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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can appreciate this comment. Im not sure if it would be awkward or just a little odd.
Awkward is the fmf with the 2 'bi girls' where one doesn't mind receiving x,y and z but won't return the favour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can appreciate this comment. Im not sure if it would be awkward or just a little odd.
Awkward is the fmf with the 2 'bi girls' where one doesn't mind receiving x,y and z but won't return the favour. "
Yeah, not sure which is more awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can appreciate this comment. Im not sure if it would be awkward or just a little odd.
Awkward is the fmf with the 2 'bi girls' where one doesn't mind receiving x,y and z but won't return the favour.
Yeah, not sure which is more awkward."
I always said if such scenarios occurred I'd just sit in the corner with a book and a sandwich as a mark of protest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can appreciate this comment. Im not sure if it would be awkward or just a little odd.
Awkward is the fmf with the 2 'bi girls' where one doesn't mind receiving x,y and z but won't return the favour.
Yeah, not sure which is more awkward.
I always said if such scenarios occurred I'd just sit in the corner with a book and a sandwich as a mark of protest. "
Don’t blame you actually. A good sandwich can be very satisfying and I love reading!!  |
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"One lady is sat twiddling thumbs while the guy and the other lady are, you know. A bit like a spare part  "
I've experienced this and it's not much fun. The other girl was bi too but for some reason the guy wanted to take it turns with each of us, rather than us all playing together. Very odd. Me and the girl met up by ourselves the time after and had much more fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One lady is sat twiddling thumbs while the guy and the other lady are, you know. A bit like a spare part
I've experienced this and it's not much fun. The other girl was bi too but for some reason the guy wanted to take it turns with each of us, rather than us all playing together. Very odd. Me and the girl met up by ourselves the time after and had much more fun."
Exactly! It’s not fun, it’s awkward as hell and a bit dull in fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can totally appreciate this thread, and from some responses can see it happens like that sometimes.
thankfully ive not experienced the spare part side.. guess ive just been lucky 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think? "
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I think FFM is the only way to go and is far more likely than FMF as more women have bi tendencies than men. I don't think I have ever seen anyone looking for FMF. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s more like a “taking turns” situation when one lady is bi and the other is straight. I’d rather just have one on one than having to wait my turn 
I can only comment from a MMF perspective... But its never been awkward.... Three wanting people entwined as one.... The pleasure far outweighs the fear  "
MMF is not the same in my experience, there’s less “taking turns” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s more like a “taking turns” situation when one lady is bi and the other is straight. I’d rather just have one on one than having to wait my turn
I can only comment from a MMF perspective... But its never been awkward.... Three wanting people entwined as one.... The pleasure far outweighs the fear
MMF is not the same in my experience, there’s less “taking turns” "
Is trying and finding out its maybe not for you worse than not knowing?
For me the key is the dynamics between the three |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx"
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious "
Yeah I'm not a fan of meets like this. I much prefer bi females so we all play. But some just want to watch their husbands fuck and maybe clean up after which seems to be getting really popular now. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious
Yeah I'm not a fan of meets like this. I much prefer bi females so we all play. But some just want to watch their husbands fuck and maybe clean up after which seems to be getting really popular now. Xx"
The female cleans up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious
Yeah I'm not a fan of meets like this. I much prefer bi females so we all play. But some just want to watch their husbands fuck and maybe clean up after which seems to be getting really popular now. Xx
The female cleans up? "
Yes. I've had several requests for this recently. It seems to be a new thing as I didn't get asked a year ago. Xx |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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Women have a lot more erogenous zones than men, so it is easier for two straight men to pleasure one woman than two straight women and one man, but with the right people and the right approach, anything can be fun - except paying your taxes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women have a lot more erogenous zones than men, so it is easier for two straight men to pleasure one woman than two straight women and one man, but with the right people and the right approach, anything can be fun - except paying your taxes "
True  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think? "
Going back a few years ago when the wife was very straight she tried to arrange a straight fmf with other couples but gave up after about 6 months, she just fancied trying it out to see what the experience would be like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
Going back a few years ago when the wife was very straight she tried to arrange a straight fmf with other couples but gave up after about 6 months, she just fancied trying it out to see what the experience would be like."
She didn’t miss anything exciting in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
Going back a few years ago when the wife was very straight she tried to arrange a straight fmf with other couples but gave up after about 6 months, she just fancied trying it out to see what the experience would be like.
