What's the best most realistic swinger porn online that's actually like a real swinger party/club , want to get a Idea what a club is like before I attend one nervous about going for the first time and not knowing what to expect |
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"Cool thanks just wanted get a Idea what happens etc etc it's a bit nerv raking not knowing what to expect "
Not knowing what to expect is part of the fun!
Knowing how to behave before going is the vital bit. |
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I don't think there is such porn that's like a club.... or infact every porn vid is like a swingers club.
Don't go with something specific in mind.... it's like w pub where sex is occurring in public and private rooms... oh and you may turn round and it be going on in the same room |
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That's the reason I'm trying find out abit more about how the night goes at a club we can all behave are self's but like how do you no when it's okay to make a move on someone there , just want to watch if possible the closest thing to a real party out there so I have a Idea thanks |
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Just chat and socialise .... you'll get the feeling if someone's interested or they may offer.
Or you can offer ... like saying ... 'fancy finding a room'
Either of you can say no and that's all cool.
If there's a public scene going on... watch- they wanna be watched else they'd be in private. But give them a little space to not over crowd. And mostly it is ok to self play there - just don't spray the performers   |
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I have come across some porn labelled as "swingers parties/clubs". However, they are nowhere near showing what actually happens.
If you can find it, look for Channel 4 "Swingers" documentary- it would give you a slight insight into the world of swinging club. It's not a true reflection of what club's night looks like as the people there were chosen from however many applicants by the TV crew not just ones who turned up for the event. But it shows main parts of swingers club- the chatting/socialising part, then the (potentially) playing part. Or just relaxing part. |
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"That's the reason I'm trying find out abit more about how the night goes at a club we can all behave are self's but like how do you no when it's okay to make a move on someone there , just want to watch if possible the closest thing to a real party out there so I have a Idea thanks "
There is this old-fashioned way called "talking to people"? That's how I would usually know. |
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"That's the reason I'm trying find out abit more about how the night goes at a club we can all behave are self's but like how do you no when it's okay to make a move on someone there , just want to watch if possible the closest thing to a real party out there so I have a Idea thanks "
It's the same as non swingers do. Like in a pub or nightclub. People chat, flirt.
If they like each other they may go home together after the pub. The only difference in a swinger club is they can just go to a room and fuck rather than going elsewhere.
There are private rooms with doors, or public rooms where people can watch the people fucking.
The 'beds' are usually covered in a plastic material as a normal bed with sheets would get very wet and sticky and pretty disgusting.
Clean up any mess after you have finished. Don't leave nasty wet patches or used condoms laying around like a teenager's bedroom. Be respectful.
No means no. That's for anyone you talk to and you can say no too. It's not a free for all. You shouldn't touch without asking. Don't just grab a woman's body.
Treat people like you would in a pub. Be respectful and friendly.
Men pay a lot more than women and couples to get into clubs but that doesn't guarantee sex. It's not a brothel. Swingers are just people who like sex. Not free prostitutes.
First time, I'd suggest just going to have a look. Chat to people. Watch people fuck. See what it's like. Walk around the club.
Some people are wary of men in clubs because some get grabby and rude and expect sex. So if people are wary of you don't be surprised. Just be aware and friendly and don't be a dick. And have a fun time.  |
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