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feeling comfortable in your own skin
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The way my body looks has been an issue to me for some time after 4 children and having climbed the hill into my 30s I'm not a toned and buff as I once was lol but I've realised that if you feel sexy and confident you look it!! Halalluja lol I found the confidence to strut my stuff round club kiss in not much more than my undies and it felt so great!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had body issues all my life, beginning as a toddler when my mother used to tell me I was fat. Self esteem was non existant.
Fast forward through my 20s and 30s, feeling fat and ugly. Then I met a man who loved how I looked and I started to change my attitude.
I've never felt better about myself than I do now, at 44, overweight and greying hair, etc. It's definitely all about your attitude toward yourself.
Also, I play only with black guys, and they like the booty  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Once I hit 40 I realised I was never going to have the body I had at 25, so I decided not to worry about it. I try and keep my weight reasonable but apart from that I don't have a problem.
Funnily enough I am much more comfortable naked now than I ever would have been at 25.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have learned to be comfortable in my own skin. The only thing that really bothers me is my scars from some surgeries. They really have knocked my confidence and they've become a little keyloid which isn't helping the situation either! |
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"who is as toned and buff as they used to be? lol
sexy comes from within  "
I am!
I think my body looks better now than it ever did when I was younger. Of course, I haven't given birth, and maybe middle aged spread is just around the corner - and I'm also one of those who can eat whatever they like and it makes no difference - feel free to hate me! |
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I have come to accept me for me and that includes my wobble.. I have been a size 10 and that never made me happy.. Ihave begun to love myself.. Sometimes I get the odd comment about my weight but you learn that you are always not going to be someones cup of tea... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You girls should never worry about what other thinks of you. Those who judge you on how you look are not worth it. Your beautfiul as you are..and as long you know that and believe in that..all the men are going to 'cum' running hehe.
Dont let others put you down. Just be yourself, be happy with who you are..and you will find those who accept you and WANT you just the way you arem
Motivational speech over. Hiya lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes I feel like sex goddess. other times I feel like a fat old lady. lol
to be fair one of the many good things to come from my recently ended d s relationship was that I learnt to be more happy in being myself.
to be honest I am a mum and proud of it. my weight is partly health related but mostly down to lack of control. however I don't beat myself up at it. I had guys that liked me at my biggest and have found that since losing weight I do have more choice. however I like to keep in my head that some guys actually don't care
so I love myself as after all if you are negative To yourself then others may pick up on it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"wish i did feel good in mine, always wish i was like others!"
have u been to a club yet? There's such a mix of bodies it just shows u what's inside that counts x
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I had a really crappy marriage with a man who didn't want anyone looking at me as I was a very shapely size 12, so he encouraged me to eat.
Wanting to please I did which had the obvious consequences.
After we divorced I began to loose weight... I'm still big but I have gotten over my issues with my size quite a lot and now have the attitude that I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but I float some boats etc...
I have a whole heap of confidence in myself and especially sexual hehe and I love it and I very nearly love me . |
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I'm tall and slim, always eaten anything I liked, love beer and pizza and weigh 12 stone. I try to go to the gym 1 or 2 times a week to get toned as I'm vegetarian and don't have much muscle tone. So I'm quite happy in my skin. Not shy about getting naked. Wish my cock was bigger....*yawn*....
Short answer to OP is 'yes'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think the main thing to remember is that everyones likes and dislikes tend to differ so regardless of shape size etc there is gonna be some people whose boat ur gonna float"
I'm just happy to float my own now lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You worked hard through life and this should be written on your face and on your body, I wouldnt want to be wrinkle free nor without a lump or bump, all the above mean I have laughed and loved and eaten and drank! Life is for the living not the judging! Everyone is different that what makes us sexy in someone elses eyes, enjoy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have learned to be comfortable in my own skin. The only thing that really bothers me is my scars from some surgeries. They really have knocked my confidence and they've become a little keyloid which isn't helping the situation either!"
I had a tattoo to 'cover' a scar I hated. My pals think it's funny as the tattoo is more obvious than the scar ever was, but I don't care as it made me feel better about it. I have other scars but they don't bother me. 
I used Bio Oil for 3 months on a massive scar and now it's just a white line. Not sure if that might help you. Or see the doctor as there are other products that work to reduce scars. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm never happy with the way I look, but I damn well know I'd never change anything drastically about myself! I just need to start gyming and swimming again |
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