She didn’t miss anything exciting in my opinion"
Maybe, covid pretty much scuppered her plans then we moved to Greece so pretty much hung up our swinging apron.  |
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious
Yeah I'm not a fan of meets like this. I much prefer bi females so we all play. But some just want to watch their husbands fuck and maybe clean up after which seems to be getting really popular now. Xx
The female cleans up?
Yes. I've had several requests for this recently. It seems to be a new thing as I didn't get asked a year ago. Xx"
I got asked for this when I first joined fab a few years ago (on my single profile). It's not for me as I don't play bareback with anybody other than Mr, but the couple who asked me seemed to have quite a few people who they'd played with in that way.
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think? "
I've done it a couple of times - it can work, just depends on the dynamic of those involved.
Much prefer if the lady is bi though 
Ms x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
Going back a few years ago when the wife was very straight she tried to arrange a straight fmf with other couples but gave up after about 6 months, she just fancied trying it out to see what the experience would be like.
She didn’t miss anything exciting in my opinion
Maybe, covid pretty much scuppered her plans then we moved to Greece so pretty much hung up our swinging apron. "
I’m planning to move to Greece! Where did you go? I’m looking at just outside Athens |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
I've done it a couple of times - it can work, just depends on the dynamic of those involved.
Much prefer if the lady is bi though
Ms x"
I assume that would work much better! |
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"One lady is sat twiddling thumbs while the guy and the other lady are, you know. A bit like a spare part "
Not if 1 is sat on your face and the other riding away and the M has fingers when taking 1 of the F from behind |
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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago
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Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste "
Eh? Why would a straight lady want to much someone pussy? |
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It depends on what peoples expectations are, if the boundaries are set out from the beginning and everyone consents then no one is disappointed.
It’s only like having an mmf when one of the guys is bi.
I suppose it is a bit like going to a buffet and being told the quiche is on the table but you can’t have any. You might be happy to sample the crisps cocktail sausages and salmon and cucumber sandwiches.
That’s better than no one telling you the quiche is off limits and slapping you when you take a slice.
Least if you know you can maybe go to Mac Donald’s instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious
Yeah I'm not a fan of meets like this. I much prefer bi females so we all play. But some just want to watch their husbands fuck and maybe clean up after which seems to be getting really popular now. Xx
The female cleans up?
Yes. I've had several requests for this recently. It seems to be a new thing as I didn't get asked a year ago. Xx
I got asked for this when I first joined fab a few years ago (on my single profile). It's not for me as I don't play bareback with anybody other than Mr, but the couple who asked me seemed to have quite a few people who they'd played with in that way.
Ms x"
Yes like a said it seems to be a trend at the moment. Ladies wanting there husband to cum in other women so they get then clean. Whatever floats your boat I guess. Xx |
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It's not something we've ever tried but we have had plenty of mfm threesomes where both of even one guy is straight. It works out just fine, I imagine the same would apply with two women one man as long as everyone understood and agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
Going back a few years ago when the wife was very straight she tried to arrange a straight fmf with other couples but gave up after about 6 months, she just fancied trying it out to see what the experience would be like.
She didn’t miss anything exciting in my opinion
Maybe, covid pretty much scuppered her plans then we moved to Greece so pretty much hung up our swinging apron.
I’m planning to move to Greece! Where did you go? I’m looking at just outside Athens "
We're on Corfu, love Athens, we went in Feb for a few days and done a few of the tourist bits, definitely going to go back but for a week next time to have a proper look around. |
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste "
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting. "
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I have enjoyed a FMF a few times where the ladies did not play bi. It was like 90% of straight MFM meets where the two were focussed on giving a great sexual experience to the one and were not in it for their own pleasure.
Whilst a single man will struggle to please two women at the same time the ladies know it is a very rare event for any man and an experience he will always remember.
In this environment of giving I think most women will not be churlish about not getting everything they want. Like straight MFM play; their pleasure comes from giving pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No different to mfm with straight guys.
What she said."
Hmm having experienced both, I’d have to disagree.
One man can be in each hole or one in mouth etc.
With fmf, found myself lying there while she was on top or while he was behind her etc etc. if his dick is in use, do I play with his hair? Lots of taking turns |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting. "
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've always tended to avoid couples where the girl is straight. Where she is bi-curious but is clearly not really into it is a unsatisfactory; sometimes the guy has clearly talked her into it, and she never really was into it. |
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting.
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it."
