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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case  "
It's an evolutionary thing, for the most part.
Fortunately, though, it's mostly a relativity issue. Meaning that women, on average, like their mates to be taller than them with a certain margin. And seeing as you can get women of all heights, then their preference will be for men of corresponding heights, too.
A lady who is 4'11 or 5'0 would be happy with a guy 5'5, whereas a lady who is 5'6 would prefer a guy who is perhaps 5'10 instead of the 5'5 guy.
It's all relative. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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An ex FWB was only an inch or so taller than me. I could never get past this- I was attracted to him, but I have a real weakness for men who are at least 6’3” tall….  like my current FWBs. Gorgeous  |
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case "
Well when they are nose to nose, his toes are in. - When they are toes to toes his nose is in. - When he is in, neither has any one to talk to. |
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One guy in our social group is quite short, he seems to do alright.
I think being short is one of those hooks people use to hang there lack of meets on. They pick something they can't change rather than accept the real reason for their lack of success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case "
On here (FAB). I find most profiles are looking for something I don’t quite fit. Am I generalising? Probably, but I’d agree op. Shorter men are not asked for on profiles often.  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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I think being short is one of those hooks people use to hang there lack of meets on. They pick something they can't change rather than accept the real reason for their lack of success."
I agree - plenty of opportunity to build a connection with someone on here before any physical "limitations " need to get in the way. |
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Its not just a hook up.....its sadly a fact. I am for a man very short. I really thought that people would be more open to accepting we are not all the same both on here and in the clubs. I feel I am preventing any further development for us as a couple. Sadly this is turning me away from both fab and the clubs....nothing worse than feeling like a reject |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not just a hook up.....its sadly a fact. I am for a man very short. I really thought that people would be more open to accepting we are not all the same both on here and in the clubs. I feel I am preventing any further development for us as a couple. Sadly this is turning me away from both fab and the clubs....nothing worse than feeling like a reject "
I’m only 5’3” so quite short. It doesn’t seem to matter as much for ladies. It must be so tough for shorter guys. One of my best friends is 5’2” and he has a really hard time as he’s constantly told he’s too short. No advice but you have your gorgeous lady so that’s a positive |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Its not just a hook up.....its sadly a fact. I am for a man very short. I really thought that people would be more open to accepting we are not all the same both on here and in the clubs. I feel I am preventing any further development for us as a couple. Sadly this is turning me away from both fab and the clubs....nothing worse than feeling like a reject "
On fab, people are looking for fantasies. That means looking for their ideal partner and not compromising. Things like height and physique tend to seem to rule a lot out, especially if we’re looking for a bias.
It’s not the case with everyone though and pretty much every person gets rejected daily for some aspect of themselves. The key is finding those that don’t hold those preconceptions, as there are many of them.
If you’re just using fab, try clubs and socials. Meet as many people as possible and you will find those that do accept you.
Try to remember that you can’t help genetics, it’s not *you* that they’re rejecting, it’s them adhering to their fantasies and those are two very different things |
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"Its not just a hook up.....its sadly a fact. I am for a man very short. I really thought that people would be more open to accepting we are not all the same both on here and in the clubs. I feel I am preventing any further development for us as a couple. Sadly this is turning me away from both fab and the clubs....nothing worse than feeling like a reject "
It's a tough world out there buddy. All I can say is don't let your height put you off whatever it is you want to do.
A is 5'5", yes, taller than you, but unfortunately we've had a fair few derogatory messages from men, women and couples regarding his height!
That's fine by us as it gives us an excuse to block them.
No one is going to be attracted to everyone, and that's something we accept. However it doesn't stop us putting ourselves out there, what's the worst that could happen, they say no? Nothings been lost has it.
That being said, height is not something that we even take a look at when it comes to potential playmates.
Keep your chin up, your doing fine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try to remember that you can’t help genetics, it’s not *you* that they’re rejecting, it’s them adhering to their fantasies and those are two very different things"
Top advise.
I would add. Although I tend to have a ‘type’, I certainly don’t only get attracted to those.
I didn’t log on here with I shopping list.  |
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"Its not just a hook up.....its sadly a fact. I am for a man very short. I really thought that people would be more open to accepting we are not all the same both on here and in the clubs. I feel I am preventing any further development for us as a couple. Sadly this is turning me away from both fab and the clubs....nothing worse than feeling like a reject
On fab, people are looking for fantasies. That means looking for their ideal partner and not compromising. Things like height and physique tend to seem to rule a lot out, especially if we’re looking for a bias.
