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"Just added more photos"
Still no. If you think cock pics and spunking cock pics are what women crave, then you're clearly not in tune with what swinging is about.
Bit like buying a car... It may have a 600hp engine, but if it handles badly, looks crap and doesn't stop when needed.. You ain't gonna buy it are you? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Just added more photos
Still no. If you think cock pics and spunking cock pics are what women crave, then you're clearly not in tune with what swinging is about.
Bit like buying a car... It may have a 600hp engine, but if it handles badly, looks crap and doesn't stop when needed.. You ain't gonna buy it are you? "
This! |
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I guess I need to forget this site then as I've been single for 20+ years and I'm 40 years old and had sex 4 times in my life.i was just asking what people thought of me and who would play and I got NOS all round |
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"I guess I need to forget this site then as I've been single for 20+ years and I'm 40 years old and had sex 4 times in my life.i was just asking what people thought of me and who would play and I got NOS all round"
You did ask |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I guess I need to forget this site then as I've been single for 20+ years and I'm 40 years old and had sex 4 times in my life.i was just asking what people thought of me and who would play and I got NOS all round"
Your profile is essentially completely blank, your photos are not appealing, If anything they are a turn off.
Either put a lot more effort into your profile and your pictures... You have to sell yourself and at the moment you're not, you're doing the equivalent of being a single potato sitting on a supermarket shelf, hidden behind half a dozen tasty cakes and things saying 'i might as well give up'
Put effort into your profile, head to a local social or club |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"I am just curious who would play with me as it's been on my mind for a while now check out my photos and let me know"
Profile is extremely dull and gives no indication as to who you are or what you like/enjoy or looking for. Basically you can accommodate during the week only come fuck me...yawn |
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"I guess I need to forget this site then as I've been single for 20+ years and I'm 40 years old and had sex 4 times in my life.i was just asking what people thought of me and who would play and I got NOS all round"
It would be no from me too, same as the other posters. There are loads of helpful & constructive threads if you want to improve it.
1 or 2 tasteful photos is better than more less-appealing ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice,I've decided to leave the site as I'm no good in selling myself or taking photos or anything like that."
I feel bad now. Just look at it from a woman’s perspective. Would you meet someone based on 5 cock picks and 4 sentences of a profile?
You have to stand out from everyone else on here and your profile doesn’t do that. Surely you’ve got more to offer than your cock? Show that in your pics. Surely you’ve got more to say about yourself and what you offer than a few bland sentences? |
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"I've made changes to my profile just now does it sound better and I've added a photo of me
The bio is much better!! I think maybe hide the jizzy jonny pic. Just a thought? "
Done I've hidden the photo |
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"I've made changes to my profile just now does it sound better and I've added a photo of me
The bio is much better!! I think maybe hide the jizzy jonny pic. Just a thought?
Done I've hidden the photo"
 good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Picture a scenario….
You’re out shopping/browsing. Which shops do you choose to go into? The one with the bare, uninspiring window display, or the one that’s got a wide selection of the wares on offer inside, attractively displayed?
Your profile is your metaphorical ‘shop window’ to the folk of Fab’.
Look at your profile and ask yourself “would I meet this person?” |
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I love that there’s so many people helping you out. Restores the faith that there are some good, genuine people on here.
I’ve taken a look and your profile looks great, I can’t speak for how improved it is as I didn’t see it earlier but it sure looks awesome now!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair play OP, I thought when I read the first post this was going to be a one way ticket to an absolute bashing, but you took it as is was meant and have taken points on board and for that I would buy you a pint ha ha, don't get me wrong my profile is probably seen as being shite so I'm not one to give advice, but credit where credit due fella |
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Damnnnn you lot are harsh!! Glad to see it got more constructive as the thread went on. And you have taken the advice onboard.
Just remember you won't appeal to everyone, nobody does, so just be yourself and see who you click with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
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Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks everyone u have been so kind and helpful,photos next to sort out"
I can only comment on your current profile.
But first...... Congratulations on whatever you've done to improve it. The positive comments suggest it's been a massive change, and we'll done for turning the negativity into a positive.
So many men ask for help, argue, don't listen and do nothing. You've done the exact opposite. Kudos.
So, the biog. Not the worst we've seen, short, sweet and to the point.
The photos.... as you've said yourself, they need improving. If you're using a mobile phone use the timer. Take dozens of pics and eventually you'll get the ones you want.
Personally I found sorting my photos out the biggest challenge and hardest work.
Good luck, keep at it and don't get disheartened.
Fab is a tough place for single men at times.
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you "
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston"
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones  |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones "
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day? |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?"
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you "
There's a way to stick up fir someone without being rude and throwing insults. |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you
There's a way to stick up fir someone without being rude and throwing insults."
By saying 'dont take advice off half the morons' if you've taken insult to that then your within that half unfortunately. |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you
There's a way to stick up fir someone without being rude and throwing insults.
By saying 'dont take advice off half the morons' if you've taken insult to that then your within that half unfortunately."
I didn't take offence to it but that doesn't change the fact that calling people 'morons' and 'stuck up day dreamers' are insults lol
That's like basic English lol |
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You've changed your bio OP, and it reads a lot better.
As for your photo, it makes you look old and fat and frumpy.
Top top.. If you're taking a selfie, hold the camera/phone in front of you and hold it up high so you look up at it.. This will prevent you looking like a shar-pei dog with 8 chins! It will stretch your neck and jowls removing wrinkles. Put on a clean, white ironed shirt, comb your hair, and smile. Look like you're presenting yourself for something more important than a crimewatch line-up.
Hope this helps.
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you
There's a way to stick up fir someone without being rude and throwing insults.
