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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A definite requirement or else there’s no spark. It is so sensual to see your partner kiss somebody else - such a horny first step and even better during sex.
Goes along with of course we love oral and definitely fuck on the first date. |
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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago
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Kissing is great. From the peck on the cheek knowing things could get steamier, to the full on passionate deep kissing while hands wander. To the teasing of little bites on the lips and hands round heads kissing roughly while you ride him, or her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It just makes it so clinical.
We tried it once and Mrs Magic lasted about 5mins into the meet before the kissing started. "
Actually I’ve done it during role play but this happened. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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In ten years of playing in clubs I have never, ever had a guy show the slightest hesitation in fucking me because I won't kiss him. The rhetoric here from men certainly doesn't match my experiences. On the other hand I thoroughly enjoy kissing other women. It's probably because I associate kissing men with romanticism, which I don't want while swinging, but although I enjoy sex with women I don't have romantic feelings for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In ten years of playing in clubs I have never, ever had a guy show the slightest hesitation in fucking me because I won't kiss him. The rhetoric here from men certainly doesn't match my experiences. On the other hand I thoroughly enjoy kissing other women. It's probably because I associate kissing men with romanticism, which I don't want while swinging, but although I enjoy sex with women I don't have romantic feelings for them."
Same. I’ve never, EVER been turned down or had any negative responses for not kissing. It’s strange reading all the “no kissing, no meet” comments as that has definitely never been my experience  |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Kissing is great. From the peck on the cheek knowing things could get steamier, to the full on passionate deep kissing while hands wander. To the teasing of little bites on the lips and hands round heads kissing roughly while you ride him, or her "
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"In ten years of playing in clubs I have never, ever had a guy show the slightest hesitation in fucking me because I won't kiss him. The rhetoric here from men certainly doesn't match my experiences. On the other hand I thoroughly enjoy kissing other women. It's probably because I associate kissing men with romanticism, which I don't want while swinging, but although I enjoy sex with women I don't have romantic feelings for them.
Same. I’ve never, EVER been turned down or had any negative responses for not kissing. It’s strange reading all the “no kissing, no meet” comments as that has definitely never been my experience "
Same here. Kissing for me requires and emotional connection, so is something I rarely do until I know people well, but I've never had anyone (men or couples) turn down a meet over it. I've had an occasional person try to kiss me during a meet despite having been told no kissing, they were politely reminded to respect all of my boundaries. |
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I kiss every where. But passionately kissing while in missionary is the best. When you're in that zone and time stops, you're deeply fucking and looking into her eyes and kissing, all hot & wet and sweaty. Those sessions, I love.
I love kissing women with nice full juicy lips. |
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Kissing and eye contact for me is very telling. So not only is it hot, it tells me if things are going to work out going forward.
I don't want to be with anyone who wouldn't kiss me. I know that's some people's thing and thats ok. But for me it's cold, not erotic and would make me feel used like I'm just some kind of sex toy with no human value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont understand why you would'nt"
Because some people don’t enjoy it.
Because some couples keep kissing for themselves.
Because some people have a preference not to.
Just because. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Dont understand why you would'nt
Because some people don’t enjoy it.
Because some couples keep kissing for themselves.
Because some people have a preference not to.
Just because. "
Exactly, you don't have to explain why you might not want anal, same sex play, pegging,water sports,bukkake or anything else. Why should kissing be different? Many on here mention passion and intimacy. I have enough of that with my partner, and I'm not here to date but have purely sexual fun. For those that don't understand it, you don't need to. It's my choice. |
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"Dont understand why you would'nt
Because some people don’t enjoy it.
Because some couples keep kissing for themselves.
Because some people have a preference not to.
Just because.
Exactly, you don't have to explain why you might not want anal, same sex play, pegging,water sports,bukkake or anything else. Why should kissing be different? Many on here mention passion and intimacy. I have enough of that with my partner, and I'm not here to date but have purely sexual fun. For those that don't understand it, you don't need to. It's my choice."
Yup, to each their own. Sex is psychological, it's primarily in the mind. The body don't care whether that skin cell is a mouth cell, pussy, dick, anus cell. To some, depending on the their life experiences/culture etc. that can mean a married woman talking to another man will cause the husband to totally blow his mind. To others watching their loving wife gangbanged by 20 guys leaving a sloppy mess while their balls have been caged up for a few weeks is just their monthly fix to get them in the mood for the following working week. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"It’s an absolute must for me! If the kissing doesn’t work, then there’s no point carrying on "
See I've had some mind blowing sex without any kissing, then after a few meets I've agreed to try kissing and it has completely ruined things.
Each to their own though!
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"It’s an absolute must for me! If the kissing doesn’t work, then there’s no point carrying on
See I've had some mind blowing sex without any kissing, then after a few meets I've agreed to try kissing and it has completely ruined things.
Each to their own though!
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Could you elaborate on how the kissing ruined things? Bad kisser? Turn off? Introduced deeper emotions?
I'd imagine like all things sexual. Disgust sensitivity probably plays a role. Scientifically speaking I believe the oral part of us is the least hygienic. You're better off sinking your face into someone's crotch or even their ass.  |
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I don't think the sex is so good without kissing & caressing the woman you are with. That said it's something you should clear with all involved before hand. The first couple i met a long time ago(not on here)she sucked my cock,i ate her pussy & then we started fucking all the time her partner watching & then she kissed me. He went bonkers,i thought he was going to hit me & he was a big chap. Allways check first but sex is just not the same without kissing or i don't think so anyway. |
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