Trust me, is not you causing offence of ruining the mood although other people will imply that it is. Just because a woman is doing something unasked for to another woman doesn't make it ok or playful or sexy or any of the other words used to try and make you feel you shouldn't be refusing a sexual act. We no longer meet couples who say the woman is bisexual due to aggressive sexual advances towards me by women. If it was men doing it people would be outraged. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting.
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it.
Trust me, is not you causing offence of ruining the mood although other people will imply that it is. Just because a woman is doing something unasked for to another woman doesn't make it ok or playful or sexy or any of the other words used to try and make you feel you shouldn't be refusing a sexual act. We no longer meet couples who say the woman is bisexual due to aggressive sexual advances towards me by women. If it was men doing it people would be outraged."
That is absolutely correct, people would go mad. It’s not seen to be as bad if it’s a woman on a woman. Don’t know why. |
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting.
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it.
Trust me, is not you causing offence of ruining the mood although other people will imply that it is. Just because a woman is doing something unasked for to another woman doesn't make it ok or playful or sexy or any of the other words used to try and make you feel you shouldn't be refusing a sexual act. We no longer meet couples who say the woman is bisexual due to aggressive sexual advances towards me by women. If it was men doing it people would be outraged.
That is absolutely correct, people would go mad. It’s not seen to be as bad if it’s a woman on a woman. Don’t know why."
Because nearly everyone believes that when it comes to sex women must just do what's asked of them if it's giving someone else pleasure. Also nearly everyone believes that all women are bisexual, they just need to wake up to the fact.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting.
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it.
Trust me, is not you causing offence of ruining the mood although other people will imply that it is. Just because a woman is doing something unasked for to another woman doesn't make it ok or playful or sexy or any of the other words used to try and make you feel you shouldn't be refusing a sexual act. We no longer meet couples who say the woman is bisexual due to aggressive sexual advances towards me by women. If it was men doing it people would be outraged.
That is absolutely correct, people would go mad. It’s not seen to be as bad if it’s a woman on a woman. Don’t know why.
Because nearly everyone believes that when it comes to sex women must just do what's asked of them if it's giving someone else pleasure. Also nearly everyone believes that all women are bisexual, they just need to wake up to the fact. "
I agree. Lots of guys feel that most women are bisexual or will try it when aroused. They seem to feel differently when it’s a straight guy being offered a cock! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting.
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it.
Trust me, is not you causing offence of ruining the mood although other people will imply that it is. Just because a woman is doing something unasked for to another woman doesn't make it ok or playful or sexy or any of the other words used to try and make you feel you shouldn't be refusing a sexual act. We no longer meet couples who say the woman is bisexual due to aggressive sexual advances towards me by women. If it was men doing it people would be outraged.
That is absolutely correct, people would go mad. It’s not seen to be as bad if it’s a woman on a woman. Don’t know why.
Because nearly everyone believes that when it comes to sex women must just do what's asked of them if it's giving someone else pleasure. Also nearly everyone believes that all women are bisexual, they just need to wake up to the fact. "
Totally agree that many assume all of us are bi here .
The amount of messages I've had from men,asking if I'll meet with their bi fb .
So I'd never do one as I'd feel they'd want and expect to see the women playing for their benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste
So you'd be happy to be offered a cock to suck just because I'd let you have one of my chips earlier?
As a straight woman I've been put in a similar position to the one you describe more than once. It's rude, disrespectful and insulting.
I’ve been in this situation too, I hate being put on the spot as I don’t like to offend and it can kill the mood.
I’ve also had the lady of the couple go down while I was involved with her man, I was not expecting it and didn’t want it but again, I don’t like to be in a position where I offend someone or ruin the mood. I don’t like it.
Trust me, is not you causing offence of ruining the mood although other people will imply that it is. Just because a woman is doing something unasked for to another woman doesn't make it ok or playful or sexy or any of the other words used to try and make you feel you shouldn't be refusing a sexual act. We no longer meet couples who say the woman is bisexual due to aggressive sexual advances towards me by women. If it was men doing it people would be outraged.
That is absolutely correct, people would go mad. It’s not seen to be as bad if it’s a woman on a woman. Don’t know why.
Because nearly everyone believes that when it comes to sex women must just do what's asked of them if it's giving someone else pleasure. Also nearly everyone believes that all women are bisexual, they just need to wake up to the fact.
Totally agree that many assume all of us are bi here .
