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over a year ago
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Would you let your wife play while she away on a hen doo? I have always said that we only play when each other is there and I'm going to stick to that this time but I still love the thought of her with another guy/woman.........but I also think because she isn't here if anything went wrong and I wasn't there to help her I wouldn't forgive myself x |
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Ive not got a wife so can’t really comment but I think your point is a fair one , sometimes you gotta just make sure that you know it’s safe and probably best that way
But like I said I can’t really comment haha |
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The bride to be lol mental......tbh i would classify it as cheating if she done it, if she called and asked I would be ok with her asking but would still say no unless it was just her and another woman playing lol FF works for me everytime |
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Oddly enough I'd be in a way more OK with it if we were entering a sexually Monogamous marriage. Then it would seem a perfect righteous right of passage. I wouldn't want her to miss out on a last fling (and be reminded that her future husband is so much better in bed). However when you have a partner who has her lone adventures out and is free to before and after marriage its seems unnecessary maybe. |
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"Oddly enough I'd be in a way more OK with it if we were entering a sexually Monogamous marriage. Then it would seem a perfect righteous right of passage. I wouldn't want her to miss out on a last fling (and be reminded that her future husband is so much better in bed). However when you have a partner who has her lone adventures out and is free to before and after marriage its seems unnecessary maybe."
No we only get excited when the other is excited and we enjoy allowing others into our home for fun...but never separate. I wouldn't want to be with another woman unless my wife was there to see it and feel it etc |
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"Oddly enough I'd be in a way more OK with it if we were entering a sexually Monogamous marriage. Then it would seem a perfect righteous right of passage. I wouldn't want her to miss out on a last fling (and be reminded that her future husband is so much better in bed). However when you have a partner who has her lone adventures out and is free to before and after marriage its seems unnecessary maybe.
No we only get excited when the other is excited and we enjoy allowing others into our home for fun...but never separate. I wouldn't want to be with another woman unless my wife was there to see it and feel it etc "
It doesn’t sound like your wife would want to sleep with someone else on the hen doo then if this is the case or does she feel differently to you regarding wanting to be with someone without you being there? You did say you love the idea of her being with someone else so if she was she’d know it would excite you so that would get her excited…. |
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"Oddly enough I'd be in a way more OK with it if we were entering a sexually Monogamous marriage. Then it would seem a perfect righteous right of passage. I wouldn't want her to miss out on a last fling (and be reminded that her future husband is so much better in bed). However when you have a partner who has her lone adventures out and is free to before and after marriage its seems unnecessary maybe.
No we only get excited when the other is excited and we enjoy allowing others into our home for fun...but never separate. I wouldn't want to be with another woman unless my wife was there to see it and feel it etc
It doesn’t sound like your wife would want to sleep with someone else on the hen doo then if this is the case or does she feel differently to you regarding wanting to be with someone without you being there? You did say you love the idea of her being with someone else so if she was she’d know it would excite you so that would get her excited…."
No she doesn't want to sleep with someone else on the hen lol it was just more of a 'what if' type of question....because I love seeing and hearing her with other guys and if I was in my own house I'd let her go upstairs with them known I'll be up shortly lol |
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