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Hey guys,
Just wondering if anyone, particularly ladies, could take a quick look at my profile and see where I may be going wrong and can improve perhaps?
I think I’m in reasonably decent gym shape, but don’t get much response from the women I message. Thanks. Xx |
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I don't usually comment on these types of threads because your profile is how you choose to portray yourself and no one should tell you how to do that but one thing did strike me:
"I like varied sex - A good, long session. Fast and hard and deep.. slow, sensual and sexy. Mixing it up intermittently and swapping between foreplay and sex is amazing..
Missionary is a good start and amazing for hot, sexy kissing while we’re doing it... I’m sure you get the picture, ha! Xx"
The whole thing combined with the bit about the ex girlfriend just reads as incredibly vanilla to me. "I like to have very normal sex that's normal and I want to do it normally".
Are you vanilla? Do you wanna do it..... Normally?  |
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over a year ago
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I don’t get the first two paragraphs. You’re not in that relationship anymore so why does it have any relevance?
You ask not to be judged but give people a reason to be judged when there is no reason |
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Pics are fine, possibly a bit too in-depth for a opening profile.
I would get yourself out to a club, meet people. Explore the scene and get yourself some verifications. I thing this is a common theme with guys, patience is key. |
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over a year ago
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Draw some tape measure markings on your penis, it works wonders (apparently).
But if it gets you more action than me, I want royalties. Paid to “K Soze cash quick enterprises.” |
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OP, your profile is fine, you appear interesting and have taken the time out to put some effort in to your bio. As I can testify to the wife’s interests in profiles, a bit of humour and some detail goes a long way. She was enamoured with reading one profile and something will now come of that. Be patient, I’ve a feeling you’ll have some success on here and getting a verification under your belt might help but not necessary. Good luck mate
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"Do people really need to know that your out of a relationship?
Totally agree, if you are single then just say that. The rest is just off putting."
Especially saying it was sexless. No point mentioning it. You have a great physique but both your pics are almost identical. I don't know why you think people will judge you for wanting NSA sex. Isn't that what a majority of people on this site are looking for ? |
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Following on from Bob's comment, if I jad one criticism, it would be your age range. I have no obje tion to 99 year olds having their end away, but the idea doesn't float boat  |
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"Hey guys,
Just wondering if anyone, particularly ladies, could take a quick look at my profile and see where I may be going wrong and can improve perhaps?
I think I’m in reasonably decent gym shape, but don’t get much response from the women I message. Thanks. Xx "
I think your profile is fine as it is. It’s difficult to say what’s right or wrong as we’re all different and looking for different things. You can’t be everyone’s type, no matter what you look like or how well you can string a sentence together. Good luck x |
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Just a couple of other nitpicks. Really not being rude at all.
"The same person would be ace" Sounds like a 6 year old not 36
Also please remove like-minded, because no one else knows you. |
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"I don't usually comment on these types of threads because your profile is how you choose to portray yourself and no one should tell you how to do that but one thing did strike me:
"I like varied sex - A good, long session. Fast and hard and deep.. slow, sensual and sexy. Mixing it up intermittently and swapping between foreplay and sex is amazing..
Missionary is a good start and amazing for hot, sexy kissing while we’re doing it... I’m sure you get the picture, ha! Xx"
The whole thing combined with the bit about the ex girlfriend just reads as incredibly vanilla to me. "I like to have very normal sex that's normal and I want to do it normally".
Are you vanilla? Do you wanna do it..... Normally? "
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It does make me chuckle when all these guys wonder why they haven't had a meet or much interest after only being in the site for a few months
Take it from me if you want a meet just simply get your self out there clubs,socials, christ even a dogging meet will do , don't just rely on scoring a meet solely through here as for most of you you will be in for a long wait.
Then when you get a few veris from clubs you can then start to get meets off of here. |
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"It does make me chuckle when all these guys wonder why they haven't had a meet or much interest after only being in the site for a few months
Take it from me if you want a meet just simply get your self out there clubs,socials, christ even a dogging meet will do , don't just rely on scoring a meet solely through here as for most of you you will be in for a long wait.
Then when you get a few veris from clubs you can then start to get meets off of here."
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