The amount of messages I've had from men,asking if I'll meet with their bi fb .
So I'd never do one as I'd feel they'd want and expect to see the women playing for their benefit."
Same
They assure you that everyone is happy that you’re straight but then minutes in and hands start wandering and the agreements made beforehand seem to just fade from some peoples memory! That’s my experience anyway. I do think far too many think you’ll change your mind and become bi once in the mood! |
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"Would the bi lady not feel like it was a bit rubbish? I have no doubt that the guy would be happy! "
Depending on what they want from the interaction. I know Kitty wants to do this so I can be centre of attention. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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If both women were straight and got together specifically to give the gent a treat, giving him all the attention, it could work .... in theory.
I've had two occasions where this was meant to happen, at clubs, but I had explained clearly I was straight. First time the woman grabbed by boobs and tried to suck them, the other time the woman tried to go down on me. I paused and tolerated it briefly, then stopped proceeding.
No way would I agree to a meet with a couple. It just doesn't work when one lady is straight. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think? "
I agree but it can work if everyone is comfortable but for me I'd prefer another bi girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look every lady I've taken for a meal has always asked if i like my food, looks good and if u ask if they would like taste some, more than likely they do, just put your head deep between the other womans thighs, lick, yam munch that pussy with lots off "Mmm this is delicious" then ask if she would like a taste "
Strange that you don't know what a straight lady is at your age |
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Never had any issues before. Everyone has a good time. It doesn't matter if folks are straight or bi or even gay. You work with what you have got in front of you. Plus as long as folks know the score before the fun. There will be no surprises. |
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"Never had any issues before. Everyone has a good time. It doesn't matter if folks are straight or bi or even gay. You work with what you have got in front of you. Plus as long as folks know the score before the fun. There will be no surprises. "
Until the lady tries to lick your vag or suck a boob (see above). |
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"We've always tended to avoid couples where the girl is straight. Where she is bi-curious but is clearly not really into it is a unsatisfactory; sometimes the guy has clearly talked her into it, and she never really was into it."
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"If both women were straight and got together specifically to give the gent a treat, giving him all the attention, it could work .... in theory.
I've had two occasions where this was meant to happen, at clubs, but I had explained clearly I was straight. First time the woman grabbed by boobs and tried to suck them, the other time the woman tried to go down on me. I paused and tolerated it briefly, then stopped proceeding.
No way would I agree to a meet with a couple. It just doesn't work when one lady is straight. "
All my FMFs and FFMF meets were a treat. They were thanks for hosting mmmffmmm meets for them. I did not expect it but it was lovely thing to do. No woman was assaulted or made to feel uncomfortable. |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman "
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out "
Thats (partly) what puts me off too |
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Years ago pre transition. So back when I was good old boy I had a gf and a barmaid friend that we used to have fmf sessions . Pretty much sole focus was all on me from both of them. They wasn’t into playing with each other at all .
Only physical interaction they had would be when I got them to stack onto ass too ass do I could dip between them on doggy .
Was great fun while it lasted |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too "
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol.. |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol.. "
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know. |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know. "
You are totally correct! It's almost just seen as 'playful' for a woman to grope or harass another woman .. no its NOT playful its sexual assault if you have said no and they continue ! I had a woman once, part of a couple, who I already, more than once, politely refused and then on the dancefloor she just shoved her hand between my legs... HELL NO! .. she was lucky she didn't end up on the floor counting stars ! |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know. "
Men are definitely judged more harshly than women. In my opinion it's wrong whatever your gender and should be judged equally harshly. It's not helped by many men and women viewing it as 'harmless fun' in the same way they view women flashing as 'sexy' |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know.
You are totally correct! It's almost just seen as 'playful' for a woman to grope or harass another woman .. no its NOT playful its sexual assault if you have said no and they continue ! I had a woman once, part of a couple, who I already, more than once, politely refused and then on the dancefloor she just shoved her hand between my legs... HELL NO! .. she was lucky she didn't end up on the floor counting stars ! "
Not cool! If a guy did this though he’d have been ambushed by everyone around! |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know.
Men are definitely judged more harshly than women. In my opinion it's wrong whatever your gender and should be judged equally harshly. It's not helped by many men and women viewing it as 'harmless fun' in the same way they view women flashing as 'sexy' "
It’s definitely seen as harmless and I’ve been called a prude because I don’t want a woman to go down on me! Not many guys are called a prude for not wanting a guy to suck them off! |
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"Depends on the couple and what they're looking for. I've met straight couples where the female was only interested in watching or filming. So it was fine xx
In that case, I would rather just have a one on one rather than having someone sitting and watching. It would make me really self conscious
Yeah I'm not a fan of meets like this. I much prefer bi females so we all play. But some just want to watch their husbands fuck and maybe clean up after which seems to be getting really popular now. Xx
The female cleans up?