It’s not the case with everyone though and pretty much every person gets rejected daily for some aspect of themselves. The key is finding those that don’t hold those preconceptions, as there are many of them.
If you’re just using fab, try clubs and socials. Meet as many people as possible and you will find those that do accept you.
Try to remember that you can’t help genetics, it’s not *you* that they’re rejecting, it’s them adhering to their fantasies and those are two very different things"
We have been to clubs.....same old story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 5’6” and haven’t really found it to be a problem. I had an ex who wouldn’t wear high heels but I didn’t find this out until after we broke up but that’s the only issue I’ve had. |
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We all have different likes and dislikes I prefer average and below average height men I’m not sure why I’m just not attracted to tall men .Not sure why your struggling in clubs as we see all types of people in clubs and everyone seems to enjoy.Could it be a confidence thing maybe ?. |
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Statistically I believe
Taller men do better for money, power, sex, happiness. Life is often easier.
Shorter may be in better relationships and often do live longer.
So it is much harder for shorter men, can correlate inches with salaries, but not without its perks. |
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Life's experiences and comments heard aimed at me through my life. I am clean, respectful, honest, hard working, not fat (not an adonis either) not bad looking, nice blue eyes, nice smile, enjoy a laugh.......4'11" don't know if its the reason ..... but seems to be a suspect |
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"Its not just a hook up.....its sadly a fact. I am for a man very short. I really thought that people would be more open to accepting we are not all the same both on here and in the clubs. I feel I am preventing any further development for us as a couple. Sadly this is turning me away from both fab and the clubs....nothing worse than feeling like a reject
On fab, people are looking for fantasies. That means looking for their ideal partner and not compromising. Things like height and physique tend to seem to rule a lot out, especially if we’re looking for a bias.
It’s not the case with everyone though and pretty much every person gets rejected daily for some aspect of themselves. The key is finding those that don’t hold those preconceptions, as there are many of them.
If you’re just using fab, try clubs and socials. Meet as many people as possible and you will find those that do accept you.
Try to remember that you can’t help genetics, it’s not *you* that they’re rejecting, it’s them adhering to their fantasies and those are two very different things
We have been to clubs.....same old story "
We're really sorry to hear that |
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My best friend is 5ft 3. He is struggling to date in the vanilla world. He’s a very successful man in all aspects of life aside dating.
He’s even had people get up and leave when they catch sight of him on a date.
He now makes his height very clear on his dating profiles and his matches and messages have dropped a lot.
I feel very sorry for him. I can also understand where prospective partners are coming from as my ex used to love my height. |
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"My best friend is 5ft 3. He is struggling to date in the vanilla world. He’s a very successful man in all aspects of life aside dating.
He’s even had people get up and leave when they catch sight of him on a date.
He now makes his height very clear on his dating profiles and his matches and messages have dropped a lot.
I feel very sorry for him. I can also understand where prospective partners are coming from as my ex used to love my height. "
People do not realise how much grief a shorter person gets and when it comes to short men on the "play" scene I might as well not bother. My head is held high knowing the beautiful Venus is my wife and she is my everything, we started the scene as a couple to add a bit extra in our lives....oh well maybe one day lol |
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"In my case I’m 5’9 and if I’m towering over a guy I just don’t feel sexy x "
Exactly this! Also, if the man's eyes are on the same level as my boobs, he's never going to pay any attention to what I say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Because most of them got little man syndrome & who wants that
....what is little man syndrome?
Is that a stereotypical reply?"
its called the “napoleon complex” look it up |
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" Because most of them got little man syndrome & who wants that
....what is little man syndrome?
Is that a stereotypical reply? its called the “napoleon complex” look it up "
I know what the napoleon complex is. What I asked was are you stereotyping all short men....not fair really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What has this got to do with this site. People are on here to have sexual fun not find a partner or a potential spouse.  "
Preference, just like it's yours to filter those over 55. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What has this got to do with this site. People are on here to have sexual fun not find a partner or a potential spouse. "
People want to find fun with people they find physically attractive
Height is a factor in that attraction to alot of people |
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case "
I honestly couldn't care less about a man's height... nor do I care about penis size.
