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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve always wanted my gf too get fucked by a huge cock infront of me, but always afraid to tell her how I feel in case she thinks it’s weird or I don’t want her, I would love to see her cream on a bbc and have a mmf, if any couples or ladies can help me out tell me the best way to approach her on the situation maybe my fantasies can come true then thanks guys happy fabbing |
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What about her fantasies op sounds like it's all about what you want.
Has she ever talked about wanting to fuck other men ?
Communicate with her,ask her if she has any fantasy's she wants to try and go from there |
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Dude,
If there is one thing I have learned on this site and in life, it's women are kinkier than men.
When it's hot and heavy, pitch the idea on the offhand. If she looks utterly mortified you'll get your answer, anything else is at least curiosity. |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
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"So I’ve always wanted my gf too get fucked by a huge cock infront of me, but always afraid to tell her how I feel in case she thinks it’s weird or I don’t want her, I would love to see her cream on a bbc and have a mmf, if any couples or ladies can help me out tell me the best way to approach her on the situation maybe my fantasies can come true then thanks guys happy fabbing"
I mean, I'm not a couple or a lady, but I am still a human with a sexual brain in my head, so I guess I'll try and help you out regardless...
Okay so step one is to talk to her about sex and gauge where she stands on it generally. Things like; How is your sex life together, in general? Is she very vanilla / traditional? Or is she more open minded, adventurous, and kinky? That sort of thing.
Step two is (more talking, sorry!) having conversations with her about your sexual desires and fantasies, and also asking her to share hers as well. This level of openness and vulnerability is important for building intimacy and trust between you.
This can lead to step three, which is actively involving or including the discussed desires or fantasies in your sex life. Things like watching certain kinds of porn together, again to gauge how she feels about it / level of interest. A lot of couples start by using dirty talk in describing certain scenarios whilst having sex, etc. Again this can trigger and / or build a level of desire to make these things more of a reality down the line.
If all of that goes well, then step four is to actually make the suggestion to her and see how she feels / what she thinks about it. These steps and these conversations may take days, weeks, months, etc to develop to that stage, be aware of that. Sometimes these things can be brought up and it's a no at the time, but the seed is planted and she may come back to the idea down the line.
Or, at the merest mention or hint from you of her being a hotwife (or hotgirlfriend, rather) may result with her jumping wholeheartedly and enthusiastically at you as she also has those desires but was too afriad to ask you. You never know!
Good luck and all the best on your journey!  |
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Just say you had a dream where someone fucked her with a massive cock and you thought it was pretty hot. If she says she’s not into it, you just say it’s fine, was just a dream. She might surprise you. Fantasy talk can lead somewhere or elsewhere. You never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I’ve always wanted my gf too get fucked by a huge cock infront of me, but always afraid to tell her how I feel in case she thinks it’s weird or I don’t want her, I would love to see her cream on a bbc and have a mmf, if any couples or ladies can help me out tell me the best way to approach her on the situation maybe my fantasies can come true then thanks guys happy fabbing
I mean, I'm not a couple or a lady, but I am still a human with a sexual brain in my head, so I guess I'll try and help you out regardless...
Okay so step one is to talk to her about sex and gauge where she stands on it generally. Things like; How is your sex life together, in general? Is she very vanilla / traditional? Or is she more open minded, adventurous, and kinky? That sort of thing.
Step two is (more talking, sorry!) having conversations with her about your sexual desires and fantasies, and also asking her to share hers as well. This level of openness and vulnerability is important for building intimacy and trust between you.
This can lead to step three, which is actively involving or including the discussed desires or fantasies in your sex life. Things like watching certain kinds of porn together, again to gauge how she feels about it / level of interest. A lot of couples start by using dirty talk in describing certain scenarios whilst having sex, etc. Again this can trigger and / or build a level of desire to make these things more of a reality down the line.
If all of that goes well, then step four is to actually make the suggestion to her and see how she feels / what she thinks about it. These steps and these conversations may take days, weeks, months, etc to develop to that stage, be aware of that. Sometimes these things can be brought up and it's a no at the time, but the seed is planted and she may come back to the idea down the line.
Or, at the merest mention or hint from you of her being a hotwife (or hotgirlfriend, rather) may result with her jumping wholeheartedly and enthusiastically at you as she also has those desires but was too afriad to ask you. You never know!
Good luck and all the best on your journey! "
I think if his “girlfriend” was open to doing any of his fantasies they would have a couples profile - the fact he has a single profile says it all  |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
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"I think if his “girlfriend” was open to doing any of his fantasies they would have a couples profile - the fact he has a single profile says it all "
I think you've gotta at least give people a chance to get there, first.
"always afriad to tell her how I feel in case she thinks it's weird or I don't want her" - a fairly common barrier / stumbling block for people wanting to open up about this sort of thing / lifestyle, I would think. No? |
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"Dude,
If there is one thing I have learned on this site and in life, it's women are kinkier than men.
When it's hot and heavy, pitch the idea on the offhand. If she looks utterly mortified you'll get your answer, anything else is at least curiosity."
I have to totally disagree with that. If women were as “kinky” as men, why isn’t there a balance in numbers on here? |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
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"I have to totally disagree with that. If women were as “kinky” as men, why isn’t there a balance in numbers on here?"
Well for what it's worth, my (abiet limited) experience of being in the BDSM community has taught me that, given the right circumstances and evironment - i.e. female empowered spaces that are sexually liberated that provide safety, comfort and acceptance - the ladies are indeed dirtier than the gents, on average. |
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By *erces LetiferMan
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"I have to totally disagree with that. If women were as “kinky” as men, why isn’t there a balance in numbers on here?"
I forgot to add, just looking at the numbers can be misleading here, as I doubt a lot of the single men on here are actually into the BDSM lifestyle or are even that kinky, but rather using it as just another online site / app to try and get their leg over. |
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Just be honest. I've only been with men but always been attracted to women and wanted to experience but never wanted to tell mr. 10 years later I told him his response was OK try it. I was shocked. I don't want to do it without him hence why we are on here.
What I'm saying is you will never know what she might say unless you mention it. Hope this helped
Would like to hear outcome if you choose to do so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to totally disagree with that. If women were as “kinky” as men, why isn’t there a balance in numbers on here?
Well for what it's worth, my (abiet limited) experience of being in the BDSM community has taught me that, given the right circumstances and evironment - i.e. female empowered spaces that are sexually liberated that provide safety, comfort and acceptance - the ladies are indeed dirtier than the gents, on average."
100%. I think I'm kinky, until I realise that we hit my boundaries long before we hit hers.
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There’s a fair few ways you could approach it depending how obvious/discreet you want to be? Suggest watching porn one night and ‘randomly’ find a big cock video. Order a dildo as a treat and explain you must of ordered a bigger one without realising and see how she reacts. A dirty novel to read together maybe? I was just honest about it with mrs and slipped in some dirty talk about it while she was really turned on. It’s only you that knows how kinky she is already in your sex life. |
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