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over a year ago
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I was wondering how long people have been on fab and how their usage has changed.
Are you still actively looking for meets or just using the forums? If you are not actively looking anymore, what's the reason? |
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We've been on Fab for 4-5 years, nothing entertains us as much as the forums! We don't look for meets off here unless they meeet in clubs, we go to to a club about once a month and love it. Long may it continue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering how long people have been on fab and how their usage has changed.
Are you still actively looking for meets or just using the forums? If you are not actively looking anymore, what's the reason?"
Been on for years and years.
Ways my usage has changed:
- Those outside of my filters cannot message me.
- I no longer respond to every message received. As almost all of the "thanks but no thanks" style messages are met with abusive replies or questions why  .
- Forum usage changed, in that I tend to leave the more serious threads alone. Even though I want to participate.
- I take forum (posting and/or reading) breaks when they're going through a mean phase.
Had a few weeks off recently where I simply did not log in for various reasons, as I felt quite dispondent.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was wondering how long people have been on fab and how their usage has changed.
Are you still actively looking for meets or just using the forums? If you are not actively looking anymore, what's the reason?
Been on for years and years.
Ways my usage has changed:
- Those outside of my filters cannot message me.
- I no longer respond to every message received. As almost all of the "thanks but no thanks" style messages are met with abusive replies or questions why .
- Forum usage changed, in that I tend to leave the more serious threads alone. Even though I want to participate.
- I take forum (posting and/or reading) breaks when they're going through a mean phase.
Had a few weeks off recently where I simply did not log in for various reasons, as I felt quite dispondent.
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I feel for you xx. The site can be quite draining at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering how long people have been on fab and how their usage has changed.
Are you still actively looking for meets or just using the forums? If you are not actively looking anymore, what's the reason?
Been on for years and years.
Ways my usage has changed:
- Those outside of my filters cannot message me.
- I no longer respond to every message received. As almost all of the "thanks but no thanks" style messages are met with abusive replies or questions why .
- Forum usage changed, in that I tend to leave the more serious threads alone. Even though I want to participate.
- I take forum (posting and/or reading) breaks when they're going through a mean phase.
Had a few weeks off recently where I simply did not log in for various reasons, as I felt quite dispondent.
I feel for you xx. The site can be quite draining at times."
Thanks. I've had a lot on and Fab is a part of my life - rather than being my life. So not logging on works for me at times when it becomes less enjoyable or I don't have the wherewithal to be bothered. Though I have to say, it's not something I've done often in my years of being on.
I figure that I can talk to people I've met through fab without being online after all and when I do log back in, can just read some recent forum threads  |
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Been here years …. Like a decade odd.
We were never huge players, our vanilla life is always busy so meets have always been random.
We have been to parties/ clubs/ meets 3 times one month and then nothing for 9-10 months… it’s hugely random! We are often online posting etc |
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Been here 10yrs
Been swinging for about 15yrs
The site has become a little more frustrating over the yrs but there are still some great people and meetings out there
That said I think I probably find it more frustrating because I’m a lot older now and the field for myself has definatley narrowed  |
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