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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Are you dom or sub?

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots

We are in the neither category.

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By *la87Man  over a year ago

acton

Neither. I've played both but neither come naturally to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Neither ......but a forceful, powerful fuck apparently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Submissive

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By *ammy_xMan  over a year ago

Reading

Submissive when Tammy more Dom when I'm me

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By *otallysmoothMan  over a year ago

Telford

Sub guy here

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

Sub (but only a little).

I can and do play the dom role, but only if my partner wants me to. Personally I derive very little pleasure from it, that all comes from seeing how much it pleases her.

I think this is called being a service dom / top, but I'm not 100% sure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Am pure bred Dom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

little subby over here Px

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By *arry monk40Man  over a year ago

Telford

Naturally dom and very experienced

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nether I'm just plain old controlling its a case of my way or the highway .

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Bodmin

Maybe

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By *riel13Woman  over a year ago

Northampton

No

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

A bit of both

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By *iss DevilWoman  over a year ago

Bedford

I am a switch. Depending on circumstances/person I'm with, I can be either.

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By *iman2100Man  over a year ago

Glasgow

Neither really but I can play dom when required.

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By *ubmissive guyMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

sub couldnt be Dom if I tried.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Middling but more sub with men and more dominant with women xx

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By *agusMan  over a year ago

Near by

More of a sub

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By *uliette500Woman  over a year ago

Hull

Definitely sub

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By *olymalelincsMan  over a year ago

southend

Dom with a love of dd/lg dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you dom or sub? "

Male dominant female submissive

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By *adyJayneWoman  over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I'm a switch-ish.

I'm dominant to women, submissiveish to men (I say ish because I fall much more on the side of masochist... I'm not a brat as much as the amount of people I'll willingly be submissive too is exceptionally tiny)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are both sub with a guy but can be a little dom with a lady.

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By *atiekat90Woman  over a year ago

runcorn

Submissive

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By *J GeminiTV/TS  over a year ago

Northumberland

Dominant TV ,

Xx

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By *J GeminiTV/TS  over a year ago

Northumberland

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Neither .

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

As we mainly only play B/d, I (Male) are always authoritative, the female will submit to either sex, unless she senses any weakness and she will switch in a second.

D/s relationships, (which he adores) the male will always be assertive, the female has no interest in any form of D/s play.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Switch, depends on mood

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Neither. Nothing against people who are into it but it annoys me when people assume you must be one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All depends on the mood

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

nothing in life is ever that black n white

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I air on the side of Dom though not always

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm switch. Mark is definitely dom

M&M xxx

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By *omRachCouple  over a year ago

Wirral

Both of us tend to lean toward sub, we like to follow another's lead.

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By *om_Sub69Couple  over a year ago

Derby

Miss B dominant and Mr S sub with Miss B but can be switch x

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

100% sub, non age playing little, couldn't switch if you paid me, and I wont top from the bottom for inexperienced Dd's

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By *orthantsjamesMan  over a year ago

Daventry

I’m sub

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dom to some, Top to other

All rather depends on the person and they dynamic

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By *entDomMan  over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

I'm Dom

always looking for willing subs and lg's

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By *romagefraisWoman  over a year ago

Sunderland

Sub all the way. Don't have it in me to be even a tiny bit dominant.

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Are you dom or sub? "

No

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By *eeds fun guyMan  over a year ago

yorkshire

Both and can easily swap

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By *ickingdelightMan  over a year ago

Cotswolds

Switch, find both very interesting and rewarding in their own ways. Plus understanding both sides makes it easier when being Dom.

Again it depends on the person, and conversations leading towards a meet.

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By *hoirCouple  over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Switch with sub preferences but only for the right person

P

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By *lex46TV/TS  over a year ago

Near Wells

I'm sub, don't have a Dom Streak in me At all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very submissive. Always have been from an early age-did whst I was told at school, home and any after school event. Strict upbringing x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both switch

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sub all the way. Don't have it in me to be even a tiny bit dominant."

Good to know

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By *hortarseWoman  over a year ago

Norfolk

Sub/pain queen. I have a very good top/Dom

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By *icknbonnMan  over a year ago

Hinckley

Very sub here

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

In a D/s scenario, Domme

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By *hoirCouple  over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Are you dom or sub? "

I am a Sadist with a rampant Dominant streak.

C

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm just naughty

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By *uitedSuitorMan  over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

Dom. There is no more pleasurable experience than holding the power of someone else's orgasm in your grasp.

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By *ucky88oMan  over a year ago

london

Pure sub here

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple  over a year ago

Llantarnum

Very happy submissive here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Every so called dom I’ve ever met has turned out to just be aggressive and informed by shit porn. That said I have quite a big dominant personality so respond well to someone naturally more dominant than me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cuck - prefers to be sub, although can be Dom but only to please Lara.

Lara - slightly neutral, but with more Dom tendancies and prefers to be Dom. Exhibitionist with mistress tendancies. Does NOT like being told what to do by Dom males.

