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over a year ago
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My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do?? |
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"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do?? "
Ok please dont take this as a personal attack it is not meant so.
If it tears you apart to see him playing with another woman then swinging IS NOT for you, ive just this second been reading a thread on jealousy and although i cannot comment on your feelings it sounds to me like there is a little green eyed monster in there! But of course the decision is yours but if you value your realtionship then think long and hard on this. If your only doing this to please him then it isnt gonna work.
Of course soft swap is the option but IMO i think you need to talk and strengthen your relationship before meeting anyone else!
Just my opinion, good luck
GnJ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??
Ok please dont take this as a personal attack it is not meant so.
If it tears you apart to see him playing with another woman then swinging IS NOT for you, ive just this second been reading a thread on jealousy and although i cannot comment on your feelings it sounds to me like there is a little green eyed monster in there! But of course the decision is yours but if you value your realtionship then think long and hard on this. If your only doing this to please him then it isnt gonna work.
Of course soft swap is the option but IMO i think you need to talk and strengthen your relationship before meeting anyone else!
Just my opinion, good luck
GnJ"
no I defiantly haven't taken it wrong way I respect your help and every one else's help/advice I said to him I don't feel strong enough at minute to see him with someone else I will get there just not yet,we had bad year last yr and broke up for while obv bk together been bk a while but suppose it takes time to feel as strong as always did and I thought only other option was soft swing to kinda keep in the swing of it haha but thanks guys you's are stars x  |
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"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??
Ok please dont take this as a personal attack it is not meant so.
If it tears you apart to see him playing with another woman then swinging IS NOT for you, ive just this second been reading a thread on jealousy and although i cannot comment on your feelings it sounds to me like there is a little green eyed monster in there! But of course the decision is yours but if you value your realtionship then think long and hard on this. If your only doing this to please him then it isnt gonna work.
Of course soft swap is the option but IMO i think you need to talk and strengthen your relationship before meeting anyone else!
Just my opinion, good luck
GnJ"
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"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do?? "
 having read your profile it easy to see that your experienced on scene as such; and im sure there is a logical reason why your now hesitant; the one you give is valid im sure; but its all about trust; so ask your self deep down do you trust Mr if yes then have trial run with you vetting the fem ok
Happy Fadding  |
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Don't know what's up with me lately I have suffered depression thru us having a break up last yr we've been together nearly five yrs have a child as well as me havin another child who will has taken on when we broke I got with someone and then will did and it was when he did that it hit me and I wanted him back so we made a go of it joe ever all he wants to do is move on from past where as I can't help but dwell on it and it's not cause I'm bein a dick I'm just hurt they it all bit we love each other obv if we never we wouldn't be together |
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"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??
having read your profile it easy to see that your experienced on scene as such; and im sure there is a logical reason why your now hesitant; the one you give is valid im sure; but its all about trust; so ask your self deep down do you trust Mr if yes then have trial run with you vetting the fem ok
Happy Fadding "
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There are some of us who have sufered similar issues; so your not alone in this mad world of fabland -whether your talking in forums or direct im sure you find good advice here |
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