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"What sort of club are you interested in? Spa-based, night-club like or a mix?
Also, what would, in your opinion, qualify the club as "good", or "best" even?"
Not really sure…. A sex club? Lol
So I would probably say a good one where a single guy gets a bit of action rather than just being a third wheel.
Like I said I’m new to clubs so don’t really know what goes on x |
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First of all, those are swingers clubs, not sex clubs. Yes, people may have sex there, but a lot go for more socialising aspect, meeting people who are in the lifestyle.
Spa-based clubs are like spas, where people walk around in towels, maybe underwear, and where there is plenty of wet facilities, like swimming pool, hot tub, sauna etc. Usually nobody has to book to come to one of those, therefore sometimes it could be a real sausage fest.
Night-club style- people come in dressed to impress, there is usually a bar and a dance floor, as well as some socialising area. If you want to proceed to play areas, many clubs require dressing down then (towels, underwear or even naked).
There is also a mix of both, where you do have wet facilities but you're not required to dress down at any point.
Treat those places basically like pubs with more relaxed atmosphere- approach people there with respect, be friendly, don't overcrowd women or couples and take "no" for an answer. And then you might be successful.
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"What sort of club are you interested in? Spa-based, night-club like or a mix?
Also, what would, in your opinion, qualify the club as "good", or "best" even?
Not really sure…. A sex club? Lol
So I would probably say a good one where a single guy gets a bit of action rather than just being a third wheel.
Like I said I’m new to clubs so don’t really know what goes on x"
None of the club's are guaranteed action there is a certain level of etiquette to it... |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
Back in the early 2000s my favourite place was a fetish night at a Croydon Club called Mystique.
Great music and a much more friendly atmosphere.
I only go to a swingers Club if I am meeting someone |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"What’s the best club for single men to attend? I don’t have much experience with clubs but would like to attend. Thank you "
No offence… but what that almost says to me that you are asking what clubs are you able to get your leg over using minimal effort…. |
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over a year ago
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"What’s the best club for single men to attend? I don’t have much experience with clubs but would like to attend. Thank you
No offence… but what that almost says to me that you are asking what clubs are you able to get your leg over using minimal effort…. "
Sounds about right  |
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This attitude is why single guys aren’t successful. Only go to a club if your open minded, see it as a social and treat people with respect. Don’t become one of the wanking zombies annoying everyone.
Never stand in doorways or follow couples. Just talk and make conversations. The guys who take the time and treat it like a social are always the most successful. |
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"What sort of club are you interested in? Spa-based, night-club like or a mix?
Also, what would, in your opinion, qualify the club as "good", or "best" even?
Not really sure…. A sex club? Lol
So I would probably say a good one where a single guy gets a bit of action rather than just being a third wheel.
Like I said I’m new to clubs so don’t really know what goes on x"
Looooollll no club will guarantee you action and its mostly your attitude that will get in the way not whether club is "good" or not |
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"First of all, those are swingers clubs, not sex clubs. Yes, people may have sex there, but a lot go for more socialising aspect, meeting people who are in the lifestyle.
Spa-based clubs are like spas, where people walk around in towels, maybe underwear, and where there is plenty of wet facilities, like swimming pool, hot tub, sauna etc. Usually nobody has to book to come to one of those, therefore sometimes it could be a real sausage fest.
Night-club style- people come in dressed to impress, there is usually a bar and a dance floor, as well as some socialising area. If you want to proceed to play areas, many clubs require dressing down then (towels, underwear or even naked).
There is also a mix of both, where you do have wet facilities but you're not required to dress down at any point.
Treat those places basically like pubs with more relaxed atmosphere- approach people there with respect, be friendly, don't overcrowd women or couples and take "no" for an answer. And then you might be successful.
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Do you know of any good places in the sutton/Surrey area? |
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The best club for single men is the club with the least amount of single men.
I have been to clubs and there have been far too many single men and they were literally roaming the place in packs.
Off putting for everyone and a small chance of playing to the guys. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"The best club for single men is the club with the least amount of single men.
I have been to clubs and there have been far too many single men and they were literally roaming the place in packs.
Off putting for everyone and a small chance of playing to the guys. "
Not necessarily… the ones who are socialising and talking to people are the ones most likely to succeed rather than those people who patrol like silent ninjas
The problem is that some attitudes reek of “I’ve paid my money, where’s the action!”
Some people just don’t know how to help themselves help themselves!!! |
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Ok guys I was just asking for advice as I’ve never tried any swinging clubs, I wasn’t looking to get shot down.
This is why I’m asking here so if I do attend a club, I get it right and don’t become one of these ‘wanking zombies’
Plus I never asked where the best place was to go to get my leg over! I’m all about socialising and building a connection |
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"First of all, those are swingers clubs, not sex clubs. Yes, people may have sex there, but a lot go for more socialising aspect, meeting people who are in the lifestyle.
Spa-based clubs are like spas, where people walk around in towels, maybe underwear, and where there is plenty of wet facilities, like swimming pool, hot tub, sauna etc. Usually nobody has to book to come to one of those, therefore sometimes it could be a real sausage fest.
Night-club style- people come in dressed to impress, there is usually a bar and a dance floor, as well as some socialising area. If you want to proceed to play areas, many clubs require dressing down then (towels, underwear or even naked).
There is also a mix of both, where you do have wet facilities but you're not required to dress down at any point.
Treat those places basically like pubs with more relaxed atmosphere- approach people there with respect, be friendly, don't overcrowd women or couples and take "no" for an answer. And then you might be successful.
Do you know of any good places in the sutton/Surrey area? "
Unfortunately, London/Greater London hasn't got many clubs. There is Kestrels/AbFabs at Heathrow (same venue; Kestrels is spa-based naturist venue, AbFabs- evening parties), Hellfire, OurPlace4Fun. |
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"What’s the best club for single men to attend? I don’t have much experience with clubs but would like to attend. Thank you "
There all different going look in club reviews on homepage find what suits you  |
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"What’s the best club for single men to attend? I don’t have much experience with clubs but would like to attend. Thank you
There all different going look in club reviews on homepage find what suits you "
Thanks for the advice |
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All are good potentially for the right single men who respect others and behave appropriately. Find the right place for your interests, budget, travelling etc, paying attention to what their calendar and events are, to match your own likely interests.
If any of them have non-member events, it gives you chance to check them out, without what could be a financial investment that can be large for men in some of them. |
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