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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you dom or sub? |
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We are in the neither category. |
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By *la87Man
over a year ago
acton |
Neither. I've played both but neither come naturally to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither ......but a forceful, powerful fuck apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Submissive |
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By *ammy_xMan
over a year ago
Reading |
Submissive when Tammy more Dom when I'm me |
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Sub (but only a little).
I can and do play the dom role, but only if my partner wants me to. Personally I derive very little pleasure from it, that all comes from seeing how much it pleases her.
I think this is called being a service dom / top, but I'm not 100% sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am pure bred Dom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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little subby over here Px |
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Naturally dom and very experienced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nether I'm just plain old controlling its a case of my way or the highway . |
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I am a switch. Depending on circumstances/person I'm with, I can be either. |
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Neither really but I can play dom when required. |
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sub couldnt be Dom if I tried. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Middling but more sub with men and more dominant with women xx |
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Dom with a love of dd/lg dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you dom or sub? "
Male dominant female submissive |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I'm a switch-ish.
I'm dominant to women, submissiveish to men (I say ish because I fall much more on the side of masochist... I'm not a brat as much as the amount of people I'll willingly be submissive too is exceptionally tiny) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both sub with a guy but can be a little dom with a lady. |
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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago
Northumberland |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
As we mainly only play B/d, I (Male) are always authoritative, the female will submit to either sex, unless she senses any weakness and she will switch in a second.
D/s relationships, (which he adores) the male will always be assertive, the female has no interest in any form of D/s play.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Switch, depends on mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither. Nothing against people who are into it but it annoys me when people assume you must be one or the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nothing in life is ever that black n white |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I air on the side of Dom though not always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm switch. Mark is definitely dom
M&M xxx |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
Both of us tend to lean toward sub, we like to follow another's lead. |
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Miss B dominant and Mr S sub with Miss B but can be switch x |
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100% sub, non age playing little, couldn't switch if you paid me, and I wont top from the bottom for inexperienced Dd's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dom to some, Top to other
All rather depends on the person and they dynamic
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
I'm Dom
always looking for willing subs and lg's |
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Sub all the way. Don't have it in me to be even a tiny bit dominant. |
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Switch, find both very interesting and rewarding in their own ways. Plus understanding both sides makes it easier when being Dom.
Again it depends on the person, and conversations leading towards a meet. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
Switch with sub preferences but only for the right person
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I'm sub, don't have a Dom Streak in me At all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very submissive. Always have been from an early age-did whst I was told at school, home and any after school event. Strict upbringing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both switch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub all the way. Don't have it in me to be even a tiny bit dominant."
Good to know |
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Sub/pain queen. I have a very good top/Dom |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Are you dom or sub? "
I am a Sadist with a rampant Dominant streak.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just naughty |
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Dom. There is no more pleasurable experience than holding the power of someone else's orgasm in your grasp. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every so called dom I’ve ever met has turned out to just be aggressive and informed by shit porn. That said I have quite a big dominant personality so respond well to someone naturally more dominant than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuck - prefers to be sub, although can be Dom but only to please Lara.
Lara - slightly neutral, but with more Dom tendancies and prefers to be Dom. Exhibitionist with mistress tendancies. Does NOT like being told what to do by Dom males.
Like someone said, it isn't black and white! More of a spectrum. Well at least for us. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I don't like those labels |
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"I don't like those labels"
Can see you don't wear a label. So what would you say you are? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"I don't like those labels
Can see you don't wear a label. So what would you say you are?"
I can have moments of being either. But usually I prefer equality and sensual fun and mutual exploration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disciplinarian "
Dammmmn good answer |
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I'd love to meet a powerful dom. I'd like to learn how to be vulnerable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all dependent on the sexual partner as I can do both and I’m probably more submissive in the sense that I prefer to be what the woman wants me to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub |
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I would say more alpha-esque with dominant traits. But for me, being dominant is all about the mind fucking of a submissive. In a good way of course. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Neither at the moment, I will play assertive in a dungeon in B/d play.
L will switch (however she likes to tease submissive women.
Last D/s relationship was a while ago though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More Alpha than Dom. When I do fall into a ‘dom” role i’m all about mental domination though. Physical pain isn’t my shtick. Prefer to earn the right to dominance of your mind. Make you ache to service me. Make me the centre of your world. Make my touch and my approval central to you.
Discipline, training and earning your trust to truly be your dominant other. |
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Dominant if playing with cuck type couples
Versatile with single women (usually dominant though I find is what most with me ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Starting to be dom, but it does depend on the person |
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Things tend to go better if I am dom |
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Though in general sex life I find Dom / sub doesn’t even come into it. Sex is just sex With men I have found many attempt to rot want dominate me but it doesn’t wash as they seem to not fully grasp between being passive sexually but not submissive
The two are separate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a Boy Dom |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
For the right man, in an established dynamic, very much sub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither really but wife def not sub no one would force her to do anything and if they tried they wouldn’t be around very long lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Submissive here.. wife asked me to Dom her once and my hands were literally cold doing it .. felt totally unnatural..my wife is probably neutral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub for Dom's xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you dom or sub? "
if only it was that simple as it means different things for different people over a very wide spectrum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not submissive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We switch, it works well for us.
