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I've used one during sessions with a play partner (i.e. not a regular partner) and we both found it highly erotic. My cock is on the generous side (honest!) and having it locked up and effectively useless changes the dynamic very nicely. I use my hands and mouth a lot anyway, but being caged really puts the focus on her pleasure. On occasion she would tie me to the bed, caged, and pleasure herself in front of me - my cock unable to rise to the occasion!
I guess it would be different in a relationship - probably with the man being locked up for periods of time - but I can certainly recommend it. |
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I Sasha, am locked pretty much permanently and have spent most of our married life that way. Just had a new cage for my birthday which is snug and really ticks things away. If I’m honest lost without it, it reminds me (along with the tattoos) of dommes ownership! Very rarely unlocked, twice three times a year maybe and for short periods, maybe a few hours.
The massive difference I’d say is the quality of submission… locked I’m unable to cum or play, I’m very attentive, etc. on release which always ends up with ejaculation I get tetchy.
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i wear often wear one and have worn one as part of couples play.
They can used in many different ways, from short little spells of teasing and frustration to wearing one for weeks before being pinned down and have the lady strip naked and play with the cage in a way that's extremely intense for the male.
For long term wear, getting one that fits well is key, not so much for short term play.
My ex said chastity coupled with pegging for her was one of the most powerful she's ever felt, so it can be a huge rush for the lady too.
But never forget the tease, that goes with the denial of chastity... the two work hand in hand  |
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Love mine (pics of some on profile). Giving up control and being denied is an amazing head-fuck.
Being caged under clothes outside is a real buzz especially at work. Sometimes knickers replace boxers for an extra dimension.
Keeps your mind focused on the key holder. Every steps reminds you of them. They always come first and release must be earned. |
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"Does anyone wear one?
What are the benefits for both sides of the couple ?"
Yes cuck is in longterm training with reduction in chastity size being part of. He gets to experience the sub side I enjoy the control side. Just another added element to our cuckold lifestyle. |
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Yes I've worn chastity cage since my first cuckold relationship whilst still at uni .
I'm submissive band loved been controlled fully not even been able to wank without permission. It was my gf idea when we changed from swinging to cuckold her bulls loved it too. |
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Love being in chastity, under my clothes when I go to work, so much fun.
I've been toying with the idea of wearing it to the gym (workout then swim and sauna)....anyone done that ? I'm nervous it'll show, especially in the pool / sauna  |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"There not fir me, but can I ask a cpl of questions, if you have not got the key, how do you go on for a wee and lastly can you get a hard on with one on. Sory if it sounds daft  "
Go for a wee as normal. Slightly easier sitting down tbh
As for a hard on if the cage fits correctly then no. Just a great feeling of frustration and restriction. Should never be any discomfort |
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"There not fir me, but can I ask a cpl of questions, if you have not got the key, how do you go on for a wee and lastly can you get a hard on with one on. Sory if it sounds daft
Go for a wee as normal. Slightly easier sitting down tbh
Thanks for that
As for a hard on if the cage fits correctly then no. Just a great feeling of frustration and restriction. Should never be any discomfort "
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"There not fir me, but can I ask a cpl of questions, if you have not got the key, how do you go on for a wee and lastly can you get a hard on with one on. Sory if it sounds daft
Go for a wee as normal. Slightly easier sitting down tbh
As for a hard on if the cage fits correctly then no. Just a great feeling of frustration and restriction. Should never be any discomfort "
agreed it does take a while to find correct fit but now it’s part of our everyday life |
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I've worn one for mrs N but it just doesn't float her boat. Not sure why but I think she like her man to be manly and not a cuck. Never mind eh. we can't have it all.
The dynamics of a cuck relationship just not mrs N's thing. We have played with friends though with me wearing and mates mrs is much more into it. It was a great laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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Not something I’d thought I’d be in to but the more I chat on here the more I think I’d like it.
Having my cock caged and not being able to play with it while watching my wife be naughty would be an awesome feeling I’m sure. |
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I own a couple of cock cages, although sadly it’s been far too long since I was locked up. The benefit for both parties is I’m incredibly attentive when locked, it means I can fully focus on giving her pleasure rather than being distracted by a hard throbbing cock.
Unfortunately my cages only get used on the male half of couples I play with. |
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C and I switch, and when she's in charge that almost always means chastity (amongst other things 😬).
She likes to have power over not just my orgasms, but erections as well. It's the best reminder there is that your pleasure belongs to someone else and that you're at their mercy.
As others have said though, there should be absolutely no pain (aside from a bit of pinching here and there). Any serious discomfort or if your balls go a worrying shade of purple, take it off straight away.
Peeing is best sat down, which is another kinky reminder that you're submitting to someone (it's a bit humiliating and emasculating being forced to sit to pee).
Cages can definitely be worn for longer periods, but common sense applies for things like cleaning and grooming. Some couples take this much more seriously though, and the keyholder will remove the cage and supervise cleaning before locking you straight back up.
In any case though there's still a lot of trust involved because for safety reasons you should *always* have access to a key for emergencies, and even then if you really want to cum with the cage on it is technically possible if not as pleasurable.
For us, C having me locked is a constant thing and we have several cages of different styles and sizes depending what she's going for. For example I have a small metal cage that she likes me to wear when she's fucking someone else so she can humiliate me by comparing my tiny caged cock to his.
