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We’ve embarked on the playing solo route and plans have been hatched (the wife has a social and play date arranged, I think I have a play date as well but not fully confirmed).
It seems to have given our sex life a shot in the arm. It was already good but now we can’t keep our hands off each other and steal kisses whenever we can. Any other couples experienced this?
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Tony has played solo on many occasions and had female fb's twice now. Cherry has gone off on her own in clubs and on one occasion met a girl alone that we already knew...
Issues ?, it depends on you two. What if your wife finds getting meets alone MUCH easier than you and has MANY more meets as a result ?. What if she shows interest in meeting another man a second time or on a regular basis ?. We have heard many tales of woe and one where a guy wanted to take the wife away and marry her !!, it caused massive issues for them and she lost a lot of weight through stress. We were their first meet post the trouble and became long term friends, yet could only play with them under struct rules and NEVER with her alone even a year or two later... |
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"We’ve embarked on the playing solo route and plans have been hatched (the wife has a social and play date arranged, I think I have a play date as well but not fully confirmed).
It seems to have given our sex life a shot in the arm. It was already good but now we can’t keep our hands off each other and steal kisses whenever we can. Any other couples experienced this?
Bob"
So I generally don't get many couples messaging. But OP does my profile have what it takes to meet couples, because I really want to try my first mmf? Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We’ve embarked on the playing solo route and plans have been hatched (the wife has a social and play date arranged, I think I have a play date as well but not fully confirmed).
It seems to have given our sex life a shot in the arm. It was already good but now we can’t keep our hands off each other and steal kisses whenever we can. Any other couples experienced this?
Bob
So I generally don't get many couples messaging. But OP does my profile have what it takes to meet couples, because I really want to try my first mmf? Xxx"
No thanks mate but good luck |
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"Tony has played solo on many occasions and had female fb's twice now. Cherry has gone off on her own in clubs and on one occasion met a girl alone that we already knew...
Issues ?, it depends on you two. What if your wife finds getting meets alone MUCH easier than you and has MANY more meets as a result ?. What if she shows interest in meeting another man a second time or on a regular basis ?. We have heard many tales of woe and one where a guy wanted to take the wife away and marry her !!, it caused massive issues for them and she lost a lot of weight through stress. We were their first meet post the trouble and became long term friends, yet could only play with them under struct rules and NEVER with her alone even a year or two later..."
Aware of potential pitfalls , we wouldn’t recommend it to others but are keen to hear from those who have tried it |
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We mostly only play together, with the exception being if a woman wants Athena only, however in general our meets and experiences have strengthened our bond and trust, maybe that wouldn’t be the case if we met alone? Unsure about that. |
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"Tony has played solo on many occasions and had female fb's twice now. Cherry has gone off on her own in clubs and on one occasion met a girl alone that we already knew...
Issues ?, it depends on you two. What if your wife finds getting meets alone MUCH easier than you and has MANY more meets as a result ?. What if she shows interest in meeting another man a second time or on a regular basis ?. We have heard many tales of woe and one where a guy wanted to take the wife away and marry her !!, it caused massive issues for them and she lost a lot of weight through stress. We were their first meet post the trouble and became long term friends, yet could only play with them under struct rules and NEVER with her alone even a year or two later...
Aware of potential pitfalls , we wouldn’t recommend it to others but are keen to hear from those who have tried it"
We'd say it has worked for us so far. Of Tony's two ex fb's one was totally straight (Cherry is VERY bi), the other bi but under Cherry's age range. The girl Cherry met alone was also very bi and we'd known her for several months, shame it didn't continue. Everything is open between us, no secrets at all. Both of Tony's fb's had met Cherry, the younger one several times as she would sometimes stay over at ours  |
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