so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what? |
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Compliments are only genuine when you know someone. Telling a complete stranger they are the most beautiful thing on the planet isn't a compliment, especially when you've only seen their tits.
Men would get a lot more responses if they was just real rather than saying what they think we want to hear. |
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"so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what?"
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Don't assume women are seeking compliments or male approval, also don't assume women will meet you because you paid them a compliment, the connection has to work both ways. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what?"
Honesty, compliments are statements that are difficult to build a conversation on. What's the reply to "nice tits"?. You're far, far better off trying to talk about something the other person is interested in.
There's a LOT of people who like to either waste people's time stringing them along with no intention of meeting, but also a lot that lose their bottle and some that will book two or three at the same time and pick the "best" one. It's hard work sometimes.
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"so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what?"
It’s not a knock, it’s saving you time speaking to someone who isn’t interested. They’ve done you a favour  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
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"Use what’s written in their profile to ask questions and make jokes, give them a reason to reply."
Exactly this, OP. For example, if we were to message you first we'd ask about you being a bouncer, what kind of place you work at, ever "bounced" anyone interesting, etc?
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"so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what?"
Happens to us too, definitely worse than when we first joined some 8 years ago  . Let down three times in the last few weeks !. One ten minutes before setting off, another as we were driving to theirs !, a social where the woman looked NOTHING like her photos and so on ... It's not you, being a single guy doesn't help though (Tony has his own profile too so we see both sides). Keep going, it takes a massive amount of effort but there are some genuine and well mannered folk on here. |
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Very many fab members actively court compliments and enjoy receiving them. This doesn't mean that giving compliments will result in them having sex with you or even responding to your message.
People agreeing to meet them going quiet or blocking is frustrating and annoying though. It isn't just you, it seems to happen a lot |
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"Use what’s written in their profile to ask questions and make jokes, give them a reason to reply.
Exactly this, OP. For example, if we were to message you first we'd ask about you being a bouncer, what kind of place you work at, ever "bounced" anyone interesting, etc?
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100%. Also avoid closed questions or you’ll get closed answers. Give them something to elaborate on. |
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"People agreeing to meet them going quiet or blocking is frustrating and annoying though. It isn't just you, it seems to happen a lot
How do FAB admin propose to deal with this plague ?"
There's a report function for people who don't turn up but I don't see how fab admin can deal with people changing their minds |
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"so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what?"
I heard the best advice the other day.
"Be respectful, not deferential"
Talk to the person, not blow smoke up their arse  |
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"so you give compliments in a message or dont be rude but talk normally and nice and no reply comes. nothing at all, what a knock. on other hand had a few meets planned and then blocked or not spoken to . is it me or what?
I heard the best advice the other day.
"Be respectful, not deferential"
Talk to the person, not blow smoke up their arse "
Couldn't have said it better myself |
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