Mrs |
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Naturally dominant but trying being submissive later today |
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After being in the lifestyle as a Dom for 20 years now I’ve learned to enjoy both sides of the coin.
It is only with a couple of partners that I have submitted but I’ve enjoyed and learned from these experiences. I feel it makes me a better Dom. |
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We are both submissive to bulls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you dom or sub? "
A difficult one for me! I love being the Dom but I think I enjoy to be the sub slightly more |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I'm more dominant than a sub really |
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Usually more in the dom space but do switch at times. |
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"Are you dom or sub? "
We're both Switches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally depends on my mood, I love being a Dom but if a lady wants to show me some power then I'm happy to be a sub. Safe words always included |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally dom xx |
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Naturally dominant, but willing to be sun for the right woman……. But I’ve only fallen that in love with one so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A little bratty sub here |
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I’m dominant with women but with single guys I tend to be submissive but with couples I’m quite switchy and can go either way depending on the dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the scenario - I’m naturally more dominant, and I love taking control. I can be quite extreme with it too
But there are also certain people that somehow make me feel submissive to them. |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
where the world takes me |
I’m naturally sub, and really don’t even have it in me to try and switch as it feels completely wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fairly neutral, but have a Dom side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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90% submissive but every now and then I do enjoy letting my Dom side out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub as Kelly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% Dom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally sub, like a man to take control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on my mood. |
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90% Dom but adaptable to each lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trying to avoid labels and pigeonholing. Flexible depending on who/how etc? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to be both
Nikki X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dom but certain women i turn sub for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely lean to the sub side |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
I have been trying both. I have played a while in the cuckold scene and wanted to try being more sub after one particular fun meet. I wanted a couple (not single guy) to have me as their toy, and within set limits do as they please. It was very hard to find genuine couples for this. I am now back to being dom and seek couples / single ladies who want to be my toy. I will do sub again if I am lucky enough to meet the right people as love being out of control |
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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago
huddersfield |
Sub would love a couple to dominate me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are in the neither category. "
Yeah neither are we, not our thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Full-blooded and experienced Dom here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexually submissive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m Dom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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usually dom but for the right woman, sometimes switch |
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Dominant. I have a preference for a submissive that has brattish tendencies |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
Completely submissive |
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Dominant here. The control is my kink though. Control is the real turn on |
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"Are you dom or sub? "
What are you?? |
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We are both dominant and love sharing submissive women
By all accounts being dominated by a couple is much more intense and pleasurable for our submissive as well
Would love to meet up with some from fab, but think this is not really the best site |
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Dom couple here, your on our hotlist and happy to talk |
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"Dominant. I have a preference for a submissive that has brattish tendencies"
Similar, but I label myself as Top, or brat tamer brats are just the most fun to play with. |
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Just love a sub, so Dom in every way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very submissive x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very submissive x
Yum. $- "
Lol. Truthful |
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"Very submissive x
Yum. $-
Lol. Truthful"
I expect the truth, I expect a lot. |
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"Submissive "
I am seeing stars. |
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"Sexually submissive "
Is there more to come? |
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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago
San Antonio |
No doubt, i'm really submissive, would luv to submit to a really kinky, dominant couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are in a full D/s relationship |
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We used to live ds not so much now, we still play d s tho,
I’m sub marks dom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Submissive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am m looking to be a sub |
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Definitely Dom. I can play vanilla, and enjoy it, but my preference is D/S play. I probably spend more time on fet than here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always a good idea to break the ice first, and found out how fare your catch wants you to be dom/sub. Sometimes they may just want you to go as fare as hair pulling, few bum smacking. In some cases, you will find that the drawer is full of hardcore stuffs they like to use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m Dom |
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Definitely not sub but would say I like to guide / steer things rather than be dom.. Dom is very specific so I understand and many get it wrong . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer assertive to dom. But it really does depend on the dynamic. I like to give as well as take, and in my experience most are in that sort of middle ground (to different degrees, obviously) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Submissive in the right hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my relationships have been with submissive women -- but I don't like fetish-fixations or tight labels, and don't want to jump through hoops doing the same thing all the time.
Contrarily, I'm also attracted to dominant women and love the energy and ideas they can bring.
Especially women who know what they want sexually and have their own ideas -- having to always be the imaginative one can be exhausting.
I think I'm just a mix of contradictions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Submissive |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We’ve only ever met submissive women who we’ve been happy to take the domme & dom roles with, but meeting a domme has always been a fantasy of ours so we can experience the shoe on the other foot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both, just depends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Switch |
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Submissive, most of the time. But only where sex is concerned.
Lou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm what's termed a 'pleasure Dom' |
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Switch, just about the needs we both/all want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a few hints in my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a few hints in my profile |
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