Negativity is far more off-putting to me.
I like positive friendly people.
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I'm 5ft 10in and I'm sorry but we're not all the same height lying down. I don't find men much smaller than me attractive, being outnumbered on here means I can choose, so it's great. My old boss had short man syndrome and couldn't stand me being 4 inches taller than him, so probably that's what's put me off fancying short men |
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"What has this got to do with this site. People are on here to have sexual fun not find a partner or a potential spouse. "
There still has to be attraction and height does matter to many.
Instead of focusing on something you cannot change... be friendly and positive and see what happens.
Maybe try different clubs where there's different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case "
I feel your pain. Both short our side. 5.7 & 5.1 and a bit. |
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"Tried being friendly, tried focusing on positives only to be left feeling the same. I simply asked the question to see if it was in my head.....and obviously its not"
You're clearly only interested in the views that validate your negative view.
I don't care about height and nor do some others who have posted.
If Fab and swinging isn't working for you, maybe take some time out. |
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"Tried being friendly, tried focusing on positives only to be left feeling the same. I simply asked the question to see if it was in my head.....and obviously its not
You're clearly only interested in the views that validate your negative view.
I don't care about height and nor do some others who have posted.
If Fab and swinging isn't working for you, maybe take some time out."
I do listen to all points of view. All I answered was I have tried all you mentioned and sadly I am still the one left feeling demoralised. |
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"Tried being friendly, tried focusing on positives only to be left feeling the same. I simply asked the question to see if it was in my head.....and obviously its not"
It's not in your head , it's real.
I don't get why you seem surprised/frustrated by other people's preferences.
In a comment earlier a lady said that
She preferred 5ft 8 in to 6ft. And taller than that was too tall. Its their choice.to most women extreme lack of height isn't attractive. Neither is obesity , baldness , etc.
Your lucky to have all your other positive attributes . |
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Thankyou for the replys to my husbands post. Im a very strong and positive person and try not to judge people on there opinions. Unfortunately we do live in a stereotypical world. Hopefully one day on here we will find the right balance. Venus |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think your problem OP will be that at 4’11” you are going to be quite a bit shorter than most ladies. I’ve been out with a guy who was 5’5”ish, just a smidge taller than me and I just couldn’t get around the fact that he was quite short for a man, even though he was taller than me.
I definitely wouldn’t consider someone shorter than me. I do prefer guys around 6 foot but they can be slightly shorter if the attraction is there. |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case "
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it."
Women don’t need to find “an excuse”. If there’s no attraction or they just don’t want to meet - that’s that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"…….
Women don’t need to find “an excuse”. If there’s no attraction or they just don’t want to meet - that’s that."
You don’t need one, but I’ll give you one anyway…
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case "
Not true
I went to a club recently and all the women were short… so were their partners. So they do like short men
I’m 5’7 and felt like a giant  |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it."
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh? |
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh? "
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS |
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"In my case I’m 5’9 and if I’m towering over a guy I just don’t feel sexy x "
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Exactly my thoughts
I like a man to make me feel small (physically not mentally) so men that are really tall and big built are my thing
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"In my case I’m 5’9 and if I’m towering over a guy I just don’t feel sexy x m
Exactly my thoughts
I like a man to make me feel small (physically not mentally) so men that are really tall and big built are my thing
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So danny davito is out of the race lol xxx |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh?
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS "
We are still conditioned to feel rude if we "reject" a man, for any reason... Yes, alot of women prefer taller men but until all people can just take "I don't find you attractive", or say it without feeling like a complete shit for it, then it will be used as an "excuse" even if it's untrue and even if the person they tell it too could just take that. People need to be ok with the truth, unfortunately, enough of the time, they aren't. |
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh?
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS
We are still conditioned to feel rude if we "reject" a man, for any reason... Yes, alot of women prefer taller men but until all people can just take "I don't find you attractive", or say it without feeling like a complete shit for it, then it will be used as an "excuse" even if it's untrue and even if the person they tell it too could just take that. People need to be ok with the truth, unfortunately, enough of the time, they aren't. "
I understand that totally.....this thread has become side tracked from my original question of "Why don't women like short men" but it has aired some views and opinions
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh?
