regularly, one night they came back tipsy and climbed into my bed.
Our first mmf was a friend of mine, I arranged a time for him to walk in our front door, I started playing with her before that. He just arrived and joined in.
Our first mmff was with a couple off another swinging site, after a social the week before and then a night out with them before going back to our hotel |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago
South Leicestershire (willing to travel) |
"Mine was with my friends future wife.
Not something I expected to happen but a lot of fun was had.
Been playing on and off for over 15 years with them.
What about yours Fab?"
Always with strangers but some have become friends |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
saying this i had before one experience i won't describe but was my first time and with more than one person and in the presence of both sex womans and man 