Yes. I've had several requests for this recently. It seems to be a new thing as I didn't get asked a year ago. Xx"
Is it the men that are making the requests? |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
The wife cleaning up is pretty standard in a cuckquean scenario…much more fun if they are bi, but no reason why straight women shouldn’t enjoy it too.
Although you’d imagine a straight wife on clean up duties is probably indulging in her humiliation kink. |
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"The wife cleaning up is pretty standard in a cuckquean scenario…much more fun if they are bi, but no reason why straight women shouldn’t enjoy it too.
Although you’d imagine a straight wife on clean up duties is probably indulging in her humiliation kink."
I assume that the majority of straight women are not going to want to be on either end of clean up duties though? |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"The wife cleaning up is pretty standard in a cuckquean scenario…much more fun if they are bi, but no reason why straight women shouldn’t enjoy it too.
Although you’d imagine a straight wife on clean up duties is probably indulging in her humiliation kink.
I assume that the majority of straight women are not going to want to be on either end of clean up duties though? "
The majority of straight women are probably not going to find themselves in a cuckquean / cuckcake FMF…those that do are probably a bit more adventurous than the norm.  |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know.
Men are definitely judged more harshly than women. In my opinion it's wrong whatever your gender and should be judged equally harshly. It's not helped by many men and women viewing it as 'harmless fun' in the same way they view women flashing as 'sexy'
It’s definitely seen as harmless and I’ve been called a prude because I don’t want a woman to go down on me! Not many guys are called a prude for not wanting a guy to suck them off! "
Love this comment and totally agree, in fact I use this as an explanation to bewildered couples !! Lol |
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over a year ago
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I’ve read where a bi-guy will play straight, and that gets me thinking, well, we all have our preferences so she might fancy the guy, he doesn’t, so yes. Your FMF could work too. |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know.
Men are definitely judged more harshly than women. In my opinion it's wrong whatever your gender and should be judged equally harshly. It's not helped by many men and women viewing it as 'harmless fun' in the same way they view women flashing as 'sexy'
It’s definitely seen as harmless and I’ve been called a prude because I don’t want a woman to go down on me! Not many guys are called a prude for not wanting a guy to suck them off! "
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know.
Men are definitely judged more harshly than women. In my opinion it's wrong whatever your gender and should be judged equally harshly. It's not helped by many men and women viewing it as 'harmless fun' in the same way they view women flashing as 'sexy'
It’s definitely seen as harmless and I’ve been called a prude because I don’t want a woman to go down on me! Not many guys are called a prude for not wanting a guy to suck them off!
If other girls aren't for you just stick with meeting guys, it's your life so you get to choose what happens"
The dynamic of FFM does not solely relate to eating of pussies, if thats the case then bi females should just meet women! .. there is so much more to an FFM than girl on girl, which is where the issue comes in with ppl assuming that's what it means! Lol |
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"Is it?
In my mind, it doesn’t really work, what do you think?
This dynamic wouldn't work for me
I don't see it as the same as a straight male mmf as there are 2 cocks in mmf so more for the female to play with
But I am speaking from a woman's point of view, I'd be bored having a mff if I could only play with the guy and not touch the other woman
I have never been bored as a straight female in an MFF .. the issue i have is the other female wanting to 'test' me out during and being disrespectful of the already discussed dynamic of the play ! That pees me off greatly !!! .. I'm straight lady get over it or get out
Thats (partly) what puts me off too
I have found women to be much worse than men in trying to 'change' your mind/ sexuality.. lady, if you choose to be bi curious (most times just to please the guy) then thats cool just don't push it on me ! Lol..
I feel, as said above, women pushing boundaries and limits sexually is not frowned up or causes as much outrage as if a guy did it. If I said to a guy “don’t touch me” and he did, there would be more anger towards him than if a lady did it (from others, and maybe myself!). Neither should touch but maybe guys get the harsher judgement. I don’t know.
