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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Post inspired by a comment in one of my other posts today.
Would you have sex with a person and/or date a person if you knew they were into bdsm and you weren't (even if they say it's ok they can also do vanilla)? |
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I think if you do date someone who has sexual intrests that you don't share should be at least able to accept them and open to them being free to explore these things with others if they wish. A relationship should not be a cage. |
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"I like BDSM, I could easily and have had sex with those who don't like it. But i wouldn't in all likelihood date them. To me it would makes us incompatible in the bedroom long term. "
you have magnificent breasts does he ever bind and beat them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Post inspired by a comment in one of my other posts today.
Would you have sex with a person and/or date a person if you knew they were into bdsm and you weren't (even if they say it's ok they can also do vanilla)?"
I would worry that down the line he would feel frustrated that his kinky needs were not being met. I don’t know that we’d be compatible long term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Post inspired by a comment in one of my other posts today.
Would you have sex with a person and/or date a person if you knew they were into bdsm and you weren't (even if they say it's ok they can also do vanilla)?
I would worry that down the line he would feel frustrated that his kinky needs were not being met. I don’t know that we’d be compatible long term."
OPPS yeah that might be an issue  |
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"I like BDSM, I could easily and have had sex with those who don't like it. But i wouldn't in all likelihood date them. To me it would makes us incompatible in the bedroom long term.
you have magnificent breasts does he ever bind and beat them"
You are assuming she is sub rather than Domme |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bdsm is too broad a brush to answer that.
There’s so many different levels let alone over 70 different types of Dominant and submissive to give a answer.
Opposite ends of the scale. No. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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I do think people get confused and a bit twisted about BDSM; media stereotypes don't help.
Is BDSM a part of me, and not just role play? Yes.
Does BDSM inform my every action? No.
I was brought up listening to Teddy Pendergrass, Isaacs Hayes and Milly Jackson and other great soul singers.
I listened to Jodeci, Keith Sweat, Jeff Redd, Keith Washington, Joe, and many others in my younger days. Just because people are kinky does not mean they are not "Old Skool Soul Lovin" as well.
I am off to play some Maxwell "'till the cops come knockin'". |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Post inspired by a comment in one of my other posts today.
Would you have sex with a person and/or date a person if you knew they were into bdsm and you weren't (even if they say it's ok they can also do vanilla)?"
My husband is vanilla and asexual and I married him let alone dated him so I'd like to think I'm proof it works...
We (well I) am poly which he knew, so there isn't the need to worry about does he meet all my needs, we always knew he wouldn't.
One of my last partners was also vanilla. He actually reminded me how amazing vanilla sex and relationships can be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Post inspired by a comment in one of my other posts today.
Would you have sex with a person and/or date a person if you knew they were into bdsm and you weren't (even if they say it's ok they can also do vanilla)?"
Why would I want to do vanilla even worse settle for vanilla .if your dominate why would you be interested or even turned on by a normal run of the mill fuck , I no I'm not .
So the answers no I would not settle for a vanilla nor would I date someone who couldn't give me what I want , just like I would have no interest in someone who wants a vanilla fuck.
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