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS
We are still conditioned to feel rude if we "reject" a man, for any reason... Yes, alot of women prefer taller men but until all people can just take "I don't find you attractive", or say it without feeling like a complete shit for it, then it will be used as an "excuse" even if it's untrue and even if the person they tell it too could just take that. People need to be ok with the truth, unfortunately, enough of the time, they aren't.
I understand that totally.....this thread has become side tracked from my original question of "Why don't women like short men" but it has aired some views and opinions
Mars"
It's preference like anything else.
Surely in your 40s you should be able to understand that |
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh?
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS
We are still conditioned to feel rude if we "reject" a man, for any reason... Yes, alot of women prefer taller men but until all people can just take "I don't find you attractive", or say it without feeling like a complete shit for it, then it will be used as an "excuse" even if it's untrue and even if the person they tell it too could just take that. People need to be ok with the truth, unfortunately, enough of the time, they aren't.
I understand that totally.....this thread has become side tracked from my original question of "Why don't women like short men" but it has aired some views and opinions
Mars
It's preference like anything else.
Surely in your 40s you should be able to understand that "
There are things in life I don't like, that is my preference and I can also tell you the reasons I don't like them which is where my question is aimed.
I put this post on here not to cause any offence or arguments, there has been plenty of people who understood the question and answered honestly without sarcasm. Some others cannot grasp that!
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By *age500Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh?
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS
We are still conditioned to feel rude if we "reject" a man, for any reason... Yes, alot of women prefer taller men but until all people can just take "I don't find you attractive", or say it without feeling like a complete shit for it, then it will be used as an "excuse" even if it's untrue and even if the person they tell it too could just take that. People need to be ok with the truth, unfortunately, enough of the time, they aren't.
I understand that totally.....this thread has become side tracked from my original question of "Why don't women like short men" but it has aired some views and opinions
Mars
It's preference like anything else.
Surely in your 40s you should be able to understand that
There are things in life I don't like, that is my preference and I can also tell you the reasons I don't like them which is where my question is aimed.
I put this post on here not to cause any offence or arguments, there has been plenty of people who understood the question and answered honestly without sarcasm. Some others cannot grasp that!
Mars"
I can’t speak for everyone. But personally I prefer taller men because they make me feel more feminine. Also to be brutally honest (no offence intended) if a man I have been speaking to reveals he’s short, it’s an instant turn off for me. No it’s not fair but it also not a choice I consciously make…everyone finds different things attractive and unattractive |
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"Why do I always get the feeling women don't like short men .... it always seems to be the case
Women will always find an excuse if they don't want to be with a guy. Height is an issue for most females as they want a guy to be taller as they feel safer but you can be 6ft plus and then it'll be your not my type, i don't like guys who are not tonned,I'm not attracted to hairy guys or guys with no hair etc etc etc. If you was 5ft and had an 8inc cock they would still find an excuse. So don't worry about it.
It's not an excuse, it is meant to get rid of you because we feel we can't just say we aren't interested without getting some shite back... So, tell you a reason you can't/won't change, done... Not! Clearly nothing is allowed if it means you aren't going to get what you want, eh?
In the swinging seen I can agree with this if the person is single as there can be some pushy guys on here.
But when a man is on here in a joint profile with his wife or partner its different usually if you say your not interested there isnt any back lash not has I have found anyway. VENUS
We are still conditioned to feel rude if we "reject" a man, for any reason... Yes, alot of women prefer taller men but until all people can just take "I don't find you attractive", or say it without feeling like a complete shit for it, then it will be used as an "excuse" even if it's untrue and even if the person they tell it too could just take that. People need to be ok with the truth, unfortunately, enough of the time, they aren't.
I understand that totally.....this thread has become side tracked from my original question of "Why don't women like short men" but it has aired some views and opinions
Mars
It's preference like anything else.
Surely in your 40s you should be able to understand that
There are things in life I don't like, that is my preference and I can also tell you the reasons I don't like them which is where my question is aimed.
I put this post on here not to cause any offence or arguments, there has been plenty of people who understood the question and answered honestly without sarcasm. Some others cannot grasp that!
Mars
I can’t speak for everyone. But personally I prefer taller men because they make me feel more feminine. Also to be brutally honest (no offence intended) if a man I have been speaking to reveals he’s short, it’s an instant turn off for me. No it’s not fair but it also not a choice I consciously make…everyone finds different things attractive and unattractive"
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