Men are definitely judged more harshly than women. In my opinion it's wrong whatever your gender and should be judged equally harshly. It's not helped by many men and women viewing it as 'harmless fun' in the same way they view women flashing as 'sexy'
It’s definitely seen as harmless and I’ve been called a prude because I don’t want a woman to go down on me! Not many guys are called a prude for not wanting a guy to suck them off!
If other girls aren't for you just stick with meeting guys, it's your life so you get to choose what happens
The dynamic of FFM does not solely relate to eating of pussies, if thats the case then bi females should just meet women! .. there is so much more to an FFM than girl on girl, which is where the issue comes in with ppl assuming that's what it means! Lol"
That's exactly why I'm here so I would only meet bi sexual women anyway. If the female isn't bi there wouldn't be any point in meeting other than socially |
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"I can appreciate this comment. Im not sure if it would be awkward or just a little odd.
Awkward is the fmf with the 2 'bi girls' where one doesn't mind receiving x,y and z but won't return the favour. "
Doesn't even have to be bi girls. I don't like it when the other guy asks me to do stuff with him that his gf/wife very clearly isn't into and she has to watch him do it to me. Lxx |
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Its not as straightforward as all that. Just because a woman is bi, it doesn't she wants to do everything she does when she is with a guy with a woman (and vice versa). I prefer oral from girls and penetration from guys. Anyone else like that? Lx |
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"Years ago pre transition. So back when I was good old boy I had a gf and a barmaid friend that we used to have fmf sessions . Pretty much sole focus was all on me from both of them. They wasn’t into playing with each other at all .
Only physical interaction they had would be when I got them to stack onto ass too ass do I could dip between them on doggy .
Was great fun while it lasted "
This right here op |
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"Years ago pre transition. So back when I was good old boy I had a gf and a barmaid friend that we used to have fmf sessions . Pretty much sole focus was all on me from both of them. They wasn’t into playing with each other at all .
Only physical interaction they had would be when I got them to stack onto ass too ass do I could dip between them on doggy .
Was great fun while it lasted
This right here op"
I understand the premise and have experience of it, it’s just something that has never worked for me. I guess I don’t like waiting my turn. I’d rather just do one on one than wait for another woman to get off. |
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I've had plenty fmf with straight females. There's loads of things to do. When he is fucking her you can kiss him (all over) put your tits in his mouth (put all of you in his mouth), play with him. Do everything you usually would to a guy the same if she wasn't there. You can play with yourself. It's only rubbish if you make it rubbish |
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"I've had plenty fmf with straight females. There's loads of things to do. When he is fucking her you can kiss him (all over) put your tits in his mouth (put all of you in his mouth), play with him. Do everything you usually would to a guy the same if she wasn't there. You can play with yourself. It's only rubbish if you make it rubbish "
You’re right, I could have done more if I was enjoying it.
Experience has shown me that it’s not for me, at least I can say I’ve tried |
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"I've had plenty fmf with straight females. There's loads of things to do. When he is fucking her you can kiss him (all over) put your tits in his mouth (put all of you in his mouth), play with him. Do everything you usually would to a guy the same if she wasn't there. You can play with yourself. It's only rubbish if you make it rubbish
Shame you didn’t enjoy it, but yes at least you had a go and found out what’s good for you
You’re right, I could have done more if I was enjoying it.
Experience has shown me that it’s not for me, at least I can say I’ve tried "
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"I've had plenty fmf with straight females. There's loads of things to do. When he is fucking her you can kiss him (all over) put your tits in his mouth (put all of you in his mouth), play with him. Do everything you usually would to a guy the same if she wasn't there. You can play with yourself. It's only rubbish if you make it rubbish
You’re right, I could have done more if I was enjoying it.
Experience has shown me that it’s not for me, at least I can say I’ve tried "
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"I've had plenty fmf with straight females. There's loads of things to do. When he is fucking her you can kiss him (all over) put your tits in his mouth (put all of you in his mouth), play with him. Do everything you usually would to a guy the same if she wasn't there. You can play with yourself. It's only rubbish if you make it rubbish
You’re right, I could have done more if I was enjoying it.
Experience has shown me that it’s not for me, at least I can say I’ve tried
Well you didn't really try is more the point "
Yeah. I didn’t. I think I personally only try if I’m into something. I knew more or less straight away that I wasn’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m sure there are many things that you could do to make it work but I kind of understand what you mean. I’m totally bi so I know that in a threesome I’d want to play with everyone together.
Of course boundaries are essential and I’d never dream of crossing them, I just know I’d not enjoy myself “steering clear” of the other woman so to speak.