Like someone said, it isn't black and white! More of a spectrum. Well at least for us.

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place

I don't like those labels

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By *hortarseWoman  over a year ago

Norfolk


"I don't like those labels"

Can see you don't wear a label. So what would you say you are?

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place


"I don't like those labels

Can see you don't wear a label. So what would you say you are?"

I can have moments of being either. But usually I prefer equality and sensual fun and mutual exploration.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan  over a year ago

Bristol

Disciplinarian

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Disciplinarian "

Dammmmn good answer

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman  over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I'd love to meet a powerful dom. I'd like to learn how to be vulnerable.

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman  over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire

Sub...for the right man x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s all dependent on the sexual partner as I can do both and I’m probably more submissive in the sense that I prefer to be what the woman wants me to be

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sub

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By *ichelinstar1Man  over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

I would say more alpha-esque with dominant traits. But for me, being dominant is all about the mind fucking of a submissive. In a good way of course.

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Neither at the moment, I will play assertive in a dungeon in B/d play.

L will switch (however she likes to tease submissive women.

Last D/s relationship was a while ago though.

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By *skToShareCouple  over a year ago

High Peak

AJ - Sub to PB.

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By *uHorny1Man  over a year ago

Cannock

Definitely Dom

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple  over a year ago

Wakefield

We are a Dom/ sub couple.

k

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By *xploring2getherCouple  over a year ago

Desborough

We are both Switch

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By *haznsteCouple  over a year ago

plymouth

Sub Hubby dom wife here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

More Alpha than Dom. When I do fall into a ‘dom” role i’m all about mental domination though. Physical pain isn’t my shtick. Prefer to earn the right to dominance of your mind. Make you ache to service me. Make me the centre of your world. Make my touch and my approval central to you.

Discipline, training and earning your trust to truly be your dominant other.

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By *osie xWoman  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Sub

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By *iverscuMan  over a year ago

Berkshire

Sub

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

chichester

Dominant if playing with cuck type couples

Versatile with single women (usually dominant though I find is what most with me )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Starting to be dom, but it does depend on the person

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By *aptainhornpipeMan  over a year ago

manchester

Things tend to go better if I am dom

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By *addyBearTopMan  over a year ago

Dover

I am a switch,

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By *entlemanrogueMan  over a year ago

Motherwell

Daddy/Dom

Sensual and Sadistic

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

chichester

Though in general sex life I find Dom / sub doesn’t even come into it. Sex is just sex With men I have found many attempt to rot want dominate me but it doesn’t wash as they seem to not fully grasp between being passive sexually but not submissive

The two are separate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a Boy Dom

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la

For the right man, in an established dynamic, very much sub.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Neither really but wife def not sub no one would force her to do anything and if they tried they wouldn’t be around very long lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Submissive here.. wife asked me to Dom her once and my hands were literally cold doing it .. felt totally unnatural..my wife is probably neutral.

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By *unbipleasure84Man  over a year ago

around you

Very _ubmissive guy here pm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sub for Dom's xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you dom or sub? "

if only it was that simple as it means different things for different people over a very wide spectrum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m not submissive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We switch, it works well for us.

Mrs

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By *eviant KnightMan  over a year ago

Norton

Naturally dominant but trying being submissive later today

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By *r lovecatMan  over a year ago

leeds

After being in the lifestyle as a Dom for 20 years now I’ve learned to enjoy both sides of the coin.

It is only with a couple of partners that I have submitted but I’ve enjoyed and learned from these experiences. I feel it makes me a better Dom.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are both submissive to bulls

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you dom or sub? "

A difficult one for me! I love being the Dom but I think I enjoy to be the sub slightly more

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By *xydadbodMan  over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm more dominant than a sub really

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By *edonist79Man  over a year ago

Trowbridge

Usually more in the dom space but do switch at times.

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By *penbicoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton


"Are you dom or sub? "

We're both Switches

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally depends on my mood, I love being a Dom but if a lady wants to show me some power then I'm happy to be a sub. Safe words always included

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally dom xx

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By *iscreett84Man  over a year ago

Longford

Naturally dominant, but willing to be sun for the right woman……. But I’ve only fallen that in love with one so far

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A little bratty sub here

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By *i_guy_sloughMan  over a year ago

Langley

I’m dominant with women but with single guys I tend to be submissive but with couples I’m quite switchy and can go either way depending on the dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends on the scenario - I’m naturally more dominant, and I love taking control. I can be quite extreme with it too

But there are also certain people that somehow make me feel submissive to them.