There's all sorts of fun you can have with chastity and for anyone interested I'd highly recommend it! Especially for the ladies out there who'd love for their men to be super attentive and focus exclusively on their pleasure 😉 |
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"C and I switch, and when she's in charge that almost always means chastity (amongst other things 😬).
She likes to have power over not just my orgasms, but erections as well. It's the best reminder there is that your pleasure belongs to someone else and that you're at their mercy.
As others have said though, there should be absolutely no pain (aside from a bit of pinching here and there). Any serious discomfort or if your balls go a worrying shade of purple, take it off straight away.
Peeing is best sat down, which is another kinky reminder that you're submitting to someone (it's a bit humiliating and emasculating being forced to sit to pee).
Cages can definitely be worn for longer periods, but common sense applies for things like cleaning and grooming. Some couples take this much more seriously though, and the keyholder will remove the cage and supervise cleaning before locking you straight back up.
In any case though there's still a lot of trust involved because for safety reasons you should *always* have access to a key for emergencies, and even then if you really want to cum with the cage on it is technically possible if not as pleasurable.
For us, C having me locked is a constant thing and we have several cages of different styles and sizes depending what she's going for. For example I have a small metal cage that she likes me to wear when she's fucking someone else so she can humiliate me by comparing my tiny caged cock to his.
There's all sorts of fun you can have with chastity and for anyone interested I'd highly recommend it! Especially for the ladies out there who'd love for their men to be super attentive and focus exclusively on their pleasure 😉"
Great post although I have Mr locked permanent I selected a cage with good access for cleaning and use cream for hair removal it’s easier to apply and shower off |
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"Happy day 9 xxx
Hmm, not sure it's *happiness* I'm feeling exactly 
lol true x  "
Especially not this morning! The longer Locktober drags on, the hornier I get, and it changes from putting on a cage in the morning to wrestling with an erection whilst trying my best to think boring thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"C and I switch, and when she's in charge that almost always means chastity (amongst other things 😬).
She likes to have power over not just my orgasms, but erections as well. It's the best reminder there is that your pleasure belongs to someone else and that you're at their mercy.
As others have said though, there should be absolutely no pain (aside from a bit of pinching here and there). Any serious discomfort or if your balls go a worrying shade of purple, take it off straight away.
Peeing is best sat down, which is another kinky reminder that you're submitting to someone (it's a bit humiliating and emasculating being forced to sit to pee).
Cages can definitely be worn for longer periods, but common sense applies for things like cleaning and grooming. Some couples take this much more seriously though, and the keyholder will remove the cage and supervise cleaning before locking you straight back up.
In any case though there's still a lot of trust involved because for safety reasons you should *always* have access to a key for emergencies, and even then if you really want to cum with the cage on it is technically possible if not as pleasurable.
For us, C having me locked is a constant thing and we have several cages of different styles and sizes depending what she's going for. For example I have a small metal cage that she likes me to wear when she's fucking someone else so she can humiliate me by comparing my tiny caged cock to his.
There's all sorts of fun you can have with chastity and for anyone interested I'd highly recommend it! Especially for the ladies out there who'd love for their men to be super attentive and focus exclusively on their pleasure 😉Great post although I have Mr locked permanent I selected a cage with good access for cleaning and use cream for hair removal it’s easier to apply and shower off "
Oh wow I wish I had a woman to lick me up and control me |
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"Had anyone got any recommendations of good cages with larger rings forbthe balls? I have an issue finding one that fits that part?"
I've found the vice which has a double ring to stop anti slipping a good one google locked in lust , it's a little more expensive than others but worth it and if your working to a budget you can pay in instalments
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"Had anyone got any recommendations of good cages with larger rings forbthe balls? I have an issue finding one that fits that part?
House of denial and get one with hinge in the ring "
Just be careful - they pinch like a bastard |
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"Had anyone got any recommendations of good cages with larger rings forbthe balls? I have an issue finding one that fits that part?
House of denial and get one with hinge in the ring
Just be careful - they pinch like a bastard "
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By *arks2Couple 14 weeks ago
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Wanted to try a cage but didn't do much research and we bought this for Mr. Did we do the right thing ?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/chastity-devices/cock-cages-plugs/p/dominix-deluxe-chastity-cock-cage-3.5-inch/a37791g70012.html |
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We’ve been a cuckold couple pretty much all our marriage and been wearing a chasity cage off an on for the last 10 years.
Wearing one for everyday life can be awkward but to be honest I feel naked without it. |
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"Yes I’m a cuck and wear one ours is a rapture metal bird cage chastity it’s big which makes my pin cock even look smaller inside it always wear for meets and If wife goes out alone "
You sound like a good cuck |
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"Yes I’m a cuck and wear one ours is a rapture metal bird cage chastity it’s big which makes my pin cock even look smaller inside it always wear for meets and If wife goes out alone "
Hats off to a fellow cuck couple ! |
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"Wanted to try a cage but didn't do much research and we bought this for Mr. Did we do the right thing ?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/chastity-devices/cock-cages-plugs/p/dominix-deluxe-chastity-cock-cage-3.5-inch/a37791g70012.html"
it looks very small and severe 3.5 inches is so tiny does he look good in it warks couple |
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"Wanted to try a cage but didn't do much research and we bought this for Mr. Did we do the right thing ?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/chastity-devices/cock-cages-plugs/p/dominix-deluxe-chastity-cock-cage-3.5-inch/a37791g70012.html
it looks very small and severe 3.5 inches is so tiny does he look good in it warks couple"
Too big for my little one |
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