Each to their own as always though and I’m sure it works for some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m sure there are many things that you could do to make it work but I kind of understand what you mean. I’m totally bi so I know that in a threesome I’d want to play with everyone together.
Of course boundaries are essential and I’d never dream of crossing them, I just know I’d not enjoy myself “steering clear” of the other woman so to speak.
Each to their own as always though and I’m sure it works for some "
It’s hard to steer clear, the woman is always in the bloody way haha |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"One lady is sat twiddling thumbs while the guy and the other lady are, you know. A bit like a spare part "
It really does depend on the women involved. If they have any exhibitionist and/or voyeuristic tendencies they could find it very exciting. That, plus the added "naughtiness" of sharing a cock, could be a real turn on. It's a question of establishing clear boundaries before play and sticking to them. I, for one, as a bi woman would be more than happy to have a FMF with a straight woman, partly because I love to see my guy with another woman. I wouldn't dream of crossing her boundaries. |
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"No different to mfm with straight guys.
Exactly "
I think it’s easier for two women to pleasure one woman (boobs, extra hole etc) then two women on one man, especially if his dick is in use. But that’s just my opinion |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Women have a lot more erogenous zones than men, so it is easier for two straight men to pleasure one woman than two straight women and one man, but with the right people and the right approach, anything can be fun - except paying your taxes
True "
Why do you think women have more erogenous zones than men?
I'd argue they have pretty much an equal number, the only difference being what's between their legs!
Unless I'm seriously missing something?
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"Women have a lot more erogenous zones than men, so it is easier for two straight men to pleasure one woman than two straight women and one man, but with the right people and the right approach, anything can be fun - except paying your taxes
True
Why do you think women have more erogenous zones than men?
I'd argue they have pretty much an equal number, the only difference being what's between their legs!
Unless I'm seriously missing something?
A"
I’d have agreed with that. An extra hole (very sensitive one), nipples (a lot of men don’t regularly ask for nipple play that I have met), breasts themselves? Hmm don’t know. Maybe not. Who knows. |
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"No different to mfm with straight guys.
Exactly
I think it’s easier for two women to pleasure one woman (boobs, extra hole etc) then two women on one man, especially if his dick is in use. But that’s just my opinion "
I take on this challenge. |
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"It’s more like a “taking turns” situation when one lady is bi and the other is straight. I’d rather just have one on one than having to wait my turn "
It doesn’t sound like you had the best first experience. But still, the experience gives you a sense of whether it does or doesn’t turn you on. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
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"Women have a lot more erogenous zones than men, so it is easier for two straight men to pleasure one woman than two straight women and one man, but with the right people and the right approach, anything can be fun - except paying your taxes
True
Why do you think women have more erogenous zones than men?
I'd argue they have pretty much an equal number, the only difference being what's between their legs!
Unless I'm seriously missing something?
A
I’d have agreed with that. An extra hole (very sensitive one), nipples (a lot of men don’t regularly ask for nipple play that I have met), breasts themselves? Hmm don’t know. Maybe not. Who knows."
But that extra hole replaces a dick (pretty damn sensitive), men have arseholes just like women, as well as nipples........and a mouth too.
The only anatomical difference is the cock vs pussy situation and less breast tissue.
I can imagine as many ways a straight FFM could go as I can a straight MFM. At the end of the day there's one person getting twice the attention they'd get in a 1-2-1 situation. Apart from that....little difference.
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"Women have a lot more erogenous zones than men, so it is easier for two straight men to pleasure one woman than two straight women and one man, but with the right people and the right approach, anything can be fun - except paying your taxes
True
Why do you think women have more erogenous zones than men?
I'd argue they have pretty much an equal number, the only difference being what's between their legs!
Unless I'm seriously missing something?
A
I’d have agreed with that. An extra hole (very sensitive one), nipples (a lot of men don’t regularly ask for nipple play that I have met), breasts themselves? Hmm don’t know. Maybe not. Who knows.
But that extra hole replaces a dick (pretty damn sensitive), men have arseholes just like women, as well as nipples........and a mouth too.
The only anatomical difference is the cock vs pussy situation and less breast tissue.
I can imagine as many ways a straight FFM could go as I can a straight MFM. At the end of the day there's one person getting twice the attention they'd get in a 1-2-1 situation. Apart from that....little difference.
A"
Yeah I agree with that. I guess it might not be that obvious though if you’re just not that into the vibe. |
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