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By *astpoetMan  over a year ago

where the world takes me

I’m naturally sub, and really don’t even have it in me to try and switch as it feels completely wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm fairly neutral, but have a Dom side

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

90% submissive but every now and then I do enjoy letting my Dom side out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sub as Kelly x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

100% Dom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally sub, like a man to take control

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By *tockport_slutWoman  over a year ago

Stockport

50/50

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By *riel13Woman  over a year ago

Northampton

No!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

100% submissive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends on my mood.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan  over a year ago

London

90% Dom but adaptable to each lady

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Trying to avoid labels and pigeonholing. Flexible depending on who/how etc?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy both!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to be both

Nikki X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dom but certain women i turn sub for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely lean to the sub side

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By *ebbie69Couple  over a year ago

milton keynes

I have been trying both. I have played a while in the cuckold scene and wanted to try being more sub after one particular fun meet. I wanted a couple (not single guy) to have me as their toy, and within set limits do as they please. It was very hard to find genuine couples for this. I am now back to being dom and seek couples / single ladies who want to be my toy. I will do sub again if I am lucky enough to meet the right people as love being out of control

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By *oppet22TV/TS  over a year ago

huddersfield

Sub would love a couple to dominate me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are in the neither category. "

Yeah neither are we, not our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Full-blooded and experienced Dom here

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By *hunkymonkey81Man  over a year ago

Sheffield

Either/Or happy to be anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sexually submissive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m Dom

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By *inkycreamCouple  over a year ago

manchester

Submissive totally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

usually dom but for the right woman, sometimes switch

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By *ichelinstar1Man  over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

Dominant. I have a preference for a submissive that has brattish tendencies

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By *adetMan  over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Completely submissive

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By *urhamDomMan  over a year ago

Durham

Dominant here. The control is my kink though. Control is the real turn on

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By *ohnandJulieCouple  over a year ago

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"Are you dom or sub? "

What are you??

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple  over a year ago

Watton

We are both dominant and love sharing submissive women

By all accounts being dominated by a couple is much more intense and pleasurable for our submissive as well

Would love to meet up with some from fab, but think this is not really the best site

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple  over a year ago

Watton

Dom couple here, your on our hotlist and happy to talk

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By *BootyfulDayWoman  over a year ago

Tend to be more sub but that is only with someone I feel comfortable with and trust though will always take passionate fun sex over sticking to ‘roles’

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By *iberius61Man  over a year ago

Pontefract


"Dominant. I have a preference for a submissive that has brattish tendencies"

Similar, but I label myself as Top, or brat tamer brats are just the most fun to play with.

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By * U mineMan  over a year ago

Fun

Just love a sub, so Dom in every way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very submissive x

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By * U mineMan  over a year ago

Fun


"Very submissive x"

Yum. $-

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very submissive x

Yum. $- "

Lol. Truthful

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By *hroatitboyMan  over a year ago

GLA

Naturally quite submissive x

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By *arialoueWoman  over a year ago

bradford

Neither

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By * U mineMan  over a year ago

Fun

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By * U mineMan  over a year ago

Fun


"Very submissive x

Yum. $-

Lol. Truthful"

I expect the truth, I expect a lot.

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By * U mineMan  over a year ago

Fun


"Submissive "

I am seeing stars.

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By * U mineMan  over a year ago

Fun


"Sexually submissive "

Is there more to come?

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By *iM4kinkMan  over a year ago

San Antonio

No doubt, i'm really submissive, would luv to submit to a really kinky, dominant couple.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are in a full D/s relationship

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By *landfordfabbersCouple  over a year ago

Blandford ish

We used to live ds not so much now, we still play d s tho,

I’m sub marks dom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Submissive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am m looking to be a sub

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By *terobs6869Man  over a year ago

Llandudno

Definitely Dom. I can play vanilla, and enjoy it, but my preference is D/S play. I probably spend more time on fet than here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always a good idea to break the ice first, and found out how fare your catch wants you to be dom/sub. Sometimes they may just want you to go as fare as hair pulling, few bum smacking. In some cases, you will find that the drawer is full of hardcore stuffs they like to use.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m Dom

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By *arry monk40Man  over a year ago

Telford

Dom who wants some

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By *ad boy maverickMan  over a year ago

basildon

Definitely not sub but would say I like to guide / steer things rather than be dom.. Dom is very specific so I understand and many get it wrong .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer assertive to dom. But it really does depend on the dynamic. I like to give as well as take, and in my experience most are in that sort of middle ground (to different degrees, obviously)

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

dom here,,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Submissive in the right hands

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of my relationships have been with submissive women -- but I don't like fetish-fixations or tight labels, and don't want to jump through hoops doing the same thing all the time.

Contrarily, I'm also attracted to dominant women and love the energy and ideas they can bring.

Especially women who know what they want sexually and have their own ideas -- having to always be the imaginative one can be exhausting.

I think I'm just a mix of contradictions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Submissive

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve only ever met submissive women who we’ve been happy to take the domme & dom roles with, but meeting a domme has always been a fantasy of ours so we can experience the shoe on the other foot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both, just depends.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Switch

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By *pentoall555Man  over a year ago

benfleet

I am submissive

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple  over a year ago

Maidstone

Submissive, most of the time. But only where sex is concerned.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm what's termed a 'pleasure Dom'

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By *obbiKentMan  over a year ago

maidstone

Switch, just about the needs we both/all want

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s a few hints in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s a few hints in my profile

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