By saying 'dont take advice off half the morons' if you've taken insult to that then your within that half unfortunately."
I think you'll find that I've been supportive of the OP and not made any derogatory comments towards him. I've offered genuine and sincere advice and wished him well.
Look closer and you'll see it wasn't me who made the "Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers" comment.
That poster is the chap I was replying to; he has a history of this type of rude and bitter comment.
As for me as a single male getting meets, my single male profile speaks for itself.
Winston
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you "
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence. "
There should be an irony emoji.. 
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.
There should be an irony emoji..
Winston "
(Iron) Worth a try  |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence. "
That's not a grammatically correct sentence either? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.
That's not a grammatically correct sentence either? "
I’m not calling anyone a moron though. |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.
That's not a grammatically correct sentence either?
I’m not calling anyone a moron though. "
Why are you taking offense to it? I'm seriously intrigued. I said 'half the morons' if it was me I'd just skip past and say 'obviously not me ' the fact you've taken offense to it means you must feel like a bit of a moron? It wasn't aimed at you either by the way so not sure why you have. |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.
That's not a grammatically correct sentence either?
I’m not calling anyone a moron though.
Why are you taking offense to it? I'm seriously intrigued. I said 'half the morons' if it was me I'd just skip past and say 'obviously not me ' the fact you've taken offense to it means you must feel like a bit of a moron? It wasn't aimed at you either by the way so not sure why you have. "
Where have I taken offence? I was just pointing out the irony in your comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.
That's not a grammatically correct sentence either?
I’m not calling anyone a moron though.
Why are you taking offense to it? I'm seriously intrigued. I said 'half the morons' if it was me I'd just skip past and say 'obviously not me ' the fact you've taken offense to it means you must feel like a bit of a moron? It wasn't aimed at you either by the way so not sure why you have. "
In the same way you took offence at a comment that wasn't made to you.
Where the fucks that irony emoji!!!!!!!!
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Calling people morons and can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence.
There should be an irony emoji..
Winston
(Iron) Worth a try "
Brave effort.
(iron)
(IRON)
Nope, me neither.
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We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand |
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"We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand "
This. ^
Lots of people ask for a helping hand, then slap it aside.
This chap has embraced the help he's asked for. We're all a work in progress are we not?
Kudos to the OP and to yourselves.
This sort of thing makes my face do this
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"We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand "
Aww that’s amazing of you! You are very kind helping him
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"We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand "
And my personal faith in the forums has been fully restored so kudos to you two.
Best of luck op and always remember that even in our darkest hour a light shines for all of us somewhere and even amongst the “look at me”
Posters there are some that see past what others can not be bothered to see and keep that chin held high and just life your best life.
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"We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand "
Kind hearts! |
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"We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand "
You guys xx this is awesome, we need more of you!!
(Was tempted to offer you a job if you lived closer, need more people like you in my world!!)
Good luck OP, you’ve got this |
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"We reached out to the OP and helped him rewrite his bio, we are also helping with photo ideas over the weekend - he’s a really nice chap to chat to & has had a shitty few of years (covid notwithstanding) in his personal life.
Onwards & upwards so to speak, he has taken all advice & criticism like an adult acknowledging where he was going wrong.
Hopefully he’ll get the chance to meet some great people on fab at an organised social (we are looking for the closest one to him at the moment) as there are great people here, some may not agree on all aspects of that but that is life.
Sometimes all you need is a helping hand "
Awesome well done you two beautiful people x |
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"I am amazed at how nice and kind people I'm greatful for all the advice and help I have received."
It's not always this nice. However, you come across as genuine, decent and appreciative of the advice and support you've been given.
And someone who's prepared to make a real effort.
That goes a long way.
You'll get there, well played so far.
Good luck to you OP.
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Good luck OP and well done for taking the criticism and advice on board. Big shout out to all those who have given positive advice and got in touch with the OP and offered help some very kind people on here if you can find them.
Only advice i seem to get is " this site isnt for the likes of you,pee off and leave" or words to the effect of and although im a big boy now and can handle the abuse it kind of wears you down after awhile, but hey ho it is what it is. |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you
There's a way to stick up fir someone without being rude and throwing insults.
By saying 'dont take advice off half the morons' if you've taken insult to that then your within that half unfortunately.
I think you'll find that I've been supportive of the OP and not made any derogatory comments towards him. I've offered genuine and sincere advice and wished him well.
Look closer and you'll see it wasn't me who made the "Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers" comment.
That poster is the chap I was replying to; he has a history of this type of rude and bitter comment.
As for me as a single male getting meets, my single male profile speaks for itself.
Winston
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Was this aimed at me?
Cause I've not replied to a single one of your comments on this thread. |
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"This is a very harsh place do not let it get you down.
Agreed. Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers. You keep doing you
Still not getting any meets then?
Winston
More than you'd get as a single male so I'd not throw any stones
Your attitude isn't very nice, are you having a bad day?
No, was just sticking up for the OP after some bizzarely nasty and unsupportive comments. If anyone thinks I'm bad for that then it says more about you
There's a way to stick up fir someone without being rude and throwing insults.
By saying 'dont take advice off half the morons' if you've taken insult to that then your within that half unfortunately.
I think you'll find that I've been supportive of the OP and not made any derogatory comments towards him. I've offered genuine and sincere advice and wished him well.
Look closer and you'll see it wasn't me who made the "Don't take advice off half the morons on here mate their all stuck up daydreamers" comment.
That poster is the chap I was replying to; he has a history of this type of rude and bitter comment.
As for me as a single male getting meets, my single male profile speaks for itself.
Winston
Was this aimed at me?
Cause I've not replied to a single one of your comments on this thread."
Good God no.
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